One day in 2018, Guo Qilin's words on the phone made Hu Zhonghui, who was far away in Japan, burst into tears. Mom, you don't want to work in Japan, go back to Tianjin to live. Now I have the ability to raise you. She never imagined that she had gone to Japan to make a living, and she had already survived to the day when she was a child.
Many people will wonder why Hu Zhonghui abandoned her husband and son in the first place, left her young son, and went to Japan to work, and what is her life now?
When Hu Zhonghui met Guo Degang, he was still a nameless person who did nothing.
Guo Degang was born in Tianjin in 1973 to an extremely ordinary family, his father was a people's policeman and his mother was a primary school teacher. In order to support their families, parents often travel around and have no time to take care of Guo Degang. Therefore, Guo Degang always went to the theater to listen to other people's books, and gradually, he also became interested in this industry.
When Guo Degang was 6 years old, his parents sent him to a professional school to learn art from his teacher. Since then, Guo Degang has also begun to contact Quyi. Guo Degang is extremely talented in this area, and has learned this art in just a few years.
At the age of nine, he worshiped the famous cross-talk master Chang Baofeng as a teacher and officially began to contact cross-talk. At that time, learning cross-talk was not an easy task, but Guo Degang had a tenacity in his bones. He loves crosstalk and vows to learn it well.
At the age of 15, Guo Degang decided to develop in a big city, and then came to Beijing full of hope, but he was taught a lesson by reality. When he first arrived, he was not qualified to go on stage, and could only do some small work in the tea house.
It was also during this time that Guo Degang felt lost, and after some struggle, he still decided to go home.
After returning to his hometown of Tianjin, Guo Degang was not willing to give up his dream, and began to run around, and continued to improve his cross-talk skills under the name of Yang Zhigang.
In order to be able to support himself, he also ran a cross-talk class. Here he met his first wife, Hu Zhonghui.
At that time, Hu Zhonghui was still an apprentice of Guo Degang, and the two people developed a good feeling for each other in the gradual contact. They were still very young at the time, and after only half a year of falling in love, they decided to get married. Perhaps because of his wife's encouragement, he regained his confidence and once again packed his bags and came to Beijing.
When he arrived in Beijing, he took 100 yuan and survived for a week, and then returned to Tianjin again.
Fast forward to 1995, his yearning for the big city still did not stop, after repeated thoughts, he decided to go to Beijing again. This time, he found like-minded friends and founded the Beijing Crosstalk Conference, the predecessor of today's Deyun Society.
This small troupe is developing silently in the vast city of Beijing. But despite this, Guo Degang's life is still extremely difficult.
In 1996, Hu Zhonghui gave birth to a son for Guo Degang, named Guo Qilin, but because of the poor living conditions at that time, the family could only squeeze in the narrow basement and often live without food.
Sometimes, Guo Degang will even be scolded by the landlord to the dog blood sprinkler because he can't pay the rent.
At that time, Guo Degang was very depressed, his career did not progress at all, and his family was even more uncared for. At this time, Hu Zhonghui not only had to take care of the young Guo Qilin, but also had to worry about his livelihood every day.
In the face of her husband who has achieved nothing, Hu Zhonghui's heart is even more tired. Such a day gradually consumed all of Hu Zhonghui's patience, and the love of the past disappeared without a trace.
In 2000, Hu Zhonghui finally couldn't stand it anymore and decided to divorce Guo Degang.
At that time, both husband and wife wanted to get children, and Guo Degang said: My son must be surnamed Guo with me, which is the flesh and blood of our old Guo family, do you want him to be angry with his stepfather in the future? Hu Zhonghui was very helpless and had to leave his son.
After the divorce, Hu Zhonghui's life did not improve. Her life was filled with all sorts of pressures that left her breathless. After some deliberation, Hu Zhonghui decided to defect to his Relatives in Japan.
When he first arrived in Japan, Hu Zhonghui could only do low-end manual labor because of his language barrier, washing dishes and dishes in restaurants, working as a cashier in supermarkets, and doing all kinds of dirty work.
Guo Degang, in Beijing, handed over his son to his parents, and he continued to roam beijing. In this fragmented family, the person who hurt the most was Guo Qilin.
He can only live with his grandparents, and his grandfather is afraid that Guo Qilin will be abducted by human traffickers, so whenever he is out of school, his grandparents lock him up at home.
But the grandparents are extremely fond of this little grandson, almost giving what they want. This also made Guo Qilin become a fat boy when he was very young.
Although Beijing and Tianjin are very close, Guo Degang rarely returns to visit Guo Qilin because of his unhappy life, and Guo Qilin's daily needs are also borne by his grandparents.
Hu Zhonghui will return to Tianjin after a year or two, and every time he comes back, he will go to see his son and buy all kinds of good things for Guo Qilin. At that time, Guo Qilin was still very young and did not understand what his parents' divorce meant to him.
Whenever mom comes back, he's very happy, but when mom leaves, he doesn't feel sad either.
In 2008, and that same year, he was taken to Beijing by his father.
