Reading "Dream of the Red Chamber", pin Jia Zheng and Jia Baoyu's father-son relationship

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Reading "Dream of the Red Chamber", I paid special attention to all the stories between Jia Zheng and Jia Baoyu. I also savored the father-son relationship between them.

The ninth time in the book, Bao Yu went to Jia Zheng to go to school to ask for peace, and Jia Zheng sneered: "If you mention the two words of school again, even I am ashamed to death, according to me, you are stubborn to go is the right reason, carefully look at my dirty land, rely on my door!" This ironic and sarcastic remark can only be said by a person like Jia Zheng to his own son. When the father said and asked the next person, who followed? What to learn? After talking about the requirements for going to school, please tell the grandfather in the school, that is, our current teacher, not to read any ancient texts of the Book of Poetry, but to first explain the four books together. This is the first direct contact between Jia Zheng and Jia Baoyu in the book.

The second time is because the King of Beijing Junjun wants to see Jia Baoyu, Jia Zheng, who is a father, naturally wants to be the person who introduces the child, Baoyu's face is like a spring flower, and the beautiful teenager with a little paint is naturally loved by the King of Beijing, and Jia Zheng of course wants to return some polite words. King Shui Rong of Beijing sent a string of rosary beads on his wrist to Baoyu, and Baoyu took it and turned back to offer it to Jia Zheng, who thanked Bao Yu together. This is the first time in the book that father and son have a common interpersonal interaction with a foreigner. It is also a tacit understanding.

The third father-son relationship was in the 17th time for the inscription of plaques and couplets for various places in the Grand View Garden. Cao Weng is a master of writing books, and it seems that the meeting between Baoyu and Jia Zheng is a random mistake. In fact, if you think about it carefully, the Grand View Garden of Jia Province naturally has people from the Jia family to inscribe the plaque. The Grand View Garden, which was built by the provincial family of the big miss, was inscribed by the sister's favorite brother, and Jia Zheng's love for his children as a father can be seen. It's just that this process is somewhat painful for Baoyu, and Jia Zheng's recognition of Baoyu's talent is even ironic and sarcastic, either making fun of it or reprimanding it, without a word of approval. For example, for the first treasure jade to take the "winding path through the seclusion", for the appreciation of others, Jia Zheng only laughed: "Don't say it, he is young but he is just making fun of it with one knowledge." Again selected". For the second time when he named "Qin Fangzhai", he finally had Jia Zheng's greatest appreciation for Baoyu, that is, he nodded and smiled. For the third time when the plaque was inscribed "There is a phoenix to come to the yi", everyone was roaring, and Wei Jiazheng nodded, "Beast, beast, can be described as 'pipe voyeuristic'." For the couplet of the treasure jade question, he just shook his head and said, "It's not long."

Stepping into the Mao Hall, Jia Zheng asked Bao Yu, "How is this place?" Everyone quietly pushed Baoyu and asked him to say yes, but Baoyu did not listen to anyone's words, and only said: "It is not as good as having a phoenix." Of course, he was scolded by Jia Zheng a few times. When Bao Yu talked about the word "natural", Jia Zheng was angry: "Fork out!" But he was ordered to come back and let him ask another question, "If it doesn't make sense, punch your mouth together." After Bao Yu finished asking, Jia Zheng shook his head and said, "It's even worse." Out of the Mao Hall, Baoyu in the sound of water, pouring out of the stone cave, titled "Ting Ting Flower Water". When Jia Zheng heard this, he criticized "nonsense." Later, Baoyu took the initiative to explain various flower names to Jia Zheng, and was drunk by the old father: "Who asked you to come!" The frightened Baoyu stepped back and did not dare to say anything more. Later, when Bao Yu didn't say anything, he said, "Why don't you say it when you should talk, and you have to wait for someone to ask you for advice?" Including the following "Is there any reason for this"; "You beast, there is a time when you can't do it"; "Nonsense, don't use the word Qinfang"; "not good, not good". Until finally letting Bao Yu go, he also said: "You still don't go, are you still not enough to visit?" I don't want to go around this half day the old lady will hang. If you don't go in fast, it hurts you in vain. It seems that this old father and father did not have a word of affirmation for all the language of his son. No wonder Baoyu is afraid to see his father, no matter what he does, his father is not happy or unhappy, in addition to reprimanding or reprimanding, Baoyu of course can avoid it.

