01
Regarding marriage, Mr. Lou liked a sentence that director Lou Ye had said, to the effect that:
Many people don't know how to love; they can't find a way to love, or they love too much.
Most love is just a PS-over photo.
Deeply.
The passion of love makes the feelings under the filter of rose color, like a round of moon in the night sky, making the stars around them lose their color.
But by whom, Eros cannot possess God forever.
As the days passed, the most emotionally rough crater was sooner or later exposed by a field of chicken feathers.
But "the lost are lost, and the one who meets will meet again." ”
There is no better sentence than Haruki Murakami's three protagonists in "Goodbye Lover". At the end of the 18-day trip, the six finally found the answer to the emotional "failure".
In the finale, the program set up a link: the guests took a motorhome in a different direction and stopped at the choice channel. When the hourglass is over, guests can make a decision:
Getting off the bus means compounding, and vice versa is going to be intentional.
Some netizens commented:
The biggest beneficiary of this variety show is the audience, and every man and woman who is troubled by love should come to see...
02
Zhu Yaqiong Wang autumn rain, wind and rain in the same boat for 19 years, several degrees of separation and compound.
Unfortunately, patience has long been worn out in day-to-day quarrels. At first, they participated in shows to preserve the marriage, intending to give each other one last chance.
As a result, the two are like cannonballs that ignite at any time, and the contradictions are more inflated, and hysteria occurs from time to time. Of the three couples, they are the most suspenseful:
After the car door was closed, no one came down, and went against the road...
In the caravan, Zhu Yaqiong expected Lao Wang to take the initiative to get off the car, but the other party gave the answer:
"She deserves a better life."
As the guest said, Wang Qiuyu's "oil" has long been leaked on the road, and he can no longer start the motor in the marriage.
He did not dare to take another step forward, although he still silently loved his wife, such as Zhu Yaqiong living alone in a log cabin, walking on a wild road that no one had walked, and Wang Qiuyu followed behind like a bodyguard...
When He left the country, the corners of his eyes were red, and after 19 years of companionship, it was indeed self-deception to say that there was no love and no regrets. Zhu Yaqiong's final confession to Lao Wang is "Don't worry about me, you have to take care of yourself."
The former lovers hugged each other tightly, which was the most harmonious picture of the two in the whole season.
The ending is inevitably lamented.
Zhu Yaqiong's once full of grievances, Wang Qiuyu's confusion was all frozen, and they no longer hated each other. In the future, he is the father of the child, she is the mother of the child, and they love each other with a new relationship.
Letting go is a farewell and fulfillment.
As Huang Zhizhong said, divorce is also a way to protect feelings. If there is an irreconcilable contradiction between husband and wife, like two hedgehogs, leaning on each other will only torture each other.
03
Let's talk about a pair of happy endings.
Sister and brother love Tong Chen Jie and kk, Tong has always played the role of accommodation and care.
At first, the woman's original intention of divorce was not to have children, and she was dissatisfied with her husband's daily alcoholism, but kk never changed. After freezing for three feet, she lit a red light for her feelings.
In the barrage, the audience also saw the ghost fire and hugged the goddess unevenly:
Leave, don't bother Sister Tong.
But in the major choices of life, kk is the one who takes the initiative. For example, in order to be able to be with his wife, he left his hometown to Shanghai to start from scratch.
And this time, in order to start over, as soon as the caravan arrived at the station, he did not hesitate to get off the bus. The dramatic scene is that Tong Chenjie sat down and stood, and his forehead hit a red packet.
The ending of their reunion is also without suspense.
Some of the companions quarreled more and more scattered, but the more quarrelsome they became, the more they loved. In the daily punch "Do you want to divorce today", you can find that the number of times this pair says "no" is getting less and less, and the mood is becoming more and more stable.
This is not unrelated to Tong Chenjie's high emotional value, she can always find the right time to appease each other every time she argues; kk is also very well-behaved, and will promptly and actively express apologies.