At this time, Guo Degang is no longer as depressed as before, and he is famous in the cross-talk circle. But the past between him and his ex-wife was pulled out by the media, and after this report, Guo Qilin learned that his parents had long been divorced.
Guo Qilin was heartbroken and desperately wanted to know from his father the reason for his parents' divorce.
Guo Degang did not know how to explain to his son, so he pushed the problem to Hu Zhonghui. Hu Zhonghui was also unwilling to hurt his son, and was never willing to mention to Guo Qilin why the two divorced.
The push and shove of his parents made Guo Qilin have the illusion that his parents did not love him. At that time, Guo Qilin coincided with the rebellious period of adolescence, and since then, he has never been willing to be close to his parents.
In 2011, Guo Qilin returned to Tianjin for the Chinese New Year, just when Hu Zhonghui returned from Japan, she took her son over, and also told Guo Qilin all about her life for so many years.
Guo Qilin suddenly found that his mother was not living well abroad, and the hatred he had once felt disappeared. Guo Qilin was distressed about his mother, but at that time, he was weak and could not give his mother any kind of guarantee, so he just silently did not speak.
After the mother and son got along for a while, Hu Zhonghui sent his son home
On the other hand, Guo Degang's side opened the road of counterattack because of the two nobles.
One was his mentor Hou Yaowen, who was rejected by mainstream art because of his unique cross-talk style, but the cross-talk master Hou Yaowen extended a helping hand to him, received him from his disciples, and affirmed his artistic achievements.
And one is his current wife, Wang Hui.
Wang Hui was born into a wealthy family of merchants in Tianjin, and her mother died when she was very young, so her father loved this daughter very much.
At a very young age, Wang Hui showed her artistic achievements, and at the age of 14, she held a personal show, and at the age of 20, she became a well-known music corner in Tianjin. Many people wonder why such a wonderful woman would choose a divorced man with children?
The two met in 1997, during a performance in Baoding, Hebei Province.
The relationship between the two was when Wang Hui went out to perform, because the plane on which Wang Hui was sitting broke down and temporarily lost contact. Guo Degang was also frightened, and in order to ensure Wang Hui's safety, he called her father.
Later, Wang Hui learned of this matter and was very touched in his heart, so the two came together. Although Guo Degang at that time was still doing nothing, he often lived a life of starvation.
In order to help him, Wang Hui sold his new car and used the money from the car sale to save the once crumbling Deyun Society, and Guo Degang also remembered Wang Hui's kindness to himself.
In fact, the original love affair between the two was also strongly opposed by Wang Hui's father.
In his father's view, Guo Degang was really not a good person. Wang Hui also broke up with Guo Degang under the persuasion of his father, but despite this, in Wang Hui's heart, he still had the status of Guo Degang.
When she found out that Guo Degang had fallen, Wang Hui did not hesitate to return to Guo Degang's side. This time, she no longer wanted to care about her father's opinion, and she had to be with Guo Degang no matter what. Since then, Wang Hui has helped Guo Degang take care of his son while also helping Guo Degang change his paragraph.
So the two people interdepended on each other and survived the most difficult time. Later, the Deyun Society spread throughout China, and Wang Hui's father also accepted Guo Degang. Guo Degang also decided to marry Wang Hui at that time.
In order to repay Wang Hui's kindness to himself, Guo Degang transferred ninety-nine percent of the shares of Deyun Society to Wang Hui's name.
And Guo Qilin was also under the guidance of his father and gradually became a rising star in the cross-talk industry.
Guo Qilin did have an amazing talent in art, and under the guidance of his master Yu Qian and his father, Guo Qilin became the backbone actor of the Deyun Society.
Guo Qilin, who was 22 years old at the time, had an annual income of more than 1.2 million yuan and had the ability to support himself. At that time, Guo Qilin had only one thought in his mind, he hoped that his mother who was far away in Japan could return to China to live and let her enjoy her old age in peace.
Subsequently, he did as he thought, and immediately called his mother. And after hearing Guo Qilin's words, her mother Hu Zhonghui could not calm down for a long time.
So Hu Zhonghui, under the persuasion of Guo Qilin, left Japan in 2019 and returned to Tianjin.
Under the hard work of Japan, Hu Zhonghui accumulated a sum of money, but Guo Qilin often sponsored her mother to buy her clothes and cosmetics. He also often went to his mother's place to reunite with her, just like when he was young, his mother took him to eat and buy clothes, and he did his best to make his mother's life better.
Over the years, Hu Zhonghui has been single, but Guo Qilin hopes that his mother has his own happiness, and he said to his mother: You can become a family again, as long as the other party is good to you, I will also be good to him.
The breakdown of marriages is inevitable. But after separating, they can also become the most important partners in each other's lives.
Perhaps Hu Zhonghui's abandonment of Guo Degang and Guo Qilin was not considered, but in order to pursue a better quality of life, she had the courage to face the challenges in life and achieve the proud results she has now, which is also worthy of our admiration.
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