Elegantly divorced woman

The child divorced after the college entrance examination, he thought it was just his wife's angry words, it turned out that she had been preparing for ten years!

Some women are even graceful in getting a divorce. The circle of friends of this story has brushed the screen.

A recently divorced man talked about his ex-wife, and he said, "I was crying when we came out of the Civil Affairs Bureau." She was smiling. She told me that she had waited for this day for ten years. Her son's ten years of hard reading is her ten years of lying down.

She told him many times that she would divorce when her child's college entrance examination was over. He thought it was his wife's angry words, but he didn't want her to say the truth. And since then, I have been planning for divorce.

He thought about his wife's independence and gentleness in the past few years, and suddenly found that the harmony that he thought was self-righteous, but his wife did not want to worry about him anymore.

He used to hate his wife for letting him do housework, and then he didn't know from what day his wife wouldn't let him do it. He still felt very happy at the time, women are like this, not used to her, she herself does housework without doing the same.

Now that I think about it, my wife had already begun to give up on her at that time. She didn't need him anymore, so she did everything herself.

My wife hadn't asked him for money for years. In the past, when the child was small and the wife did not go to work, the wife would ask him for money every month. He remembered that at that time, he would be particularly annoyed with his wife asking for money for him. I earn so much a month and spend it at home. Every time his wife asked him for money, he would say, "You can't spend less, what air conditioner to buy in the living room, if the lock is broken, you can use it first." What's the use of taking a child every day to buy those clothes and cosmetics, can't you hurt me a little? Is it easy for men to make money? ”

When the child was in elementary school, his wife went out to work, and after that, she never asked him for a penny. Their money has been completely separated since then. What the wife wants to buy, she buys it herself. He buys whatever he wants. He doesn't know how much his wife earns in a month, and she doesn't care how much money he makes in a month.

He remembers a time when his wife suddenly spent a lot of money. Bought yourself a lot of clothes and good cosmetics. He blamed her at the time: "You can't save some money to spend, and your children will have to go to school later." ”

As a result, her wife scolded him for the first time: "I earn my own money to spend, without spending a penny from you, you can't control me." When the child grows up, how much money you contribute, how much I contribute, only more than you, not less than you. ”

He only now understood that his wife at that time estimated that the son would not need him financially.

No, the wife's from those years onwards, independence is not only economic, but also spiritual. She began to have few quarrels with him. Whatever he said, she listened. Not wanting to hear it, she would hide in another room. At that time, he still felt that his wife had finally become virtuous and gentle, but he didn't want it to be that his wife didn't even feel the need to argue with him.

When he thinks about his years, he really wants to do what he wants to do, no matter what he does, his wife doesn't care. Once he didn't come home for a night, and his wife didn't make a phone call. At that time, he also laughed at the men who were urged by women, thinking that they were incompetent and strictly managed by their wives.

Now that I think about it, someone's wife at least still has love, but his wife has long since stopped loving him. He even felt proud, that this woman was finally quiet.

He thought deeply that his wife would not argue with him about the children in those years. Because she took care of everything for the child, and he was happy to do nothing. At that time, he was also complacent about one thing, all the money for the cram school on the child was from his wife, and he was still complacent at the time: "Spend it, raise a child for me, don't need me to spend money and you can report it." ”

For ten years, the wife earned her own money, brought her own baby, and took care of all the housework by herself. Even if there was anything wrong with his wife's parents, the wife never asked for help from herself. He used to be complacent about these things, thinking that his wife should be like this.

He even felt that if his wife got him a little trouble, he would find her annoyed. He didn't want to take care of anything from his wife, as long as she still provided him with services and didn't ask him for money, he didn't care what her wife did.

Another time my wife was sick, and my wife called him first. He clearly remembered what he said at the time: "No one in your mother's family cares about you, don't you have money yourself, what are you looking for me to do?" ”

The wife hung up the phone without saying anything. Later, when his wife was well, he felt a little guilty in his heart, he thought that his wife would cry, but her wife acted as if nothing had happened. He felt that his wife was just like that, he really didn't care about her, and she couldn't do anything.

He never thought that such a "peaceful" wife could be so determined when she divorced him.

Is that kind of determination the chill she has saved up enough in her long marriage?

As my wife once said, "You are no longer my husband, but the father of my son." ”

So, she endured for ten years, prepared for ten years, and when the child took the college entrance examination and the child was older, she completely left herself.

Come to think of it, he really has nothing worth his wife's nostalgia for. Because, in this marriage, he himself could not find out what he had given to his wife. Only one child is their only involvement.

Coming out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, he was crying. Because, he did not dare to think about the future, he would have to cook and wash his own clothes in the future, he would have to sort out the housework by himself, and he would have to face everything by himself. He could not drink the nutritious soup that his wife boiled in his life.

And the wife is laughing, and marriage to her does not do any good. After the divorce, the wife just takes care of a person with a bad temper.

Men don't wait until their children grow up to know how to cherish their wives.

When you were a child, you felt that this woman would not leave you. As long as you don't make a big mistake, this woman will put up with you and tolerate you for the sake of the child

You were not strong when she was born and raised, you hated her, looked down on her, and never gave her any love.

You love her child, don't want her to grow up in an incomplete family, ignore her, be cold and violent, or even treat her only as a free babysitter.

But she didn't want to, she just didn't have a choice at that time. When she has accumulated enough strength, when she is strong enough, when the child has grown up, she will not hesitate to leave you.

For the rest of my life, with you, too tired.

For the rest of your life, how happy without you.