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Love mentor Tu Lei said a passage about the "prodigal son turning back":
"Men are amorous and affectionate, women are obsessed and desperate, women are infatuated, men are amorous, women after despair, men become affectionate." All the uninhibited past, hurt themselves, but also overdrafted the trust of others, if it is really the prodigal son to turn back, it is really not changed, frankly, the real prodigal son to turn back, not only to have remorse, but also to have practical actions, endless repentance is useless, you have to make up your mind to change yourself, use time to prove everything. ”
The KK in "Goodbye Lover" really did it, I was not optimistic about him at first, I thought he was a "giant baby", his emotional management was also poor, and he was an alcoholic, I even felt that he was not saved; but after reading it, I really felt that KK's change was too surprising.
In fanwai, KK has obviously become handsome: he has lost a lot of weight, and his whole state is much better. The first thing everyone said when they saw KK was, "You've lost weight." ”
KK changed a lot after recording the show, and he made a plan for himself to work out, cook, and quit drinking. He drank less frequently, no longer as a catharsis but as an occasional drink. When choosing a healthy lifestyle and sticking to it for a while, KK becomes handsome.
KK also teased wang Qiuyu, and he could accept the ugly words that netizens had criticized him in the past with a very open-minded attitude. I suddenly admired KK a little, because I myself had lost weight through fitness, I insisted on two months, those two months every day to go to the gym, if I relax a little, it will be difficult to stick to it. In two months, I lost twenty pounds, and the two months after giving birth were too fat, and I had no choice but to use exercise to make myself lose weight quickly.
Fitness is also a test of one's physical endurance, and it is not so easy.
And KK did it, and he used practical actions to let us see that he really changed himself.
KK is very frank: "I used to not see myself, but when I finished the show, I saw that I was like that, after drinking and then I lost my temper, I realized that I really should change." 」 ”
KK is aware of his shortcomings and has the ability to act, which many men may not be able to do.
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In the past, in the show, KK did not realize that drinking was a problem, and I think it has something to do with Zhanghe's "and thin mud". When Tong Chenjie publicly accused KK of drinking, and KK explained that drinking was just a way to vent, Zhang He said on the side that men don't like to drink a little wine? What can be wrong with that. Tong Chenjie said that KK drinking is not a little wine, but has reached the point of an alcoholism.
After KK realized his shortcomings, he was willing to take a step forward to change himself.
I remember that when they finally decided, there was another little episode, it was KK who got out of the car first, and then Tong Chenjie delayed getting off the car because he was thinking about things, the car drove away, and KK kept chasing. It can also be seen from this that KK loves Tong Chenjie very much. Zhang He was obviously different, the car drove away and he was embarrassed to stay in place, and did not chase forward. Loving someone your actions will not deceive you.
I first saw KK's reaction in the show, I especially suggested that Tong Chenjie divorce him, I approved KK as worthless, but in fact, carefully speaking, KK really has no special problems, as long as he recognizes his mistakes and corrects them, then he is a very perfect husband.
Strong business ability, will enliven the atmosphere, very warm, if you can still take on housework with you, can understand you, can work out with you, can take on the heavy responsibility of family life, you will be very relaxed with such a man. Tong Chenjie said that KK is a very warm person, which can make her feel a lot of positive energy, but also because there is a sharp contrast with her ex-husband, Tong Chenjie feels that KK is very good.
On the issue of children, KK also chose to respect Tong Chenjie, and when Tong Chenjie wanted to regenerate.
Love in both directions is really meaningful, if it has always been an excessive effort on one side, then he will always be tired one day. I don't expect you to help him much, but can you not hold back.
KK is very real, he completely exposed his shortcomings in the show, he is not too dressed up like Zhanghe.
Tong Chenjie once said that she hopes for her husband Jackie Chan, and when KK is most emotionally unstable, Tong Chenjie is unusually firm and "not divorced", because she still has expectations for KK, and she hopes to see the change of KK. Fortunately, KK really has action, and Tong Chenjie's "Wangfu Jackie Chan" has also achieved his wish.
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In fact, Zhang He is the most stubborn person.
There is a detail in the fanwai, when Guo Keyu said that his son's reaction when watching the show, mentioned her son's "Mom, Dad will change", Zhang He directly laughed, "What do I change". Zhang He was completely unaware of what problems he had in his marriage, Guo Keyu had so many hardships, and he also felt that he had been wronged. Zhang He's empathy is very low, and he does not understand romance, so when Guo Keyu shares with him, his attitude is always boring, and over time, Guo Keyu is not willing to share.
Like Zhang He's marriage with Guo Keyu, it has entered a dead end, and there is only one way to divorce, because Guo Keyu has paid too much in the marriage, and the internal consumption has been too much, and she is really tired. Whenever Guo Keyu talked about her dedication to marriage in the past ten years, when she cried bitterly, what I saw from Zhang He's face was Mu Ne, and there was no reaction.
Zhang He is a man who does not know how to hurt women, and KK is different, he can still bring you a lot of warmth.
It is difficult to change yourself, KK has good execution, and in reality many men may not be able to do it.
Whether a man still has hope depends on whether he can recognize his mistakes and whether he is willing to correct them.
KK did it, became handsome, and his relationship with Tong Chenjie improved.
A good marriage is by no means the effort and effort of one party, but the result of the joint efforts of two people, and it makes sense to go in both directions. I hope that Tong Chenjie and KK can be happy and happy, and if KK really changes himself and can assume the responsibility of being a father, the two of them can consider having a child.
Bless them and hope they can have better marriages and happier ones.
Today's topic: What do you think of the marriage between KK and Tong Chenjie? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.