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What kind of man is Su Daqiang in the TV series "All Is Good"?
Selfish, unreasonable, messy, weak, nestled, but all the inferior root shortcomings that men have, he Su Daqiang really took full possession. Such men are often irresponsible and cannot carry things.
Su Daqiang said that his life was delayed by his wife Zhao Meilan, but a man like him did not delay Zhao Meilan. The husband and wife are the result of mutual influence, and the reason why Zhao Meilan is so strong is probably because Su Daqiang is too unreliable.
Jiao Na will feel that the first half of her life was ruined by her ex-husband in many cases, fortunately, in the end, she finally got out and divorced, otherwise she didn't know what kind of fate Jiao Na would have?
Jiao Na still remembers the moment when she and her ex-husband fought a divorce lawsuit "in court", and her ex-husband pretended to be stupid and a bit of a scoundrel in court, and even the judge couldn't look at it at that time. Jiao Na originally wanted to return her own property, but seeing her ex-husband's "weak and incompetent" look, she could only give up her property and wanted to divorce as soon as possible.
Living with such a man, Giona felt that she was about to suffocate.
It is said that women in marriage still have to have a sense of admiration for their husbands, if there is no sense of worship, two people quarrel together all day long, you are very tired in marriage, men can not be trusted, then what is the meaning of the existence of this marriage?
Yes, her Gyona's ex-husband looks like an honest person in the eyes of others, and she Gyona looks strong in others, but who knows how bitter she is in her heart? She also doesn't want to be strong, but whenever her ex-husband can be a little reliable, she doesn't want to be strong?
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What a selfish person was Jonah's ex-husband? She still remembers that one year it was her mother-in-law who had an acute pancreatitis attack and had to go to the hospital immediately, and the old man said that he didn't need his money, but he was still afraid of the burden and sent it away with a sentence: "I'm married, I have my home." ”
Treat your own biological mother like this, such a man seems to be "weak and deceitful", but in fact he is extremely strong inside. As long as it is beneficial to himself, he will possess, and if it is unfavorable, he will show himself to be very weak.
When divorcing, it is supposed that a man has to pay maintenance, but he can "pretend to be deaf and dumb" and then it is helpless.
At that time, Jiao Na smiled: "Well, you remember, live with your money for a lifetime, and the children don't need you to raise them." But I want to say that how you live in the future has nothing to do with us. ”
Jiao Na was originally a very gentle little woman, but after a few years of marriage, she could not live, completely tortured her out of shape.
Fortunately, she was able to realize this mistake in time and stay away from the "Su Daqiang" style of nesting men.
Many people may feel that in the relationship between Su Daqiang and Su Mu, Su Daqiang is the weak, but I want to say that many things have to be handled by Su Mu herself, Su Daqiang is a "dare not do, dare not be" look no matter what he experiences, in fact, Su Daqiang is such a really strong person. He doesn't care what other people say, he can't feel anything, and then he makes others helpless.
Why not in Giona's marriage? She also wanted to ask her husband's opinion, but whatever she did did didn't seem to have a role.
Men who everyone says "nest bags" are the most upset? In fact, in marriage, a woman who is forced to be strong is not happy.
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Fortunately for Jiao Na than Zhao Meilan, she can choose divorce alone. The first half of my life was a failed marriage, and the second half of my life was about to live well for myself.
The "Su Daqiang" type of man is cowardly and incompetent on the surface, but in fact he is extremely strong inside. We will find that in the TV series, Su Daqiang is the kind of person who can ignore what others say, insisting on letting others compromise for him.
Su Daqiang obviously can take care of himself, but he has to live with his children; Su Daqiang obviously only needs to buy two rooms and one hall, but he has to die to buy three rooms and one hall. Just like Su Mingyu said, Su Daqiang just pretends not to know anything, pretends to be weak and deceitful, pretends not to understand anything, and pretends to be pitiful.
Su Daqiang is very selfish, pretending to be innocent and pitiful at every turn, pretending to be crazy and selling stupid vested interests.
With a husband who has a "nest fee", women will also be very weak. So in many cases, don't blame the woman, that's because men are too unable to carry things.
But all the "Su Daqiang" type of men can shoulder things in the marriage and take some responsibility, and women will have a hope in the marriage.
Writing this article is still trying to tell women to choose a man who has some ability to do things instead of a selfish "embroidered pillow". There will be many things in marriage that need to be carried by two people together, rather than you facing all the storms alone.
Men will feel that women are strong and live as "nest waste", and I would like to say that no woman will want to have a husband who is "nest waste".
Marriage still has to be a little appreciative, not all disgusted.
Today's topic: What do you think of the "Su Daqiang" style of nest men? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.