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Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

author：Sheng Hong
Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

Chen Mingren was a founding general who led his troops to the battlefield for decades and made outstanding military achievements. But today we will not mention how many victories he has fought, but only about the tenderness of this iron man. Although he and his wife were arranged marriages in the feudal era, the two had a deep affection and never abandoned them.

After 36 years of hand in hand, his wife Xie Fangru died of illness, and Chen Mingren, who rarely shed tears in his life, cried bitterly and could not let go for a long time. Husband and wife, they frothed with each other and harvested the most sincere feelings.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

In 1903, Chen Mingren was born into a family of squires in Liling, Hunan. When he was 13 years old, his mother fell seriously ill. The grandmother in charge of household affairs let Chen Mingren marry Xie Fangru, a fellow villager, in order to rush the joy. It was said that they were married, but Xie Fangru was only 14 years old at the time, and the two were more like playmates of Qingmei Bamboo Horse, so they came together.

Arranged marriages in the feudal era seem to be mostly unhappy, but the marriage of Chen Xie and Chen Xie is an exception. Although the two are young, they are sincere and kind in nature, and their feelings are getting deeper and deeper. Xie Fangru is a traditional housewife, down-to-earth and understanding. For her, her husband is everything, so she unconditionally supports any decision made by Chen Mingren.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

After marriage, Chen Mingren did not give up studying, and in 1920 he was admitted to Changsha Duize Middle School, and three years later he returned to his hometown to become a teacher. Although the husband and wife gathered less and left more during this period, their feelings did not fade by half a point. Xie Fangru is not very old, but very reliable, handles family affairs in an orderly manner, and assumes the responsibility of a wife, so that Chen Mingren can study with peace of mind.

Although Chen Mingren became a teacher, his ambitions are far more than this, and he is waiting for the opportunity for Dapeng to spread his wings. Finally, in October 1923, Cheng Li presided over the opening of the Army Martial Arts School in Guangzhou, which was opened for hunan enrollment.

At that time, the situation was chaotic, and most of the young people with lofty ideals chose to throw their pens into the rong, and so did Chen Mingren. He desperately hoped that he could put on a military uniform instead of being a teacher in his hometown.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

The Chen family was still in charge of Chen Mingren's grandmother at that time. When my grandmother heard that he was going to go to military school, she immediately objected firmly and refused to give him money. Chen Mingren has always been filial and does not dare to disobey his grandmother, but not going to Guangzhou means that he cannot realize his ideals, and under the dilemma, he is depressed.

Although Xie Fangru was reluctant to let her husband go away, she always supported Chen Mingren's decision. Without travel expenses, Xie Fangru secretly sold the sows in the family and raised 20 silver dollars. She repeatedly persuaded her grandmother that she believed her husband could make a career. Under Xie Fangru's soft and hard bubble, the grandmother finally nodded.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

The good boy is determined to be in the four directions, but Chen Mingren already has a wife and children, which is also his responsibility. Before Chen Mingren left, he did everything he could and solemnly promised his wife that when my career was successful in the future, he would definitely take his wife and children to his side to take care of him.

Although Xie Fangru could not be relieved, the tears did not stop, but she still repeatedly said that she supported. Both were afraid to part ways from now on, not knowing when they would see each other. But Chen Mingren's lofty ambitions, she understands.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

After Chen Mingren arrived in Guangzhou, he enrolled in the Army Martial Arts School, but the school was merged into the Whampoa Military Academy due to insufficient operating funds, and Chen Mingren was also transferred to the first batch of students of the Whampoa Military Academy. In 1925, the Whampoa Student Army went on a crusade against the warlord Chen Jiongming, and Chen Mingren regarded death as a homecoming, and was the first to climb the Huizhou City Tower and raise the Blue Sky and White Sun Flag.

The move boosted morale and the war was a resounding success. At the celebration meeting, Jiang did not hesitate to praise this talented and ambitious young man.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

Chen Mingren's military talents were recognized, and he was constantly promoted, becoming a battalion commander within a year. In order to win him over, Jiang instructed Chen Mingren's regimental commander Hui Dongsheng to introduce him to a marriage. The object was none other than Liao Zhongkai's daughter. At that time, Liao Zhongkai's status in the National Government was extremely high, and if Chen Mingren could climb the high branch of the Liao family and become Liao Zhongkai's son-in-law, he would surely rise step by step.

Hui Dongsheng came to Chen Mingren, and as soon as he mentioned the conversation, Chen Mingren immediately said that he already had a wife and children. In Hui Dongsheng's eyes, this marriage is a great thing for Chen Mingren, and he repeatedly emphasizes that Liao Zhongkai can bring help and a great future for Chen Mingren, but Chen Mingren is not moved.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

Hui Dongsheng advised him:

"This marriage is not what I mean, in the end it is still Principal Jiang's meaning." The importance he attaches to you is evident, and you don't miss an opportunity. "

The nature of a soldier is obedience, and Hui Dongsheng uses Chiang to persecute Chen Mingren. But Chen Mingren still refused:

"If Principal Jiang wants me to do something else, then I will not hesitate to obey." But I am Chen Mingren, not Chen Shimei. For the sake of my own future, I will abandon my wife and children, and I can't do such a thing. "

Hui Dongsheng knew that no matter what he said, Chen Mingren would not be moved by it, so he simply gave up and told Jiang the original words. Although Jiang was unhappy in his heart, he also respected Chen Mingren's personality in his heart, and he no longer mentioned this marriage.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

Although Chen Mingren is not "Chen Shimei", there are many such figures in the military. Many officers and generals abandoned their wives for their careers, and many people took several small concubines after becoming famous. Because of this, unswerving commitment is even more precious.

Chen Mingren is a different kind, he always thinks about his wife and children who are still in his hometown, and after becoming the leader of the regiment, he quickly took Xie Fangru and his children to his side, and never moved other thoughts. Xie Fangru is a small-footed woman from the countryside, she can't read big characters, but Chen Mingren is already the leader of the regiment, and she hopes that she can become her husband's right hand.

So Chen Mingren taught her to read, read, telegraph, and trained her to be her "adjutant." Xie Fangru was diligent and soon became a competent kennaisuke, and even soldiers in the army called her "half a commander".

Before each time Chen Mingren led his troops on a campaign, Xie Fangru would hold a family banquet, entertain his subordinates, and raise a toast to boost the morale of the soldiers. When Chen Mingren returned from victory, she led the soldiers' families and drove tens of miles to welcome them back. The two supported each other and became a good story in the military.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

Chen Mingren was passionate and straight, not good at flattery, although he had made many military achievements, he was repeatedly surrendered by Jiang Mingsheng. He gradually realized that what the Nationalist government was doing was contrary to his original intentions. Xie Fangru looked in his heart, understood his heart, and said:

"Whatever decision you make, my children and I are there for you."

Chen Mingren seemed to have taken a cardiotonic agent, and he was even more determined in his thoughts. In 1949, when Chiang Kai-shek was gone, Chen Mingren, in order to avoid the wounds of the people from being injured by artillery fire, revolted and surrendered, peacefully liberated Changsha, and protected the city and its people.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

Chen Mingren abandoned the dark and cast the light, made an important choice in life, joined the Communist Party, and made a thousand achievements. But at this time, Xie Fangru was diagnosed with cancer. She had been feeling unwell for some time, but in order not to distract her husband, she had to endure it.

Chen Mingren heard this bad news and was deeply saddened, he encouraged Xie Fangru to be optimistic, and he couldn't help but cry. The republic had just been established, and Chen Mingren's responsibilities were still very heavy, and he felt very guilty about not being able to protect his wife wholeheartedly. But Xie Fangru understood that her husband was a soldier and a general, so she always supported him.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

The disease did not spare the loving couple, and Xie Fangru died of illness in 1950. In the last moments before her death, Chen Mingren stood by her hospital bed, tears flowing. It is said that boys have tears and do not flick, but how can the pain of losing their beloved wife be easily endured. Chen Mingren wrote a tombstone for his deceased wife: The Tomb of My Wife Xie Fangru.

After the loss of his beloved wife, he knelt on his knees at the memorial service, cried and read the elegy he had written for his wife, and couldn't sleep all night, crying for three days and three nights.

In 1955, the Communist Party recognized his contributions and talents and awarded Chen Mingren the rank of general of the Chinese People's Liberation Army.

In 1974, Chen Mingren died in Beijing, and before his death, he repeatedly told his children and grandchildren that he must return his ashes to Changsha and be buried with his wife Xie Fangru.

But Chen Mingren's wish did not come true immediately. It was not until 2009, up to 35 years, that Chen Mingren and his wife Xie Fangru were buried together on the Yuelu Mountain in Changsha, drawing a satisfactory end to their love.

Chen Mingren told his children and grandchildren on his deathbed: To be buried with his wife, until 35 years later, the last wish was realized, the young plum bamboo horse finally married and decided to make a great contribution from his wife and children in the rong family, and the wife and children who did not abandon the chaff were finally reunited The wife was the right arm although the couple had a deep affection, but the wife died first

Born to be the same, death is the same cave. This is the deepest love in the eyes of traditional Chinese. Chen Xie and the two were young and young, married and treated each other with absolute sincerity for a lifetime. They supported each other in difficult times, and the material temptations did not let their feelings stain the dust, but instead passed the test and became more pure.

Thousands of miles back, it is a trick. From now on, the sound will be long, unless they meet in a dream. Thirty years of love, eternal unity, provoking the affection of the two, dare to say that there are few in the world.

Life is finite, but sincere and pure love can last forever. When we remember this general who has made great achievements, we will also be touched by their feelings. Although the years that Chen Mingren and Xie Fangru have walked hand in hand have passed, Yuelu Mountain is the eternal proof of their love.

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