Ma Xuewu jumped into the river.
Among his bereaved family, only his young son and his elderly mother are mentioned.
There was not a word for his wife Li Baoli.
What is even more suffocating is that before Ma Xuewu jumped into the river, he sandwiched the photo of his lover Zhou Fen in a book he often read.
He concluded that his uncultured wife, Li Baoli, would never find out, of course, what if he found out, he was already dead anyway.
The photo sandwiched in the book is Ma Xuewu's most vicious contempt for Li Baoli, and it is also the last straw that overwhelms Li Baoli.
What is Masquerade Good Guy? To put it bluntly, it is horizontal in the nest and instigated outside. Be polite to outsiders and resentful to your family.
Ma Xuewu belongs to this kind of man.
On the day of the move, Li Baoli went from packing to handling, and finally did not fall with the car. Fight with the workers because of the cost of transportation, and then follow the workers to arrange furniture and clean.
Perhaps because Li Baoli has been playing the role of selling coolies in this family for many years, Li Xuewu does not pay attention to her efforts at all.
On the contrary, he was polite to the workers who carried them, handed cigarettes, and bought drinks. And his wife, Li Baoli, has not even served a cup of water.
In fact, in marriage, there is Babe's law everywhere, when we give too much to a person, our good will become cheaper and cheaper.
Li Baoli's goodness to Ma Xuewu is like this, cheap enough not to deserve Ma Xuewu's glance and comfort. It seems that all this is Li Baoli's self-inflicted guilt and should be done. In Ma Xuewu's heart, he had always looked down on Li Baoli.
Otherwise, he would not have humiliated Li Baoli's lack of culture before he died.
He would not make up his mind to divorce Li Baoli because of a few words from the worker master.
A truly intelligent man must defend his wife in front of outsiders, because this is also defending his marriage on the side.
Only a fragile marriage will go to a strange road because of a few provocations from outsiders.
Brother, although we work hard and do rough work, the women in the family are still quite virtuous, and it is much more comfortable than you. I can see that you are also a cadre on the outside, but so what, you have been managed by such a woman for a lifetime, it is really quite pitiful.
Ma Xuewu was deeply stung by the movers' words, if he originally had a trace of conjugal feelings for Li Baoli, but after this passage, he really had only one thought, that is, "divorce".
Never loved and now do not love is completely two concepts, Ma Xuewu is the former to Li Baoli, so a few random provocations, immediately messed up his position, so he feels that divorce can get rid of Li Baoli, divorce he will really look like a cadre!
What kind of men are most likely to cheat?
Young and inferior, but middle-aged men with ambitions.
Unfortunately, Ma Xuewu is like this. When Li Baoli married Ma Xuewu, she was young and beautiful, although she had no culture, but she was also a factory worker, with a stable income, and the men who chased her could also line up several streets.
But she fell in love with Ma Xuewu, a man who was poor, but cultured and honest. Poor Shusheng married Miss Pretty, and said that everywhere Ma Xuewu took advantage.
So in this marriage, the conjugal relationship between two people is first of all unequal. In front of Li Baoli, Ma Xuewu will always be a "countryman", not only he is, but also his mother who teaches in the countryside is a "countryman".
Therefore, Ma Xuewu's inferiority was first given by Li Baoli, and the inferiority in feelings was more terrible than the material inferiority, so for so many years, he endured Li Baoli's suppression and roar at him.
Until moving into a new home.
He relied on his own ability to get a house assigned to him by the unit, and this house had nothing to do with Li Baoli.
This is the first step in awakening Ma Xuewu's inferiority complex.
So he calmly proposed a divorce, and did not care whether Li Baoli agreed or not, because now Ma Xuewu did not need to rely on Li Baoli at all, he had a son, a house, and a lover Zhou Fen, he felt complete.
If the inferiority complex is used well, it will become self-improvement, and if it is not used well, it will become self-willed and degenerate.
Ma Xuewu chose the latter, and after filing for divorce, he bravely took Zhou Fen's hand and walked into a hotel in the alley, and then was arrested by Li Baoli, and the Ma Xuewu after the matter was exposed was definitely very similar to the Ma Xuewu who chased Li Baoli.
Cowardly, courting, concessions, inferiority, low three or four, ma Xuewu at this time, away from jumping the river is almost a foot away.
Originally, they all plucked up enough courage to leave Li Baoli, but they did not expect to be caught by the other party, and they also lost the position of workshop director.
What is even more unfortunate is that the old mother in the countryside has no place to live and wants to come to the city to live with them.
He didn't even have the opportunity to open his mouth to plead with Li Baoli, he didn't even have the qualifications to help his mother ask for a bed at home, and in the face of Li Baoli's ignorance of his mother, he didn't even dare to let go.
Sometimes, Ma Xuewu is not as good as his son Ma Xiaobao, the daughter-in-law can't tolerate the old mother, if it is not Ma Xiaobao, I am afraid that I will not be able to chase back the old man who ran away from home.
In the situation that Ma Xuewu could not come to Taiwan several times, it was his son Ma Xiaobao who rescued him from the water and fire. In this family, he did not live as well as his son.
After Ma Xuewu was caught cheating, he went to find Zhou Fen again, and he whispered softly to Zhou Fen, gentle and considerate. He did not care about his wife Li Baoli, but instead went to comfort Zhou Fen for whether his marriage was affected after she was arrested.
Maybe Ma Xuewu really likes Zhou Fen, but since he really likes it, why do you have to sneak around even when you see each other, when Zhou Fen's husband appeared, he showed cringe and shrank behind Li Baoli, not daring to squeak.
Then when he faced his elderly mother, when his daughter-in-law threw him in the face and blasted away, he would just sit silently on the side. Even Ma Xiaobao knew to chase Grandma back.
When the workers moved, the workers sat on the ground and raised prices, only Li Baoli came out alone to resist, the rough is a little rough, but in the final analysis, it is still the interests of the family that are safeguarded, as the man of this family, Ma Xuewu hid next to his son, looking at this quarrel that seemed to have nothing to do with himself.
In the end, he was laid off by the factory and dismissed, and there was no resistance after receiving the news. In Ma Xuewu's body, I only saw cowardice and incompetence. In fact, he has many opportunities to change his status quo.
For example, if he is resolute in divorcing Li Baoli, such as a tough attitude when defending his son, and a strong attitude when he keeps his old mother, he will not embark on the road of jumping into the river.
I do not deny Ma Xuewu's advantages, such as his concern for his son, filial piety to his mother, self-motivated and talented in his work. But in marriage, his role as husband is a failure.
Li Baoli's mouth is not sparing, and half of the reasons are caused by Ma Xuewu.
If Ma Xuewu had been as resolute in every resistance as he had been when he first filed for divorce, Li Baoli would have backed down a lot.
Even if he is caught cheating, he should stick to his position, rather than being at the mercy of Li Baoli as if he was caught by her lifeblood.
After watching the movie and watching the original book several times, Ma Xuewu really had no feelings for Li Baoli, so when he hurt Li Baoli, he had no remorse and showed no mercy.
In their marriage, there is no doubt that the most hurt is actually Ma Xiaobao.
If one day Ma Xiaobao gets married, I think he may be like Ma Xuewu, because he is too influenced by his father. Even in the end, he did not think that the lovers Zhou Fen and Ma Xuewu were at fault for stealing their affair. All the fault lies with Mom Li Baoli.
Wrong values, lack of correct views of right and wrong, and his marriage is not expected to be very good.
On the contrary, Li Baoli's lower body, accompanied by Jianjian, should be full and happy.