Last summer, because of Lee's current outstanding performance in "Dear, Beloved", his screen debut "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart" was pulled out by fans and followed by a hot one.
This spring's epidemic, with the hot spot of "Fang Fang's Diary", the movie "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart" adapted from Fang Fang's novel of the same name has ushered in a wave of hot searches. The film uses the feng shui pattern of the house ten thousand arrows piercing the heart, and compares the marriage tragedy of Baoli ten thousand arrows piercing the heart.
The film reviews about this drama are very hot, these film reviews are summarized, the most comments are that character determines fate, and Li Baoli's (played by Yan Bingyan) is too strong to lead to her own marriage tragedy.
It has been said that humility and weakness are the greatest wisdom of women. No matter how much you give for your family, once you complain, get angry, and get angry, all the credit disappears, and the rest is the fault.
According to this standard, Li Baoli, who has a straight personality and does not bend, is absolutely tricked, and it is not strange to criticize her one-sidedly. However, if you read Fang Fang's original work, your evaluation will definitely be more pertinent. After in-depth analysis, you will find that what made Baoli fall into the situation of "ten thousand arrows piercing the heart" is of course her personality reason, but her hypocritical mother-in-law is also "indispensable"!
The feng shui of a house and the entanglement of two pairs of mother and son run through the beginning and end of Baoli Wanjian's life.
"Happy families are similar, unhappy families have their own misfortunes." - Anna. Karenina
As Tolstoy famously said, the family of Li Baoli, the heroine of "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart", is one of these thousands of unfortunate families.
Phoenix male Ma Xuewu (played by Jiao Gang) has a successful career, was promoted to the director of the factory office, and the unit gave her a set of welfare houses. From the day he moved into his new home, he and his wife Li Baoli, who had a strong personality, good looks, and was a town hukou, began a life of sharing the same bed and dream.
First, Ma Xuewu cheated on his union colleague Zhou Fen (played by Wang Moxi), but was accidentally caught by the public security bureau, beaten back to his original form, and re-entered the workshop. Soon after, the unit was forced to lay off employees. When the roof leaked in the overnight rain, Ma Xuewu was gray and committed suicide by jumping into the river.
In order to support her family, Li Baoli, who was also laid off and reemployed, gave up a comfortable salesman job and picked up a flat shoulder to become a flat shoulder female worker who earned money by selling coolies. With a pair of weak shoulders, she gritted her teeth and carried the heavy responsibility of the family.
However, after ten years of widowhood and ten years of hard work, BaoLi exchanged for the title of her son Ma Xiaobao (played by Li Xian) on the golden list, and desperately drove her out of the end. This blow caught Baoli, who was dedicated to supporting her family and had a simple mind, caught off guard, and the pain of cutting her heart was like a thousand arrows piercing her heart.
I have to say that Fang Fang is very familiar with the life of Wuhan people and also understands the character of Wuhan people. She used her profound writing skills to cleverly add the superstitions of Wuhan people to Baoli's life and became the jade thread that ran through the whole play. Life is not easy, the little people of these eras have tried their best, want to live this life, but they can't ask for it. Therefore, the film does not criticize any living characters, but only uses the superstitious sayings of Wuhan people to attribute Baoli's misfortune to the feng shui of the house.
Because the house that Ma Xuewu got is the meeting point of four main roads and three branch roads, it seems that feng shui is like "ten thousand arrows piercing the heart" and is not easy to live. But finally being able to live in a house with a separate bathroom is too tempting for Li Baoli. She stubbornly said: "This is not a thousand arrows piercing the heart, what I see is a thousand rays of light." “
Although Baoli was full of confidence and gave her all her heart, the spell of "ten thousand arrows through the heart" still followed, which made Baoli taste the pain.
The mother-in-law is strong and the dove occupies the magpie's nest, weakening Li Baoli's sense of existence at home.
A good woman, happy for three generations. - "Liu Fang. Women like water
It is a little unbelievable that a woman will affect three generations, but the influence of Baoli's hypocritical mother-in-law (played by He Minglan) on Baoli's life and on the descendants of the Old Ma family is just right to confirm this.
