Jia Jingwen posted on Teachers' Day in Taiwan: Thank you to my three little life mentors, because of you, I really learned a lot. Love is eternal patience and kindness, it seems to be more suitable for you, please continue to teach, let me become a better mommy yo.
We always say that children are like a mirror that can reflect the shortcomings of adults.
As a public figure, Jia Jingwen's married life has also attracted much media attention. After a failed marriage with an ex-husband, she left a daughter, and in order to fight for custody of her daughter, she did not want property, did not want face. Now, the daughter has a good relationship with her mother, and every year on Mother's Day and Jia Jingwen's birthday, she will send blessings and gifts in time.
Jia Jingwen once said, "Being a mother has taught me a lot, learned to love, tolerate, endure, and learn respect."
We can see from the bits and pieces of their lives that the family's relationship is really good.
Someone said, "Don't be a parent, don't know the grace of your parents."
However, I would like to say that not being a parent, not knowing that the child is the ferryman of the parent.
Why?
When parents have children, they can't help but have a strong sense of responsibility in their hearts, because they hope to be good parents for their children.
It is the child who teaches parents what love is.
A single mother who came to counsel, living alone with her son, had always hated her ex-husband and often fell into the quagmire of past marriages and could not extricate herself.
It wasn't until she saw an essay written by her son: "My Mother", that she understood that there was such an important love in the world.
The composition is written like this:
My mom, not perfect at all, doesn't cook good food and won't give me origami airplanes.
My mom was lazy and sometimes got up later than I did.
My mom would lose her temper and when I didn't do my homework well, she criticized me.
But I still love my mom, she's the best mom in the world.
This essay is the child's heartfelt love. Her son loves her very much.
Although she can't do many things, none of this matters in her son's mind, it's all because she has an identity: "mother."
The love of the child is unconditional.
The child loves her, and will watch TV quietly alone when she wakes up late, not disturbing her sleep; will call her often when she commutes the night shift to let her come home early; will burrow into her arms when lightning and thunder strike and give her warmth.
She said that because of what her son did, she learned to let go of the hatred in her heart, began to reconcile with herself, and learned to love herself and others. Learn to adjust your anxious mentality, learn to smile happily at yourself, laugh at others, work hard, and spend more time with your children.
There is a good saying that the child is the angel sent by Heaven to save his parents.
PiroFerucci, author of The Child is a Philosopher, says:
"I needed to be patient with my two children, and I knew that before I had them, but it wasn't until I was so engrossed in the role of father that I realized I needed a lot of patience."
I have to say that children are the ferrymen of their parents.
It is they who have taught their parents to be tolerant, to tolerate to make others happy, and to be happy themselves; they have taught their parents what love is, and love can dissolve all inextricable obsessions; they have taught parents to be patient when they encounter difficulties, and patience is the only way to solve difficulties.
I am reminded of a poem by Tagore: "He loves the sun, he loves to look at his mother's face; he has not learned to hate dirt but to desire gold; hold him in your heart and bless him!" ”