Some girls seem to be too easy to fall into love, libraries, buses, subways, snack bars as long as it is a place where strangers can meet, she can often have a "love" for a certain opposite sex, and even fantasize about a series of idol dramas. But the duration of this "love" is often too short, and in the end, it will not pass, but soon, it can fall into the next "love".
If you meet the above characteristics, then congratulations, you have become a "crush" love girl.
What is a "crush" love affair?
Crush is used as an English word divided into verbs and nouns, and verbs can be translated as crushing, crushing, crumpling, squeezing, etc. As a noun, it can be translated as a short, warm and shy love, which is the meaning of the idiom "joy at first sight" in our Chinese.
When it comes to short-lived, passionate love, many people may think of the divorce of the Korean celebrity couple Gu Hye-sun and Ahn Jae-hyun, who have made a lot of noise before. As a female Wenqing, Gu Huishan left "He only loved me briefly" on her personal social platform, which became a popular golden sentence for a while. Corresponding to what we often call "joy at first sight", and as a "crush" type of love, whether it happens to girls and boys, it is a very normal phenomenon.
What are the types of "crush" love?
1. Friendship. It is what we often call "platonic rush", a person's unconditional trust in another person, intimate and special, but do not want to have sex with them, this is the friendship rush.
2. Worshipful. When a person worships a certain person, that person may be a star or an elder, this worship is unstoppable, but this mode of worship is fearful.
3. Like the new and dislike the old. This often happens to people who already have a fixed object, when another person appears in life, who is deeply attracted to it for some reason and cannot control the instinctive ambiguity with it.
4. Romantic. This is the pattern I mentioned at the beginning, people who fall into this pattern are often prone to fantasies, and the liking of others can be called a kind of obsession. Through their own imagination, they have made up an idol story with that person, but the romance is as delicate and fragile as a bubble. This tends to be the most rapid, and most of the results are not achieved.
Finally, "crush" love is actually a fantasy, just like a girl imagined herself as a princess living in a castle in her childhood, the existence of this fantasy is not harmful to our spirit, and sometimes, this fantasy can help us solve the feeling of emptiness and loneliness in real life. However, "crush" love is not the same as real love, real love is what we need to work hard to pay for practical actions to have oh ~ ~ ~ ~