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"My ex-husband is richer than me".
Recently, Zhao Liying's sentence directly made netizens boil.
In the variety show "Chinese Restaurant", talking about the issue of raising children, Zhao Liying said that her ex-husband Feng Shaofeng's economic conditions were stronger than her own, so after the divorce, the children were raised by Feng Shaofeng.
The melon-eating masses were shocked.
You know, Zhao Liying is a veritable "desperate three ladies" in the entertainment industry. Compared with Feng Shaofeng's occasional appearance in front of the screen, Zhao Liying can be described as a screen overlord over the years, filming almost non-stop for 365 days and making money.
But now, she admits that her economic conditions are not as good as Feng Shaofeng's.
However, even so, she is still calm and calm, with an indifferent face.
She just celebrated her 34th birthday a few days ago, and has been in the entertainment industry for all these years, experiencing career difficulties and marriage failures, but she is not tired at all, but more and more charming, full of charm.
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In 1987, Zhao Liying was born in the countryside of Langfang, Hebei Province, her parents were farmers, and the family conditions were very general.
After graduating from secondary school, in order to supplement her family, she immediately came out to work as a waiter, handed out flyers, and also sold as a school.
At that time, she only wanted to make money, and she was willing to do any hard work.
In 2006, a fortuitous opportunity changed her life.
This year, she wanted to be a star since she was a child, participated in the talent show "Yahoo Search star", and won the championship of Feng Xiaogang's group in one fell swoop, and has since entered the show business circle.
However, after her debut, her acting path was not smooth, she had no background, no resources, or she was not from a science class, and she rarely received a weighty role.
For more than 7 years, she could only play some small roles in many dramas.
However, even if the role is small and the role is small, she always treats it with the greatest enthusiasm, and seriously hones her acting skills and improves her strength little by little.
At that time, how far did she fight?
In her own words, 300 of the 365 days a year are rooted in the crew.
Kung Fu pays off, with the hard work of not admitting defeat and being able to persevere, she finally became red.
In 2013, with the costume drama "Legend of Lu Zhen", Zhao Liying became a hit.
After that, she seemed to be hanging all the way to the top, and successively dedicated to the highly acclaimed hit dramas such as "Shanshan Is Coming", "Flowers and Bones", "Chu Qiao Biography" and so on.
In particular, "Flowers and Bones" directly pushed her acting career to the peak, making her popularity and word of mouth soar wildly, once reaching the point where no one could match.
And the most valuable thing about her is that no matter how great her achievements and dazzling brilliance, she is always not arrogant, neither proud nor proud, nor does she forget it.
Because of this self-restraint, as well as the love and dedication to acting, she has gained more and more honors, won awards and soft hands, and various advertisements, variety shows, film and television invitations have come and gone.
Once, she was from the countryside and only had a college diploma, but with unremitting persistence, she changed her destiny and rebuilt her life.
Once, she was born in a non-science class, had no acting foundation, but relied on hard work, hard work, and defeated all the small flowers all the way, becoming a veritable "top stream" in the entertainment industry, and also becoming the "big heroine" of her life.
In this way, she is the brightest star and the most prominent role model.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="152" > high appearance and strong ability, but was "abandoned" by three male stars</h1>
Compared with her career success, Zhao Liying's emotional life has always been unsatisfactory.
Before Feng Shaofeng, she had two "gossip boyfriends". The first is the male star Gao Ziqi.
At the beginning, the two participated in "New Zhu Gege" together, Zhao Liying played "Qing'er", and Gao Ziqi played "Xiao Jian".
In the play, the two have a deep sadistic love affair, and there are also scandals outside the play.
It is said that Zhao Liying, who was only 23 years old at the time and had not yet fallen in love, gradually became emotional to Gao Ziqi during the filming process, not only taking the initiative to pursue him, but also often asking him to eat together in her spare time.
It's just that this "love affair" has not waited for the confirmation of both sides, and the news of the two breaking up has come.
