For people over 30 years old, divorce variety shows are better than love variety shows, Tolstoy said, happy families are similar, unfortunate have their own misfortunes. Love is short and monotonous, but the Cold War, the outbreak, and separation are long and diverse.
I watched every issue of "Goodbye Lover", even the plus version, and every time I watched it, I sighed and discussed with my friends. Although each variety show has a certain degree of performance, the performance wound is ultimately much more difficult than the performance joy, and the acting skills of most Chinese actors cannot reach the level of pretending to be affectionately injured.
I even worry that the second season will not be more brilliant than the first season, the guests will be prepared, with the script, the first season of each variety show guest is the most ignorant and undefended, the more they go to the back, the more confident they are.
This reality show avoids the three main causes of divorce: money, sex (infidelity), family relationships (mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the like), so it seems less worldly, maybe there are, but it is cut off.
Young people like to watch cool dramas, but marriage is the most difficult experience, it is sticky, made up of countless subtle, lengthy daily accumulations, outsiders can empathize, but it is impossible to experience the whole process. Therefore, I dare not persuade people to divorce or join, even if the other party swears by gambling, do not go along with it, it will only attract hatred.
In the early years, a host made a big fuss about her husband's (who is also a host) press conference, accusing him of cheating in front of a national audience. The male host's friend immediately called to comfort him and said: If you can't do it, leave!
As a result, the other woman's roar came from the phone, and I knew that it was all like this, and the two of them were still glued together!
But watching the divorce variety show, and can't help but be angry for others, thinking about the way back, if these three pairs of guests are placed in other programs will not let people into the drama so deeply, this is probably the charm brought by the complexity of marriage.
Many of the questions on this show can be turned around back to self-actualization. Zhu Yaqiong did not become the singer she wanted to be, but became a housewife, and in the show she mentioned that the new job after the separation was also found by relying on lao Wang's relationship. In today's society, there is basically no interpersonal network without work, a simple example, once it is a holiday, my WeChat basically will not ring. Zhu Yaqiong wanted to go out and break in and prove that she was an independent woman.
Wang Qiuyu has been a screenwriter for many years, and he can see that he is an honest screenwriter, and he still writes on his own, rather than forming a team to find a gunman. How senior is he? In 2004, there was a storm, Yu Zheng accused him of being the screenwriter of "The Legend of Jingke", but the screenwriters were signed by the director's wife and Wang Qiuyu, and Wang also refuted his hype.
At that time, Yu Zheng had just begun to write a script, and Wang Qiuyu was already an old screenwriter.
But it is true that Wang Qiuyu is only a craftsman in the screenwriter, there is no hot script, and the rating is not high. In addition to chicken baby family education, he always has a sense of urgency, writing a script like a hedgehog, and stabbing people when he touches it.
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Wang Qiuyu's screenwriting work Douban score basically hovers at the 6-point passing line
Guo Keyu, when asked 36 questions between husband and wife, has been giggling, and has been accused of hippie smiling faces by Zhang He and Danmaku, and has no right shape. But when she looked back on ten years of housewife life, she suddenly closed her eyes and her lips trembled, which was the discomfort of people trying desperately to suppress tears and could not hold back. In that discomfort, there should be regrets about the cause!
Zhang He, when asked what he would do when he had only one year of life, said to make money. In the show, he also always asked Guo Keyu to have a positive evaluation of his acting skills.
kk, even the reason for alcoholism is for Tong Chenjie, he went from a small local famous host in Hunan to Shanghai to become an ordinary person, and the psychological gap is large.
It seems that only Tong Chenjie did not show her obsession with self-realization, so the fewest people sprayed her.
Three female guests, they will still live comfortably without men. The two roles of marriage: to escape loneliness and to have someone to take care of. Women are usually in the role of caregivers in the family, so the second point is not a problem. As for the first point, Guo Keyu has adapted to being lonely for many years; Zhu Yaqiong has also been separated for more than a year, and from the show, the child seems to follow Lao Wang, as long as she does not live with children, it will become easy mode; Tong Chenjie hopes that there is heat in the family, but she has the ability to live alone.
The three male guests, KK and Tong Chenjie, have two major differences: abstinence from alcohol and childbirth. Kk never promised to quit drinking, but the origin of this incident was not his innate love of alcohol, but the pressure of his use of alcoholism to divert his lack of success in his career, and this pressure is not known whether it is his self-perception or the people around him who make him feel it. If his career had improved, it was possible that wine would have become less important before he knew it.
He and Tong Chenjie had been married for seven years, and perhaps in the first and second years, they had discussed whether to have children, and he also knew that Tong did not want children, so he also dragged from the time when she was easier to have children to the stage where it was difficult to have children. I don't think his mother will be the first time to urge, not as a big deal before, at least it shows that kk's expectations for the child are not so enthusiastic, but are pushed by external forces.
Of course, many Dink men began to repent after the age of forty, and in order to have children, they would find a young wife to remarry, and Tong Chenjie was very prepared for this. Kk cried at the mention of separation, she was calm and had thought about it a thousand times. As long as it is the woman's active choice of Dink, even if separated, the two sides will not have much regret, I am afraid that the man Dink will default again.
Wang Qiuyu, a person who has indifferent affection and no friends with his original family, now his attention is on his children and work, but the children will eventually leave, and the work will eventually stop. He needs a partner who is passionate and self-satisfied, and Zhu Yaqiong needs to be in love and play with energetic people.
Zhang He, Sun Yi and Guo Caijie in the studio seem to talk less about him, he is also a vague person in my eyes, not as distinct as the other two male guests. He had a point stuck to me, and he complained that Guo Keyu scratched his back and scratched him a few times before he fell asleep.
My child had to be tickled every night, scratched for an hour, until he was asleep and would utter an unsatisfactory "Scratch!" scratch! scratch! "Urge, I think you didn't scratch the right place and don't say where to itch."
I can endure because I'm, I know that one day he will grow up and understand things, and this scratch has an end,
There is no end to serving a partner. By the way, even Huang Jue scratched her daughter's back and fell asleep.
And children love their mothers passionately and directly, they don't need you to guess, they can offset the hard work. Zhang He told an example, there were several times when he stopped to pay and people broke up, Guo Keyu gently and elegantly reasoned for half an hour, and he got angry for five minutes. He needed Guo Keyu to praise him for these five minutes of anger, and Guo Keyu did not speak, although she often praised him in the show.
Remembering that he said several times that he proposed to Guo Keyu because she was gentle, how can you expect someone to be both gentle and violent, both like a mother and a fan sister, who can both lead you and worship you?
It's too hard! Among the three male guests, Zhang He's mate selection requirements were the most difficult to meet.
Young people don't like to hear the word patience, but patience exists in any relationship, with parents, with children, with friends, with colleagues. Female writer Zhang Xin has a novel, the title is "Love is Eternal Patience", which sounds old-school and practically applicable. Because of a person's advantages and marriage to ta, but also because of the ability to endure ta's shortcomings to choose not to divorce, to divorce is intolerable, no need to endure anymore.
In one episode, Tong Chenjie publicly pointed out that kk was not virtuous after drinking, kk immediately ran away, Tong Chenjie took the doll to coax him, and kk triumphantly showed the doll to others. Some viewers were angry and ran to Tong Chenjie's Weibo to persuade her to divorce. In the next episode, kk enlivens the atmosphere, dancing and chirping, Tong Chenjie says "meat tight", describing him as hot and intimate.
This temperature is her greatest need at this time, and she is willing to coax him for this warmth, maybe one day she does not want to coax, that is her own decision, rather than listening to the opinions of others.