Life is a battlefield without gun smoke, husband and wife are a comrade-in-arms in the trenches, as long as we can rest assured to give our backs to each other, while concentrating on dealing with the enemy on our side, while ready to support our teammates ammunition, this battle of life, how can we win.
1. The best love is to spoil her as a child.
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On the evening of the 16th, Zhang Jie was invited to Suzhou to hold a concert. Unexpectedly, during the performance, the stage lifting platform suddenly malfunctioned, and Zhang Jie fell heavily from the one-story stage.
Through the video of the scene, you can see that Zhang Jie has blood on his hands, and his hand injuries are more serious.
According to Xie Na, she brought her daughter to watch Zhang Jie's concert that day.
Xie Na told her daughter to go home and sleep together after the concert, and this time, it was also the first time that her daughter had watched her father perform.
Zhang Jie, as a father, may not want to disappoint his daughter at the first sight, and still sticks to the stage despite bleeding hands and cracked bones in his waist.
After the end, Xie Na quickly ran to the back of the stage to see Zhang Jie and accompanied him to the hospital.
Who knows Zhang Jie's first sentence is to ask the child if he is scared, full of fatherly love.
Wanwan did not expect that after Zhang Jie was injured, the first reaction to seeing Xie Na was to ask "Is the child scared?" ”
This is also too good to behold!
Some people say that Xie Na has a good eye and marries a potential stock husband.
Some people also said: "Who knows how much moisture is in Zhang Jie's love for her?" The benefits that Xie Na brought to him were real, and even if he loved Xie Na, he certainly didn't love Xie Na as much as Xie Na loved him. ”
Is this really the case?
Xie Na is not a fool, if Zhang Jie has nothing to offer, she will not love him so deeply, and she will not pay so much recklessly.
So, how did Zhang Jie treat Xie Na?
Xie Na has always had difficulty falling asleep, from love to marriage, to Xie Na's pregnancy, Zhang Jie made up fairy tales every night to coax her to sleep, and when she was not at home at work, he would call her to tell her.
Every time he called, he would wait until Xie Na was asleep before hanging up, because he was afraid that the "beep" sound of hanging up the phone would wake her up.
Xie Na has no sense of direction, often gets lost, go abroad together, Zhang Jie has been holding her hand and is not at ease, will buy a large balloon tied to Xie Na, convenient to find her.
Wait, in life they seem to live like a pair of natural couples.
There is a saying that the best love is to spoil her as a child, in front of Zhang Jie, Xie Na can always be a wayward child.
2. Even more cruel than parting is reunion
On May 31, 2010, the Museum of Modern Art in New York is exhibiting a performance art exhibition called Art is Now.
A wooden table and two chairs are set up on site. In one of the chairs sat performance artist Marina Abramovich, who had been sitting here for 736 hours.
For two and a half months, 1,500 strangers took turns to sit in chairs opposite Abu and look at him.
Abu sat there calmly and peacefully, without a trace of emotion.
But it was this kind of emptiness and immersion that made Abu instead
It became a vessel for all to see themselves in Abu's eyes.
So some people cry, some people laugh, some people confess, some people fidget, they look at Abu, they also look at Abu in the eyes without reservation, reflecting themselves.
Until the appearance of a person broke the confrontation.
This man is called Ulay, and he is Abu's lover who has been in love for 12 years but separated for 22 years.
In their 12 years together, they have completed a variety of world-renowned performance art together.
They are a beautiful couple in the history of contemporary art, but in life, they have to go their separate ways.
20 years on, they were reunited, without words.
For 736 hours, she was a container for all, and the moment Ulay appeared, Abu found himself.
So, what is more cruel than parting is reunion.
Like Byron's poem:
If he were to reunite one day
Why should I congratulate you?
In silence
With tears streaming
3. Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son.
When personal feelings are associated with the state, revolution, and politics, love will also become solemn and serious; When a couple stands side by side on the cusp of history, their bearing and dedication are not what ordinary people can imagine.
Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao used their love legend to make the best interpretation of that ancient saying——— hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son.
From their marriage in Guangzhou in 1925 to zhou Enlai's death in 1976, Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao walked hand in hand for half a century.
Among them, wind and rain, hardship, bumps, sweetness, etc., let future generations sigh.
However, the only one who really understands and enjoys the taste is this pair of lovers who have gone away.
People are accustomed to calling them revolutionary partners, but they also have the side of ordinary couples.
They all love begonia flowers, and sending affection to flowers is the same disposition in their lives.
In their spare time, they will watch plays and walk together; When they can't meet, they keep in touch by letter.
On February 3, 1950, Deng Yingchao wrote to Zhou Enlai, when Deng Yingchao had a heart attack and was recuperating at home, but his concern for her husband was not diminished in the slightest: "Sleep more, drink less, and wash often in the bath.
Zhou Enlai: "I hope you cherish and kiss you thousands." ”
Deng Yingchao: "Love is long and paper is short, and I kiss you thousands." ”
Zhou Enlai: "Your letter is too official, and you have never said that you miss me." ”
Deng Yingchao: "The premier is a very busy person, who has time to think about me." ”
Zhou Enlai: "How do idle people know that busy people want to be idle people." The protagonists of this revolutionary love are Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao.
Deng Yingchao said: Where there is love, it is home.
...... Tender and tender, overflowing with words, making people envious.
4. Conclusion:
Unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes, and in fact, beautiful love also has its own beauty.
I have crossed many bridges, seen clouds many times, drunk many kinds of wine, but I have loved only one person of the right and best age. ——Shen Congwen
The most virtuous wife, the most talented female ,—— Qian Zhongshu
Every time I think of you, a grain of sand falls from the sky, and the Sahara is formed. - Sanmao
Mu Xin said: Once upon a time, the sun became slow, and the cars, horses, and mail were all slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
From these tight love words, from life, we see the beauty of love. May you have the hearts of one man, and the white head will not be separated.