First of all, she did not respect the life of her son and daughter-in-law and forced herself into a new house. She is self-centered, and after the death of her wife, without consulting her son and daughter-in-law, she made her own decision and carried her luggage to live in her son's home. She did not know that at this time her son was cheating, and her daughter-in-law was angry about it. She only knows that raising children is to prevent old age, and when I am old, I should live in my son's house, and my son should raise me. Her wayward son is acceptable, but As a daughter-in-law, Li Baoli has an idea. Li Baoli was not good at hiding her mood, and immediately pulled down her face, and quarreled with Ma Xuewu that night.
The cunning old lady pretended to run away from home, but in fact hid downstairs to watch the movements, and let her grandson Xiaobao "find her" by the way. The child's world is simple, and the child's view of right and wrong is even more direct. This farce not only allowed the clever grandmother to successfully settle into the new home, but also carved the bad image of her mother driving away her grandmother in Xiao Bao's young heart.
Secondly, her son committed suicide, and she took her daughter-in-law as the object of her son's death. After the mother-in-law moved in strongly, although the relationship between Ma Xuewu and his wife was cold, it could be maintained, but the subsequent layoff storm became the last straw that crushed Ma Xuewu and caused him to jump into the river and commit suicide. Shocked to hear the bad news, Ma Mu threw this unjust head to Li Baoli, who believed that Li Baoli's strength forced her son to die, causing them to separate their mother and son from yin and yang.
In the end, she planted the seeds of hatred and used her grandson as a tool to get revenge on her daughter-in-law. After the death of her son, Ma Mu asked to continue to stay and take care of Xiao Bao on the grounds that she wanted to replace Ma Xuewu in raising Xiao Bao, and promised to leave after Xiao Bao grew up and never stay in this family again. The kind-hearted Li Baoli nodded silently and shouldered the heavy responsibility of supporting the family. But she didn't know her nightmare, and it began to last from the time she nodded her head to take in the old lady.
This clever grandmother always pays attention to Xiao Bao, and she does not let Bao Li and Xiao Bao have the opportunity to communicate for various high-sounding reasons. Always prevent them from getting close to mother and son. Baoli's mind is simple, plus she is already very tired, and she unconsciously slacks her concern for her children. Over time, Grandma silently cut off the mother-son relationship between Baoli and Xiaobao.
Xiao Bao had seen the scene of her mother driving away her grandmother, and slowly cultivated her feelings with her grandmother in her daily care, so she naturally accepted her grandmother's ideological indoctrination, and he loved her grandmother and refused to go far to her mother.
Her husband said goodbye, jumped into the river and committed suicide, throwing Li Baoli the burden of supporting her family.
As the saying goes: teach the son before the person, teach the wife by the pillow.
In the moving scene at the beginning of the film, Ma Xuewu's cowardly, indifferent, and dark personality is clearly seen. While enjoying the protection of his daughter-in-law Baoli, this phoenix man despises Baoli's vulgar style of dealing with the world in his heart.
Maybe they once fell in love, but now Ma Xuewu, as a phoenix man who successfully jumped the farm, has worked hard to integrate into the city he once longed for, and he began to look at Baoli with the eyes of urban people and dislike Baoli.
And Baoli has always loved Ma Xuewu, and she is unwilling to leave Ma Xuewu or her family to be separated. But the contradiction is that she is accustomed to using the superiority of the city people to get along with Ma Xuewu, so Li Baoli is innuenistic to Ma Xuewu, and Ma Xuewu responds to Li Baoli with cold war and derailment in order to maintain the dignity of intellectuals.
However, what Baoli did not expect was that after Ma Xuewu experienced a derailment storm and suffered a heavy blow of demotion, he just caught up with the wave of layoffs in the unit. What she didn't expect was that when Ma Xuewu heard that he was going to be laid off, he actually couldn't withstand the blow, so he jumped into the river and ended his life.
Sending Ma Xuewu away, she asked her girlfriend Xiaojing timidly, she was laid off earlier than Ma Xuewu, how could she live, but Ma Xuewu could not live? Xiao Jing replied to her: It is because your house is a pattern of ten thousand arrows piercing the heart, so you have this disaster.
