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Tang Ruoxin learns original works, and those who violate them will be investigated
Love is the spice of life, and a good love can give people warmth and strength. Everyone longs to harvest pure and sincere love, just like "in heaven wish to be a winged bird, in the earth wish to be a branch";
Everyone longs to reap the love of loyalty and unswervingness, just as "the king is regarded as a rock, and the concubine is used as a reed"; everyone is eager to harvest long-lasting love, just as "the mountains have no edges, the heavens and the earth are united, but dare to be with the king." "So what are the characteristics of true love?"
01 Willing to give
True love is not possession, not taking, but giving. Willing to pay for each other, and full of enthusiasm, enjoy it. Of course, this kind of giving is also moderate, and love him in a way that the lover can accept.
Wang Zimu is a section member of the state-owned enterprise unit, for him who has just graduated from graduate school, this job is undoubtedly an opportunity for rapid growth, and correspondingly, he also has to pay a lot of time and energy for this work. Later, he met his girlfriend Sweet, who was in love with each other, and there were many topics to share every day, and he also enjoyed the process of each other's company.
During that time, Tiantian was slightly depressed because she had just left the campus and did not adapt to the rhythm of society, and sometimes it was difficult to sleep all night.
Zimu changed her schedule of getting up at half past seven, set a six-o'clock alarm clock, and called Tiantian to do psychological counseling for her. After working overtime at night, she would also tell bedtime stories until she heard a uniform breathing sound on the other end of the phone. Sweetie asked, "I'm in such a bad state right now, it feels like I'm dragging you down." ”
Zimu said, "You know what? To love someone is to accompany the other person to become better. Everyone has a low point, it just so happens that at this time we meet, I am willing to spend time, spend energy with you to adjust your mentality, and every time I hear you laugh, I am also very, very happy! I also enjoyed the process. ”
True love is the concern of being willing to give for the other person and not asking for anything in return. There is a song like this, "If you fall in love with a flower, you will accompany it to bloom; if you fall in love with a person, you will grow with him." "Lovers are not only icing on the cake, but also can be charcoal in the snow, true love gives people companionship, gives people support, gives people hope and strength."
02 Plenty of security
The sense of security in love is never just lip service, but gives the lover full companionship in the process of getting along; it is not limited to the care of words, but the care of action; it is a thought, it is a thought, it is a way to make the lover feel comfortable and at ease.
Although Zimu is very busy on weekdays, whether it is breakfast, lunch, or dinner, he will take pictures to share with Sweet, in fact, sharing is not to let the lover know what you are doing, but to tell her that you even think about her when you eat.
Zimu will have social gatherings and dinners on weekends, and each time he will be busy until late. But he remembered Sweet's habit of going to bed late, calling her every time he came out halfway through and telling her to rest early and apply her medicine on time. She will also record a few stories and songs to accompany her to sleep.
In fact, the sense of security in true love is obvious, and it is said that "if the two loves are long, they are in the twilight." "True love is not inseparable, but will feel the other party's constant thoughts."
It seems that his love, his love is like a colorful bubble to protect you, you look out through this bubble of love, everything around you is so gorgeous!
03 Planning for the future
As the Oak Tree says, "We share the cold tide, the wind and thunder, and the thunderbolt; we share the fog, the stream, the rainbow." It is as if they are separated forever, but they are dependent on each other for life. "True love has never been a greedy pleasure together, but mutual supervision, common progress, but also planning the future together, not wasting."
Zimu is three years older than Tiantian, and he has already experienced the hardships of testing and the hardships of work. And Tiantian has just graduated, and she is still very confused. Accidentally asked about the previous love experience, sweet answer: "Dating with the ex-boyfriend is to eat together, catch dolls, sometimes skip class to travel, and even can't take care of the registration of English level four or six, now think about it is indeed overwhelmed by love." ”
Zimu said: "I personally feel that in love, boys' ideas will be more mature than those of girls, and they will rarely be emotional. So in the process of falling in love, I will have an invisible sense of responsibility.
I feel that for my girlfriend's academic blind spots or future planning confusion, I have the ability to be more responsible and accompany her to plan, rather than having unbridled pleasure with her. True love is about growing up and I can accompany her from 0 to 1 instead of getting bad from 0. ”
To truly love someone is to sincerely hope that the other person will become better. Everyone is an independent individual, when we are attracted to each other's shining points, with the intersection of love, then we have to grow with each other, rather than consuming each other. It is a moderate supervision and restraint of each other, a positive encouragement and companionship, and a joint planning of the future and a better future.
In the process of falling in love, you feel that your thoughts become positive, full of hope and expectation for life, and have an invisible support when you encounter setbacks, and feel that you are making progress and growth little by little. You're probably meeting true love!
Today's topic: Is your relationship true love, welcome to discuss and communicate.