Watching this paragraph, I think it is very funny, Jia Zheng is a decent gentleman, humble and courteous appearance in front of others. And for scolding their children, they do not skimp on any ugly language. Especially for the evaluation of his son, but he did not give any face, did not have a good word.

Therefore, in Jia Mu's place, as long as Jia Zheng is there, the Baoyu who used to talk about a lot will become only one. Of course, there are also times when fathers and sons get along tacitly. For example, in order to please his mother, Jia Zheng whispered the mystery of the guess to Baoyu, and Baoyu would quietly tell Jia Mu. After all, father and son are father and son, and filial piety to Jia Mu is a common wish. Later, when he was at Jia Mu's place, Ya Gui said, "The old man's name is Baoyu." Bao Yu listened as if he had hit a jolt, and when he climbed up, he swept away xing's head, and his face turned color, so he pulled Jia Mu to twist it like a twisted strand of sugar, and he didn't dare to go to death. I can't move three inches in one step, and I rub it to this side. It made everyone smile when they saw Baoyu. Jia Zheng looked at baoyu in one fell swoop, seeing Baoyu standing in front of him, radiant and beautiful; See also Jia Huan, the character is obscene, and the behavior is rough. Su Ri's dislike of Baoyu's heart was unconsciously reduced by eight or nine. At the very least, let Bao Yu go to live in the garden, or did not scold. But when he left, he still broke off and said, "The beast who is working, don't go out yet."

Seeing this, I can't help but think that Baoyu's fear of the old father seems to be a little too much. Then you're wrong. For Cao Xueqin, a master of writing, the plot will not be passed down for a hundred years if the plot is flat. In the novel, the undercurrent is about to be earth-shattering.

In the 33rd time, one was because someone had been found in the mansion to ask Bao Yu to find Qi Guan, and the other was because Jia Huan had told the black case and added oil and vinegar to say about Jin Jun'er. And the only savior That Bao Yu found was a deaf woman. So there is the highlight of the book, beating Baoyu. The more love you love, the deeper you hate. The greater the hope you place in, the greater the disappointment. Therefore, the father beat his son more and more angrily, and the scales and wounds of his son were not relieved, and he was eager to take a rope to strangle him. However, in the face of Jia Mu, Jia Zheng said: "My son disciplined him for the sake of Guangzong Yaozu." Until I saw my daughter-in-law and mother crying, and then I looked at my son, I really could beat it. Only then did he regret that he should not have poisoned his hands and hit them to such an extent.

In China, Lao Tzu beat his son, which has been a natural thing since ancient times. However, in the novel, there seems to be a wordless tacit understanding in the noise. Jia Mu had no choice but to weakly lead the mother and son back to Nanjing together to blackmail her son Jia Zheng.

After hundreds of years of development, compared with modern fathers, Jia Zheng seems to have less of a minimum rational judgment on his son's behavior. For example, if you come to your home to ask for people, Jia Huan will say bad things about Baoyu in front of him. Jia Zheng did not think about it from Baoyu's point of view, and he was already dissatisfied with his son's failure to study well, plus these two humiliating things happened at the same time. There was the scene of hitting his son. The so-called deep love, the cut of hate, Jia Zheng is more and more angry, the more he fights, the more he hates. Seeing this, I thought of the way Jia Zhen disciplined her son. Jia Rong did something wrong, Jia Zhen either let him slap his mouth, or let the next person bite him. The thought of a group of people spitting on Jia Rong's handsome face? I felt sick. This practice of educating his son is clearly an insult. But in any case, in such a princely and noble house, they did not condone their sons in the slightest, and the sons were strictly disciplined when they did wrong, no matter what kind of way they used, they were also doing their part as fathers.

