A prose written by Taiwanese writer Lin Qingxuan, "The Makeup of Life", began by writing about makeup. He borrowed from a veteran makeup artist and said:
"The highest state of makeup can be described in two words, that is, 'natural', the most intelligent makeup technique, is a very elaborate makeup, so that the family looks as if there is no makeup, and this makeup matches the identity of the owner, can naturally show the personality and temperament of the person."
Secondary makeup is to highlight the person, make her stand out, and attract the attention of everyone. Poor makeup is a makeup that is found to be very thick as soon as she stands up, and this layer of makeup is to cover up her shortcomings or age.
The worst kind of makeup is to distort your personality after makeup, and lose the coordination of your facial features, such as people with small eyes who have thick eyebrows, people with big faces who turn into white faces, and people with wide mouths who turn red lips..."
In addition to "the worst kind of makeup", makeup can really play a role. But now many companies require female employees to wear makeup, and there is a argument that no makeup is disrespectful to others, which really exaggerates the role of makeup, which is exaggerated.
In life, there are many women who do not like makeup, never wear makeup, and can completely live their own dashing life.
Women who don't like makeup, if they can always insist on doing these 3 things well, they will win.
01 Work hard for your career
Who will never betray you?
Who can always give you a sense of security?
Only their own career.
If you don't like makeup, then you don't like it. No makeup, plain face to the sky, really no disrespect for anyone, and no sorry for anyone.
Career is the biggest confidence of women, with this confidence, calm, calm and not angry and domineering, will be transformed into the best makeup, presented on your face.
Career can not only give you material security, but also enrich your spiritual life.
To have your own career, you must have a spirit of hardship.
Kazuo Inamori said:
"The essence of suffering is the ability to focus for a certain goal for a long time, in the process, to give up the entertainment life, to give up ineffective socializing, to give up meaningless consumption, and the loneliness in the process that is not understood. Its essence is a kind of self-control, self-control, persistence and the ability to think deeply. ”
Women have a hard life, so they must have this spirit of hardship, so they will make their lives easier and easier. And that kind of good and bad work, or the idea that "girls don't have to work so hard" will make a woman's life more bitter.
If you don't suffer from your career, you will definitely suffer from marriage and life.
Writer Wu Xiaobo said:
"Every unique good thing is premised on unparalleled diligence. It's either sweat, it's blood, or it's a lot of good times. ”
In a woman's life, "a lot of good times" should be given to the career.
02 Run your own family
Wang Xiaobo once said:
"When people are young, they feel that there are people everywhere, and other people's affairs are your business, and after middle age, they feel that there is nothing in the world except their families." 」
There is no need to fight against the social clock and highlight one's own personality.
Having a child is a watershed in a woman's life, and before the child is born, focus on the career. After the birth of the child, of course, we must accompany the child more, and we must carefully manage our own family.
In ordinary people's families, the birth of a child often brings contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because someone has to take the child, getting along with the mother-in-law is the most test of a woman's ability to run a family, and I believe that there must be a couple divorced because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Don't try to be close to your mother-in-law like a mother and daughter, keep your distance, see through and don't say broken is the best way to get along. Then, put more thought into your husband and children, take good care of your little family, and all problems will be solved.
And the man who formed the family with you – your husband. If he is deformed because you have a child, has no time to wear makeup, or even accuses you of being old and yellow, such a man really does not need to continue to live together. Don't kidnap the child with the words "for you, I won't divorce".
With a "pig teammate", no matter how hard you try, it is impossible to run your own family.
Running a family is not a grievance to seek perfection, and comfort is the most important thing.
03 Never forget yourself
Schopenhauer said:
"One of the most special weaknesses of human nature is that it cares about how others perceive itself."
Women who claim to wear makeup to please themselves, will they also wear makeup when they stay at home alone?
It's really not that important to wear makeup, because other people really aren't that important.
Lin Qingxuan said:
"Makeup is only one last hurdle, and it can change very few facts. The deeper layer of makeup is to change the physique, so that a person changes her lifestyle, sleeps enough, pays attention to exercise and nutrition, so that her skin is improved and her spirit is sufficient, which is much more effective than makeup.
The deeper layer of makeup is to change the temperament, read more, appreciate art more, think more, be optimistic about life, have confidence in life, be kind-hearted, care for others, love yourself and have dignity, such a person is not makeup and ugly, makeup on the face is only the last small thing of makeup.
I use three simple sentences to explain that third-rate makeup is makeup on the face, second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup, and first-class makeup is the makeup of life. ”
The spirit is one's own, life is one's own, and has nothing to do with others.
Women, the most important thing to forget is themselves.