South Korea's well-known actress took her 14-year-old autistic son Min'er to appear in the variety show "Convenience Store Restaurant" and opened up her daily life.
People steal food behind their mothers' backs, scream loudly when they are happy, cry when they are irritable, and keep clapping their hands and walking around...
The people's heart-warming behavior and abnormal behavior were captured by the camera and were judged by thousands of viewers. His obesity problem also became a hot topic on the Internet.
In the program, Wu Yun'er took her son out to exercise
Beauty stars from the strength faction
To the mother of autistic children
Born in 1980, Wu Yun'er was excavated by economic companies at the age of 19 and quickly became popular.
Later, she participated in a number of popular TV series, such as "Married Once", "Shi Ren Tangguang's Diary", "You Are Surrounded", etc., and was once known as the queen of weekend dramas.
Today, she has a more important identity — a single mother of a 14-year-old autistic child.
Wu Yun'er
In 2007, the 27-year-old Wu Yun'er married into a rich family and gave birth to a son Min'er in August of the same year.
When the child was born, he spent half a day in the nursery because of breathing disorders, and when he was 16 months old, he underwent general anesthesia surgery because of a hernia.
It was also from this time that Wu Yun'er found that her son evaded his mother's gaze, and his gaze became unfocused.
Young people
She took her son to the hospital countless times, but was always told by the pediatrician that the child was fine, don't worry.
Wu Yun'er tried to deceive herself that the child would grow up to be fine, but when the child went to the nursery, a phone call from the teacher called her back to reality.
That day, she was shooting a poster in Hong Kong, China, and when she saw the caller ID as a teacher, she "giggled" in her heart.
Sure enough, when the phone was connected, I heard the teacher say, "I feel that the child has a problem, have you been to the hospital for examination?" ”
Going to the hospital again, the 5-year-old was diagnosed with autism.
"Why is my child going through this pain?" Healthy growth was once Wu Yun'er's only expectation for the people, but it backfired.
Wu Yun'er recalled the past
The challenge of fate did not stop there, in 2015, min's father sued for divorce, left the mother and son, and quickly re-established the family.
Wu Yun'er became a single mother, and in order to make a living, she worked hard in the entertainment industry while taking care of her autistic son alone.
In the third grade of primary school, min'er quickly gained weight due to illness after taking hormone-containing drugs.
The photo was posted online, and Wu Yun'er was insulted by South Korean netizens:
"Only care about their own body, have nothing to do with the child, raise the child too fat."
"Divorce requires custody only for property, not a good mother at all."
……
A photo of Wu Yun'er's mother and son and her grandmother
Under the weight of life and the pressure of public opinion, Wu Yun'er fell into depression, but when she saw her son who was still unable to live on her own, she could only get back into work as soon as possible. During that time, she was crazy to take over the scene, did not care about the number of scenes, and did not care about the role image.
Son 13 years old
Finally opened his mouth to call Mom
In April 2020, Wu Yun'er and her 14-year-old son participated in the variety show "Convenience Store Restaurant", which is a life variety show that goes to celebrities' homes for a long time, dedicated to discovering celebrities' good dishes and selling them on the shelves of convenience stores.
In the show, the daily life of the mother and son is exposed to the public.
On the first day of recording, early in the morning, Wu Yun'er got up to prepare a rich breakfast with meat, vegetables and soup for her partial son, and the people ate satisfactorily, so they raised their hands and quickly shook their fingers to express their happiness.
Wu Yun'er and Min'er are eating breakfast
People have serious communication barriers, they only start calling their mothers at the age of 13, and they can't speak fluently at the age of 14, and they need to use movements to express their emotions and thoughts.
Eating breakfast, Min'er wanted to play with the mobile phone but was directly rejected by his mother, he began to make a strange noise in irritability, slapping his thigh, and repeating "mobile phone, mobile phone" in his mouth.
Wu Yun'er interrupted Min'er's self-stimulation behavior of patting her thighs through hugging, but still insisted on not giving min'er mobile phones.
When Wu Yun'er went to find her son after finishing her housework, she saw him crying alone in the room.
When the mother came over, Min Er hugged the mother and repeated, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry", as if to feel sorry for the tantrum just now.
The people who apologize to their mothers
Looking back at the video recorded by the program, Wu Yun'er shed tears uncontrollably, and she waited too long for this moment.
When she was a child, Min'er's temper would not help but beat her, and she suffered a lot for this, but from the age of 13, Min'er suddenly became a lot more sensible.
"Even in the moment he can't regulate his emotions and control his behavior, but he already understands that he is doing wrong and reflects on what should be done and what should not be done."
Also at the age of 13, min'er learned to call their mothers and began to care for the people around them.
Wu Yun'er believes that this is due to the insistence on taking her children out for training. "They need to learn little by little the way to live in society by going out."
Taking an autistic child out of the house is scolded
In order to work, Wu Yun'er often travels everywhere, and whenever she has the opportunity, she will bring her son with her.
Children and mothers who are out and about
But it is not easy to lead the people, he will not obediently obey, there are many sudden behaviors, such as taking other people's things, suddenly running around, Wu Yun'er needs to always tighten his nerves and clean up the mess he broke out.
What impressed her most was that once at the Singapore airport, she did not pay attention, the people ran away, she desperately searched for the whole airport, and the moment she found her son, she held her son and cried madly, and the sweat and tears fell together. After the mood stabilized, I just wanted to breathe a sigh of relief, but turned my head to find that my luggage and wallet were lost...
She often wished she could have two bodies, one to take care of her son and the other to take care of her own life.
In the face of autism, star status does not give them any convenience, she also has to endure the strange eyes of the people around her, need to worry about the troubles caused by her son to others, and even their every move must be captured and magnified by the camera.
When Wu Yun first took her child out, she was often scolded for her son's abnormal behavior, and she had a lot of complaints in her heart at that time, but when she thought about it, she felt that this was caused by the autistic family not going out often.
"Children like Min'er behave unusually, and ordinary people inevitably feel alarmed when they see it." Wu Yun'er feels that the more autistic families do not go out, the more difficult it is for the outside world to accept and adapt. "The outside world also needs opportunities to learn to face our children and learn how to treat them."
Wu Yun'er hopes that through the variety show, more strength will be given to autistic families with the same pain, so that they can go out confidently.
Wu Yun'er hopes to bring the courage of autistic families to go out
The harvest of min'er starring in variety shows
Before going on the variety show, Wu Yun'er also had entanglements, worried about letting her son suffer bad comments again.
To this end, she specifically asked her son's opinion, and the people expressed their happiness.
Unexpectedly, after the show aired, she received a lot of encouragement.
Comments by South Korean netizens on Wu Yun'er's mother and son
The camera captures many of Min'er's strengths and strengths, he is kind and friendly, and enthusiastic about people;
It also reflects the true appearance of autistic children, some of them will be gluttonous, sometimes they can't control their emotions...
The mother of autistic children told Wu Yun'er that she felt it was particularly great to see children with autism being recognized by the public through variety shows instead of news. "This is the life of an autistic family, not easy or heavy."
After starring in the variety show, min'er also has a positive change, Wu Yun'er said, in adolescence min'er is very concerned about others, when recording the program, because there are other people watching, min'er has become more well-behaved and cooperative.
The children learned the results of swimming for 8 years
But Min'er never lost weight, even if his mother paid great attention to controlling his diet and exercise, he always found an opportunity to secretly eat behind his mother's back.
The camera repeatedly recorded the moment when the people stole food behind their mother's back
Bad reviews about his figure no longer appeared, and the audience mostly thought that the chubby him was cute.
The figure of the people did not change, but people's eyes changed.
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