Since Baoyu was beaten, the novel has not written a story between Jia Zheng and Baoyu for a long time. Until the 75th time, in order to win the joy of his mother, Jia Zheng rewarded Bao Yu with two fans for his propositional poems, which was also the first time in the novel to affirm his son. By the 81st time, Jia Zheng began to ask Bao Yu to go to the academy every day to study, and to personally send his son to school; Personally entrusted Baoyu to Dai Ru, the teacher of the family school, to learn the Eight Strands of Articles. During this period, Jia Zheng paid close attention to Baoyu's studies. Especially in the 84th time, for the three essays that Baoyu did in the school, in response to the teacher's comments and the questions of the articles, Bao Yu made a sub-interpretation, showing the love of the father and the son, and also making advance plans for Baoyu's future. The so-called raising or not teaching, the father's fault. Jia Zheng, the father, is very concerned about the education of his children. All along, his son's education has been arranged by his father, and he constantly learns about Baoyu's knowledge through various opportunities. Urge Baoyu to study well. Compared with Jia Huan and Jia Lan, Jia Zheng has the most intentions in Baoyu's studies. It seems that he has always placed the hope of continuing the family's career on Baoyu, although he often reprimands Baoyu, but in his heart, in fact, he still recognizes that Baoyu can learn well.

Since then, including their paternity, they have felt a great improvement. Later, for the 85th time, Bao Yu heard that Jia Zheng had promoted Lang Zhong, and his heart was very happy. And the 93rd time Jia Zheng asked the Zhen family how baoyu was? It seems that he has always had his son in mind.

Baoyu, who does not like to read, under the strict supervision of his father, took the 7th place in the examination, and Jia Lan took the 130th place. These are inseparable from Jia Zheng's emphasis on the education of Baoyu and his descendants. But at this point, the novel is also nearing the end.

The last time Baoyu and Jia Zheng met was when Jia Zheng took care of Jia's mother's affairs and met Baoyu on the way home. At this time, Baoyu, who had become a monk, was bare-headed, barefoot, and draped in a cloak of great red orangutan felt, bowed down to Jia Zheng, and then floated away under the grip of the monk. At this time, Jia Zheng recalled baoyu's various experiences when he was born, and realized to himself: "In fact, Baoyu was robbed by all the people, and he coaxed the old lady for 19 years, and now I understand it." He also said, "If you see how Baoyu is willing to study, if he has a little heart, there is nothing he can do." Its temper is also a different kind. At this point, the father-son relationship between Jia Zheng and Jia Baoyu has also been completely over. Jia Zheng devoted himself to educating Baoyu, and Baoyu gave back to his father's love with the seventh place in the middle lift, which is also an affirmation of Jia Zheng's educational achievements. However, under the discipline of the feudal system, even if Baoyu obtained a meritorious name, he abandoned it and ran away from home to show his resistance.

After reading "Dream of the Red Chamber", I opened the page of the character summary at the end of the book, and saw that Jia Zheng attached the most importance to the education of his children. Compared with Jia Zhen, the son of Jia Jing, he never punished his son for not reading; The time Jia Pardon beat Jia Chain, it was also because he did not meet his request to illegally rob others of fans. Therefore, in comparison, among Jia Zheng's descendants, Baoyu and Jia Lanzhong were raised, Yuan Chun married the emperor, and Tan Chunyuan married southern Xinjiang and became a princess. In terms of identity and status, it also highlights the benefits of reading.

Since ancient times, China has had the saying that "everything is inferior, but the reading is high". China's thousand-year-old culture has been passed down from generation to generation through the spirit of reading and learning. The conflict between Jia Zheng and Jia Baoyu's father and son was also caused by reading. It is between various readings and conflicts that readers can better savor their father-son relationship. The father-son relationship between the two represents a kind of father-son relationship in thousands of families in China under the feudal system. Feudal control, respect and understanding. Only with love and persistence, every father will root the concept of reading and learning in the heart of every child, and contribute his own strength to the cultural inheritance of the Chinese nation and the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation.