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When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

On August 2, 2009, chen Mingren, the founding general who had been buried in Babaoshan Cemetery for 35 years, "moved" Chen Mingren out for no other reason than his last wishes, and was buried with his beloved wife Xie Fangru.

When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust
When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

Chen Mingren, Liling, Hunan, came from an ordinary peasant family, although the family was not rich, but his parents did their best to provide him with education, so Chen Mingren received a good education since childhood, however, when Chen Mingren was 14 years old, his mother was seriously ill, which made the family that was not rich worse.

At that time, the medical treatment was not advanced, so the Chen family pinned their hopes on the "ghost god" and wanted to use the practice of "Chong Xi" to keep Mother Chen, so 14-year-old Chen Mingren, ignorant of understanding, married Xie Fangru, a neighboring village girl who was one year older than himself, but unfortunately, Xie Fangru's arrival also failed to save Mother Chen, and this winter, Mother Chen still passed away.

When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

After the death of Mother Chen, 15-year-old Xie Fangru took on the responsibility of taking care of the housework and taking care of Chen Mingren's 4 young siblings.

Chen Mingren and Xie Fangru are arranged marriages, but also "doll kisses", to say how deep the two just have feelings, this is unrealistic, but Xie Fangru's dedication to the Chen family, Chen Mingren really sees in the eyes, it is precisely because of xie Fangru's existence, Chen Mingren can read with peace of mind, Chen Mingren to his wife Xie Fangru, is a deep respect from the bottom of his heart.

Within a few years of marriage, the two had 2 sons and 1 daughter, but unfortunately, their daughters did not grow up.

When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

Soon, the time came to 1924, at this time, Chen Mingren, who had been teaching in his hometown for several years, was not willing to be a teacher who cared about state affairs, so he decided to throw himself into the pen, however, this move was opposed by his family, especially Chen Mingren's grandmother, who did not want his grandson to go to the battlefield to fight and die.

When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

But as a wife, Xie Fangru knew that her husband was not a thing in the pool, although she was equally reluctant in her heart, but she helped Chen Mingren persuade her grandmother, and eventually, Chen Mingren was admitted to the Wuhan Guangzhou Army Martial Arts School and started her military career, and soon after, Chen Mingren transferred to the Whampoa Military Academy.

I have to say that Chen Mingren is indeed a military wizard, the second year of joining the army, the Northern Expedition, chen Mingren was still a new soldier, but in the Battle of Dongguan, with a platoon to destroy Chen Jiongming, was promoted to company commander, and soon after the Battle of Huizhou, Chen Mingren rushed to the head of the city with the death squad, so chen Mingren was favored by Chiang Kai-shek and was publicly promoted to battalion commander.

Chen Mingren, who entered Chiang Kai-shek's sight, rose rapidly in the Nationalist army, and by 1928, Chen Mingren was the commander of the Nationalist 88th Division.

When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

The red people around the "chairman of the committee" naturally have many people's attention, and Chen Mingren is naturally no exception, knowing that Chen Mingren's original match is only a rural woman, and the people who introduced his new wife to him are even more numerous, but they are all rejected by Chen Mingren one by one.

What Chen Mingren did not expect was that the chairman's wife, Song Meiling, was also concerned about his life's affairs and matched him with Liao Zhongkai's daughter.

Liao Zhongkai, but a veteran figure of the Republic of China government, protégés are countless old, if you can marry his daughter, then Chen Mingren must be like a tiger, but Chen Mingren refused, he said to Song Meiling: "... He did not dare to stop his wife and marry another wife, and to be an unfilial and unjust person."

Later, Chen Mingren took his wife Xie Fangru and 2 children to his side, the family life is very sweet, although Xie Fangru is not highly educated, nor have she seen much of the world, but when she became the "official wife", she worked hard to improve herself, did her best to help Chen Mingren, simple and frank Xie Fangru, but more close to the military generals than others, known as "half a military commander".

When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust
When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

Soon, the time was 1949, when the Republic of China government was on the verge of extinction, and Chen Mingren was also planning a peaceful uprising, at this time, Xie Fangru fell ill and was sent to Xiangya Hospital.

Xie Fangru in the hospital knew that time was short, so he began to consider his own posthumous affairs, at this time, the children of the two had grown up, the only thing that made Xie Fangru uneasy was Chen Mingren, so Xie Fangru began to consider finding an object for Chen Mingren to continue the string, and soon, the attending doctor Xiao Yi attracted Xie Fangru's attention.

Xiao Yi is the daughter of Xiao Yuanding, the president of Xiangya Hospital, who has been busy with work, and is still unmarried in his early 30s, and Chen Mingren at that time was only a dozen years older than Xiao Yi, Xie Fangru felt that the two were very suitable together.

When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

In April 1951, Xie Fangru was terminally ill and died, so he entrusted Chen Mingren to Xiao Yi.

Soon Xie Fangru died of illness, and Chen Mingren, who had lost his wife who had accompanied him for 36 years, was an old man in tears, kneeling on his knees and reciting a eulogy.

In 1952, in the year when Xie Fangru died of illness, Chen Mingren and Xiao Yi married each other for 22 years, until 1974, when Chen Mingren died at the age of 71.

When he became a relative at the age of 14, some people advised him to marry another woman after his death, and he did not dare to stop his wife and marry another person who was unfilial and unjust

Although more than 20 years have passed, Chen Mingren still has a deep affection for his original wife Xie Fang, and his last words will be buried with Xie Fangru, unfortunately, for various reasons, Chen Mingren died and was buried in Babaoshan, until 36 years later, his wish was realized.

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