I remember that when I was just over forty years old and happened to be in college, I thought I was in a good state, and when I looked very young, I met a person in my twenties who called me Auntie. The sound of "auntie" made me almost like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and the blow was no less powerful than dropping an atomic bomb in my heart, crushing my self-confidence, and feeling that my life as a woman was over, and I was a genderless old man from then on. For this reason, I was sullen for a while.
Later, when I was forty-five or six, a woman of thirty-five or six called me Auntie. I looked at the little clip on her head and knew she was pretending to be tender, and I thought it was a little funny. Call me Auntie and make you look younger? Even if you call me Grandma, you look like ben four years old! I just scolded her: You're in forty, aren't you?
However, gradually I was called aunt more, and slowly accepted. Not long ago, when I was seeing a doctor, A nurse said how "you elderly people" should pay attention, and although I felt a little harsh, I was no longer sad about getting old.
The day before yesterday, when I saw Gao Yuanyuan respond to getting older, he said that he knew his situation better and could better appreciate this.
The years are not sparing
No one can spare the years
Fortunately, God is fair, and the goddess is not spared the fate of getting old.
Since everyone will be old, why not grow old first and then grow old? So, now I really don't bother about this anymore, and accepting that getting old does require a mental process, that is, getting used to it.
Now I have reached the age of knowing my destiny, and just yesterday, the owner who went out to drink crock pot soup and sold the soup was sixty years old, a full ten years older than me. She warmly called me "big sister", and I actually smiled and gladly agreed.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > Since aging is an irreversible law of nature, I think it is better to face it squarely than to pretend to be a goddess of frozen age and deceive yourself all day. </h1>
If we regard "oldness" as physical, physical aging; and "decay" as inner spiritual aging, then we will find that old age and decay are not necessarily exactly in sync. Some people have begun to grow old on the outside, and their memories are still in the past, which is why some people always feel that they look younger than others. There are also some people who are old in appearance, but they are still the mentality of young people, and they always think that they are still the little princess and little prince who are loved by everyone.
Why are we afraid of getting old? Because youth represents the mainstream of life, we fear being marginalized. Also, the "old" also shows that he has set the western mountains, and there are not many days to come. Therefore, I am not willing to go into the circle of "old age" too early.
In fact, with the progress of science, people's life expectancy is getting longer and longer, and the ranks of the elderly are getting stronger and stronger. Therefore, not to like things and not to be sad with oneself, to be old and strong, to be old and do something, to be old and strong, and to be old and not to fade, is what we should pursue.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > in the face of years, we can laugh: age is a fart! </h1>
However, for some fragile aunts with a girlish heart, it is best for everyone to "be merciful under the mouth", and do not have to remind people sternly that the years have passed and Shaohua is no longer there. Your youth is only relatively temporary, and getting old is the norm. We can learn this from Europeans, who generally don't call "big sister", "aunt" and "grandmother", right? They are all called "ladies", so maybe it will hurt a little less!
I remember that Mr. Lu Xun had an article saying that a certain family had a child, and everyone said how the child would behave in the future, and as a result, one person said that the child would die later. This cruel big truth reveals the final result of life. So we've been on the road to getting old since we were born. Whether we live ordinary or wonderful life on this road, it is our own life, no complaints and no regrets!
Finally, I wish us more and more open on the road of old age, more and more open-minded, more and more happy!