Love is a tacit understanding between hearts and hearts, in harmony.
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Love is like spicy hot.
Sometimes, she numbs a person's mind, heats his body, and makes his heart burn.
The drama master Shakespeare said that true love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but a mutual fit between the hearts of people who love each other.
When Dapeng first saw Tao Tao, his mind was in a state of numbness.
Tao Tao looked simple and quiet, as if it were a spotless lake, in this lake, Dapeng saw his future, he knew that his love was coming.
Then, at night, he began to toss and turn, his body feverish. He checked the information on the Internet and found that this is obviously a "love syndrome", and he has never felt this way in 30 years.
Heart to heart, is the most beautiful love.
Then, the hot heart made him feel like a needle felt. He's going on a love offensive.
Reality is always selfless, never subject to the will of the individual, and some things are doomed to failure at the very beginning.
Dapeng's love letters, roses, and booing han greetings were not effective at all. The reason is simple, Tao Tao has a boyfriend, in a distant hometown.
Of course, Dapeng was very sad, tearing his heart and lungs, he borrowed wine to pour sorrow, he gave up on himself.
Tao Tao sent him a long text message. Told the story of his boyfriend Qingmei Bamboo Horse, not abandoned.
Although Dapeng could not accept it, he still blessed with tears.
Many years later, Dapeng understood that a pure girl, a hot and single-minded true feeling.
Love is like eating hot pot, the taste is different, it does not have to be strong.
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Marriage is like a mandarin duck pot.
The Russian writer Lev Tolstoy said that only love can make marriage sacred, and only marriage that makes love sacred is true marriage.
Falling in love is easy to get along with, and the adult world is full of routines. Throw yourself at Li Tao, repay it with Qiong Yao; if you are true, I will be true, and if you fake me, I will turn around. This is the "formal channel", the key problem is that many people do not play cards according to the routine, put the rules under their feet, have no bottom line, and are not afraid of anything.
Gorky, the father of Soviet literature, said that marriage is a combination of the spirits of two people, and the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together.
In fact, the fatal problem with the failure of marriage to reality is disappointment. With great expectations and infinitely beautiful expectations, I found that my life was trivial, wolf smoke was everywhere, and the gap with the ideal was as little as 18,000 miles.
To live is to be happy; otherwise, it is a disaster.
Stirring a spoon in a pot, bumping and bumping is inevitable, if there is no tolerance, no understanding, two people will taste the same chewing wax when they get along, don't twist and turn.
Modern couples, the popular "third state": each playing their own, each eating their own.
Such a marriage is like eating a Mandarin duck hot pot, with a clear soup pot bottom on one side and a spicy pot bottom on the other. According to their own needs, each has fun.
Getting along harmoniously and in peace is already a very good situation. Love, like marriage, cannot be too rational. Rare confusion is often the only way to achieve long-term peace and stability.
Some people say that the bud of love is the end of wisdom.
Where there is laughter, it is heaven.
That is to say, if you want to maintain love, the best way is to "follow the feelings", rather than the hammer must be compared, and the details are perfect.
What is unclear is love, and when everything is clear, this relationship should also end.
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A meal that determines your tomorrow.
The people take food as the sky, and this has been the case since ancient times.
The old people said that the only thing in the world is difficult to eat.
In this life, the most important thing is to eat.
Everyone comes together and eats happily.
As the saying goes, people are iron, rice is steel, and a meal is not eaten hungry and panicked.
Only those who have suffered from hunger understand that food is more important than gold, food is more important than face, and survival is more important than anything else.
Before eating, everything abdicates.
Eating is to fuel the body, to give life life, and to store strength for the future. Can't live, everything is nonsense.
Eating well is the best practice.
The body, only by being nourished by food, health and growth are possible;
Life, only with the supply of nutrition, survival and growth can have a foundation.
If you are not happy and happy, what do you want to do in marriage?
Love, before spending under the moon is romantic, spending money under the moon is logic;
Marriage, you nong me nong is love, you have me is the premise.
Two people together, can not be the sky, eat a meal to know.
You eat lightly, he is not spicy or happy;
You boil a bowl of water, and he pours the wine full;
You grains, he raw seafood;
You vegetables and fruits, he big fish big meat.
Because of individual differences, it is not yet possible to tolerate; because of different habits, it is not yet understandable. Sooner or later, such two people will fall apart and barely be together, which is also a hell on earth.
If you bloom, the butterflies come, and if you are wonderful, the heavens arrange it!
Danger, in fact, laid the groundwork very early, but we are ignorant.
The really successful people in the world are basically people who know how to eat well. Even in the darkest hours of poverty, they will not give up on themselves, they will take every food seriously, they know deeply that it is their assistant to make a comeback, that it is the source of living water of life energy!
Su Dongpo said: "There is no trouble in life that cannot be solved by one meal, if there is two meals!" ”
Eat well, talk about the sky well, love and your spring will inevitably come!