The superficial reason for Paulie's misfortune seems to be related to the house. Because all the troubles started with Paulie moving into a house and ended with Paulie moving out of the house.
In fact, a deeper analysis, the reason is still in Ma Xuewu's mother. Ma Xuewu is a test-taking machine cultivated by his mother, which cannot withstand the test of social wind and rain, and cannot bear the responsibility of sending his son to the end of his parents' pension. As a husband, he can't stand at the height of protecting his wife and educating him. For his wife's indecent words and deeds, he did not dare to educate and lead, and some just abandoned and gave up. When a marriage encounters a reef, it cheats. When they were laid off, they were born lightly.
Ma Xuewu committed suicide by taking his own life, and Ma Mu never examined whether it was her own educational concept of emphasizing light morality and ignoring psychology, which caused Baoli to be a middle-aged widow. But he blamed Bao Li for forcing Ma Xuewu to die too strongly, causing her son to die early, and harming her grandson for not having a father early.
After throwing the pot Baoli, she lived in Baoli's house with peace of mind, spent Baoli's money, dominated Baoli's son, used her improper three views to continue to plague her grandson, and secretly dug a pit for Baoli's painful life.
The son was born and left, driving her out of the house, so that Li Baoli could experience the pain of ten thousand arrows piercing the heart.
Happy people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, while unfortunate people heal their childhood with a lifetime. - "Native Family"
In all the stories about Primary Three, as children, they will always help their parents defend the family and hate Little Three. Paulie's son, on the contrary, actually believed Insan's provocation and aimed his hatred at his own mother.
After xiaobao's gold list was named, he asked his mother to transfer the house and move out of the house left by his father, and he would only live with his grandmother in the future. During the meal, she asked Paulie to drink the glass of absolute love wine, and after drinking it, he and Paulie were no longer mother and son.
Paulie was surprised and angry, but there was nothing she could do, nothing she could do. She is a person who only buries her head in pulling a cart and does not look up at the road. She has devoted her life to providing financial support for her family and will not pay attention to and communicate effectively.
Fortunately, Paulie is strong and loves her children deeply. She took out the real estate deed and handed it to her mother-in-law, telling her that as long as Xiao Bao felt right, she did not care. In the end, she took away her clothes and luggage with a flat shoulder and left the house that made her pay half her body and soul and made her feel like a thousand arrows through her heart.
Franklin said, "Time is the cure for all diseases." "But with Grandma's ear to face life, time can't open the knot of hatred for Her mother in Xiao Bao's heart."
Xiao Bao's life is still very long, if he lives with hatred, life will lose its original color forever. If one day, he suddenly woke up and understood his mother's hard work, but his mother had long since disappeared, would he hate himself for this? Will you carry the cross of the heart? It can be seen that the little treasure that is filled with hatred and feels that it has lost its affection will be painful whether it is awakened or not.
Devotion is the true meaning of life – Adler
The most difficult thing to get along with in China is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as long as the daughter-in-law has a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, even if her husband cheats, she will not fight alone. But Baoli did not know this, when her mother-in-law wanted to move into the new home, she only knew how to gamble, and lost the best opportunity to repair the relationship with Ma Xuewu.
Until later, after Ma Xuewu was forced to lay off his post, he committed suicide without love, and his mother-in-law began to be angry with her, began to steal Xiao Bao's love, and finally successfully kicked her out. From the beginning to the end, this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who is selfish and who loves, has become very obvious.
You forced my son to die and say goodbye to me, and I taught you to turn your eyes against you and live away from you. The most bitter parting of life and death in the world will make you taste it all. At this point, the mother-in-law finally completed the ten-year revenge plan.
Fortunately, Baoli is a kind person, although she will not recognize the hypocritical person, but her kindness makes her choose to give up. After turning around, she received Jianjian's love, and thus knocked on the door of happiness. Jianjian (played by Chen Gang) and Bao Li are a type of small person, and they know how to cherish each other more.
But everyone has their own motivation for doing things, and from their own point of view, maybe all of them are right. Therefore, life is difficult to say right or wrong, only to have just the right encounter. Being able to meet the right person at the right time, form a happy home, and live a happy life is the greatest happiness. As Plato said, "If you are not happy, if you are unhappy, you can only let go." ”