After the breakup, Gao Ziqi also wrote such a sad sentence on social platforms:
"Two years ago in the summer, we cried and laughed together, and we played a living life in the play.
Two years of cold and summer things are not human, and the small flowers of that year are still in full bloom and have become legends. The sound of the whistle is gone, the sword is sheathed, may it be well, may it be happy. ”
After the "scandal" with Gao Ziqi did not end, Zhao Liying soon fell into another "scandal". The other party is Chen Xiao, who has made many fans so far uncomfortable.
In 2012, Zhao Liying and Chen Xiao cooperated as male and female protagonists to shoot the TV series "The Legend of Lu Zhen".
During the filming process, Zhao Liying was difficult to enter the scene, in order to let Zhao Liying better find the acting state and show the truth, the director asked Chen Xiao to pursue Zhao Liying.
Chen Xiao, who has always been very good at coaxing girls to be happy, teased Zhao Liying with tricks and helped her find the role state.
One after the other, the two were moved to each other, not only did they love each other to death and live in the play.
Outside the play, he frequently "sprinkled sugar", not only did not hesitate to interact intimately on social platforms, but also often visited each other, holding hands and traveling together.
At that time, although the two did not admit their love affair head-on, their every move was like a small couple in love. Moreover, the combination of handsome men and beautiful women is very optimistic about fans, and it is also rated as the most popular couple.
It's just that this relationship was spread by the outside world at that time, but in the end, it did not wait for the good news that the two of them had cultivated a positive result.
After that, Zhao Liying experienced a few years of empty windows, and on her birthday in 2018, she suddenly announced her marriage.
Because he and Feng Shaofeng successively joined the "Journey to the West Daughter Country", "Do you know it or not, it should be green fat red skinny", the two got along day and night because of the drama, came together, and soon entered the palace of marriage.
He also gave birth to the crystallization of love shortly after marriage.
Unfortunately, this marriage came and went quickly, and just over two years after marriage, the two ended their marriage because of the less work gathering.
After the divorce, Zhao Liying did not indulge in the pain of a failed marriage, but continued to engage in her career non-stop, still the veritable desperate third wife, still full of vitality as always.
It can be seen that divorce is not a bad thing for her to cramp and peel, nor is it an unfortunate failure. Instead, it became a new journey for her to a broader life.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="150" > the best way for women to live: to be the "big heroine" of their own lives</h1>
15 years after her debut, Zhao Liying is now a well-known first-line actress and has mixed up in the entertainment industry.
Looking back on the past acting road, she was actually quite unsmooth.
Before becoming popular, because she was not from a science class, and her education was not high, she had been looked down upon.
She was even sorted out by netizens as the "Six Deadly Sins" and let her get out of the entertainment circle.
After becoming popular, she was scolded for her low emotional intelligence for speaking outright on some occasions.
But whether facing career difficulties, character doubts, or experiencing marital failure and emotional trauma, she has never been alone to hide and secretly hurt herself, giving up on herself.
Instead, it is to put aside the troubles of the outside world, ignore all the voices of ridicule and doubt, work hard in a down-to-earth manner, rely on their own diligence and desperation, step by step to rise to a high position, and use the popular works and radiant self, which makes people impressed.
She once said:
"I don't use other people's standards to draw a line for my own life.
I have no backing, but I myself am the mountain; I have no world, but I can fight the world myself; I have no capital, so I will earn capital myself. ”
She said these words, and more importantly, she did it.
All the way to the mountains and rivers, she finally harvested the wonderful life she wanted, and lived a beautiful appearance that everyone envied.
In a woman's life, no one can avoid being hurt and frustrated.
The important thing is that no matter what you experience, you have the courage and confidence to put aside the past, fight for breath and devote yourself to cultivating your true skills, and make yourself stronger and stronger.
No matter what you encounter, you can not be worried or afraid, bravely ride the wind and waves, cut through thorns and thorns, continue to improve, and live to become the "big heroine" of your own life.
Let all the nest qi that you have suffered become the bottom of the future.