Big dreams who have a premonition, I know myself in my lifetime. - Romance of the Three Kingdoms
When we want to do something, we are always influenced by outside voices. If you want to achieve a high goal in life, someone will tell you that you are daydreaming. Wanting to be with someone, there will also be people who subjectively comment that the two of you are inappropriate. The more people care about other people's opinions, the easier it is to look ahead and look back, and over time, such people will become self-destructive.
Such a voice has a fairly general influence on us, but for people with a certain degree of popularity, the impact can be said to be extremely huge, at this time, how not to be affected by the outside world, has become their compulsory course.
Among these people, there is one person who can be said to handle this problem very well, that is, the writer Lin Qingxuan, whether it is work or feelings, he can ignore the voices of the outside world and face it calmly. So, what makes him calm and calm for 48 years after experiencing a series of ups and downs such as unemployment and marriage change?
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Lin Qingxuan, born in 1953, Taiwanese, he was born in a family of ancestors who farmed, his parents are also ordinary farmers, due to the general family conditions, Lin Qingxuan's life when he was a child was very poor, and he was not the only child in the family, there are more than a dozen brothers and sisters in his family, Lin Qingxuan ranked twelfth, is a child without a sense of existence. Therefore, his childhood life can be said to be difficult to describe.
Such a living environment did not dampen Lin Qingxuan's obsession with dreams, he was eight years old, he had a dream to become a writer, he was full of hope, with joy to tell this dream to his father, looking forward to getting his encouragement, however, what he did not expect was that he received a slap from his father.
Father thought this dream was ridiculous, and for ordinary people like them, it was almost wishful thinking. But Lin Qingxuan did not give up writing because of this, on the contrary, his father's attitude made him more determined to embark on this path.
Lin Qingxuan has developed the habit of reading all kinds of books since he was eight years old, and insists on recording some stories that happen in life with words every day, in elementary school, he will write about five hundred words a day, and in junior high school, he will accumulate to a thousand words, and high school continues to increase, becoming two thousand words, this habit has always been maintained, until college, he has been able to write three thousand words of stories every day effortlessly.
In order to be able to balance his studies and dreams, Lin Qingxuan will earn contributions through writing in junior high school and high school to ensure that he can continue to complete his studies, and when he enters the society, for his dreams, he has also done the work of porters and stalls, although the day is very bitter and tired, but the thought of the night he can return to his home, pick up a pen to enter his spiritual world, when creating words, all the hard work seems to have meaning.
It is precisely because Lin Qingxuan has had these experiences, so his view of life is different from ordinary people, in his eyes, nothing is worth worrying about, no matter what others say can be calmly faced, so when he encounters many difficulties in life and receives a lot of criticism, he can still maintain a calm and calm heart and not be affected by the outside world.
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Although Lin Qingxuan is a very successful writer in our eyes, when he was young, he also experienced the same thing that many of us experienced, that is, there was no happy marriage.
His first wife was called Chen Cailuan, at that time, the two of them were a literary rookie, and the other was an ordinary housewife, which seemed to be very incompatible, and in fact, for Lin Qingxuan, he hoped that his wife was a person who understood himself and could empathize with his thoughts, and it was obvious that Chen Cailuan's literary literacy could not support her to do this.
Therefore, two people have almost no way to communicate at home, almost like strangers. Such a marriage will make people very depressed, and one day, Chen Cailuan finally couldn't stand it and left the family.
Looking at the empty family, Lin Qingxuan was also very uncomfortable in his heart, he decided to calm down and think about how to live his future life, and after three months, he gave up his very good job at that time and ran to the mountain to live in seclusion, trying to understand some Buddhist principles.
He lived on the mountain for two years, and during these two years his thinking underwent tremendous changes, which were manifested in his work and injected a new soul into his work. After feeling his spiritual strength refreshed, Lin Qingxuan finally met his soul mate, that is, Fang Chunzhen. In order to be able to marry her smoothly, Lin Qingxuan spent a lot of effort to find Chen Cailuan, and after the two people went through the divorce procedures, Lin Qingxuan quickly married Fang Chunzhen.
Fang Chunzhen and Lin Qingxuan were fifteen years apart, after the news of their marriage spread, they were questioned by the public, Lin Qingxuan's image was greatly affected, Fang Chunzhen also in order not to let this matter continue to ferment, Lin Qingxuan had to choose to leave Taiwan and come to the interior to continue to develop, but during this period the two of them never wavered, nor did they have the idea of separating.
In Lin Qingxuan's eyes, life is for himself, so he cares more about whether he can be with the people he likes and live the life he wants more than the evaluation of him by the outside world.
Perhaps it is precisely because Lin Qingxuan has such an indifferent heart, so the works he has written are also contaminated with many such ideas, and reading them can often make people feel calm, as if there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.
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Lin Qingxuan's life fully explains to us what it means to be both self-motivated and content. In terms of writing, he actively pursues his ideals, never being defeated by the outside world's views and immediate difficulties, and in other aspects of life, he can always face it calmly, even in the face of marriage and unemployment, he can still remain calm and calm, and has been spending forty-eight years like this.
Lin Qingxuan's success is justified, and his attitude of not caring about the opinions of others and treating the world indifferently is worthy of our appreciation, and it is also worth everyone's learning.