Remember a breakup experience

I haven't updated the article for a long time, write something, and I hope that after many years, I will look at these things and find the foresight of many years ago.

1 It's been almost 4 months since I broke up with my ex-girlfriend, and it was very painful at the time, but from this incident, I have grown a lot. A person who has not experienced outright pain will never grow up.

She is one of my most attentive girls, junior high school classmates, from high school, college, has always been in contact, and always manage me well, but also very concerned about me, I promised to love her alone, give her a happy home. She graduated from college, I undergraduate, at the same time, I re-read the college entrance examination for one year, equivalent to reading 2 years more than her, she worked for three years, I only worked for one year, I graduated in June 2020, only into the society of the little white, to mix out some grades, there must always be a time, unless luck bursts, but it is impossible. After graduation, I went to Leyoujia to sell houses, wanted to make money to catch up with her early, gave her a home, there, although I was often punished, happy to donate, but under my efforts, in the fourth month, sold two sets, commission 10w, is the best performance of newcomers in the entire war zone, but also took 2700 commission, I feel that I can't make money, can't save money, I will go.

Come to a city with her Shanghai, the early stage to find a job is also very difficult, there is no accumulation, no friends, rent is also very expensive, the early stage is not in the rent, is walking on the road to pay rent, I want to make money, rent a better house, live with her, bring her life should have happiness. The first job salary is extremely low, insisted on 2 months, changed a high-wage job, thought there would be a turnaround, but the result was to encounter arrears of wages, so that the first few months of their own very bad, although the family economic conditions are not bad, my dad also has my money there, but I want to be self-reliant and strong, the result is very difficult in the early stage, love after the hot love period, is the breakup period, cold war, fought for, and later colleagues also said, don't be so humble, I will slowly put down.

Focus: Breakup, in fact, you can say everything, leave anyone can live, do not say anything, do not contact, do not bother, this practice I do not like, no big deal.

Men, seize the time to improve yourself, engage in career, remember to love yourself seven points, the remaining three points to the person you love, do not lose yourself.