Therefore, they are often arguing one second ago, and the next second they are as loving as ever.
From another point of view, maybe this is getting used to each other.
In the end, the two look at each other and agree, and they should replace the harshness, quarrels, and complaints with more understanding, affirmation, and gratitude, they are partners who depend on each other in life and death, and share honor and disgrace.
Because the ultimate answer to all questions is: love is the underlying foundation of intimate relationships!
After the closing, kk chanted "We are in love with each other again!" ”
In the end, what surprised Mr. Guo Keyu Zhanghe was the pair.
I would like to call this a "hard-mouthed couple.".
Once, Guo Keyu's world Zhang He couldn't go in, and Guo Keyu, Zhang He's world, didn't have the heart to care. For marriage, the reason Given by Guo is the urging of the "social clock".
She is like a snail, not good at expression, Zhang He wants to be honest with the other party, and the questions that are shelved are like snowballs rolling bigger and bigger: I love ta, but I have never taken the initiative to try to understand and remove the clouds.
This is true of both.
So much so that after ten years of marriage, they also have a son with each other, and Zhang is as confused as the audience:
Did Guo Keyu really not love?
Screwed up, she always prevaricated with jokes. But people are not grass and trees, friends who have watched variety shows know that even if her personality is stubborn as a cow, even if she is a film queen, she will inadvertently reveal the stuffing.
For example, when talking about your son, you talk about the world; when riding an electric car, you say, "Hold tighter..."
The two people who once you entered and retreated, and you attacked and defended, gradually removed the wall of hearts. Finally, the climax of the whole drama came, and when the caravan reached the end, Zhang He finally found the answer.
As the countdown began, he got out of the car decisively, expecting to close the door again resolutely. Because he didn't want to leave a little regret.
However, Guo Keyu's car went straight in the opposite direction.
A sense of loss landed heavily.
Where did he know that Guo Keyu, who insisted on not remarrying, burst into tears at the second when the car restarted. In her words, it felt like the heart had been pricked by a needle.
Guo Keyu finally put aside his scruples and bravely got out of the car. The car stopped suddenly, and Zhang He looked at Guo Keyu who was approaching him from a distance, and the picture was very beautiful. The two approached each other, and Zhang He pretended to ask calmly:
"How did you come back?"
While talking, he took off his coat to put on Guo Keyu, and he couldn't imagine that Guo Keyu, who was as reserved as Guo Keyu, threw himself into his arms. Zhang He hugged her tightly, and before he could say anything, Guo Keyu said softly:
"Needless to say, I know."
The scene in front of you is more brilliant than the movie, more romantic than the fairy tale, and hits the tear glands of countless people. Finally, Zhang He's voice echoed in the vast empty valley: "Xinjiang, we will come again!" ”
You listen, he's talking about "us."
04
This is an observational variety show on the theme of divorce.
Due to the effect of the program, the plot is more or less set. But it did not step into the fate of variety shows high and low, and its reputation was bursting.
After all, sir thought, it is inseparable from the word "real".
Nowadays, the "fear of marriage" argument is rife on the Internet, and I do not deny that high-quality relationships are a luxury. For the vast majority of partners, it is a bumpy hand in hand to complete a lifetime.
This variety show is like a mirror, illuminating the difficult and complicated diseases in the audience's emotions.
You look at the marriage story of three couples, which pair seems to have its own shadow.
Through the guests, Mr. Li understood more deeply:
The problems in marriage are not necessarily brought about by the marriage itself, but may also be brought into the marriage by the individual to bring the existing problems of the past into the marriage. Everyone can be a "problem kid.".
And quarrels, cries, cold wars, complaints... In fact, it is the signal for help released by the other party. Therefore, divorce will not cure all diseases, and escaping will not make you better off.
If you don't take the initiative to change, even if you enter the next relationship, you will still repeat the same mistakes.
What are the benefits of that marriage:
Undoubtedly, partners complete each other, manage intimate relationships together, and help each other become better people.
Thumbs up, may we all have the courage to go on for love.
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