In this world, no one will be an island, for us, love is like a round of the sun in life, can make us feel warm, feel the light, so this is an indispensable part of all our life experiences.
Love is also divided into short-term and long-term, short-term love is to go to the flowers, but it is a superficial experience of what it feels like to be with the opposite sex.
And long-term love is long-lasting, it is each other's determination to go down together, and even if there are stumbles, it will not shake the love for each other.
We should experience long-term love, because such feelings can let us know what a wonderful thing it is to be with someone we like.
In a relationship between the sexes, the more two people who love each other, the more obvious the "physiological response" is, which is a natural reaction that will only appear in front of the person who really likes it.
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In the TV series "The Best of Us", Geng Geng and Yu Huai were at the same table in high school, and at the beginning the feelings of the two people only stayed at the level of friends, and then with the passage of time, the two people were accustomed to the existence of each other, so this feeling sublimated into a kind of like in the case that no one opened their mouths to explain.
Yu Huai likes to play ball, and every time when he finishes playing, there will be a bunch of girls around to bring water, but at this time, Yu Huai will search for Geng Geng's figure in the crowd, and in a few seconds, he can see where Geng Geng is.
Geng Geng is also, no matter how many people there are on the court, and no matter how they change their positions, Geng Geng can always find Yu Huai's figure at the first time.
Love is such a wonderful thing, when it does not happen, it will not feel that there is no special place, but once the inner emotion reaches a certain tipping point, it can easily find its change.
It's like being in a place full of black and white, suddenly having a different color, very conspicuous, and it hardly takes too long to see the person you care about.
Liking someone can't be hidden, it can be revealed through our words and deeds, because it is an emotion that arises deep inside, so even if you cover your mouth, you will still run out of your eyes.
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John Gray, author of Men from Mars and Women from Venus, wrote in his book: "Love produces four reactions: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual." Physical reactions elicit desire; emotional responses produce affection; psychological reactions provoke interest; spiritual responses create love. A partner of similar interest to you must be able to trigger these four reactions. ”
Body language has always been a truth we can trust, and the emotions it expresses are more direct and intense than "I love you" or "I like you."
When you like a person and have a deep affection, there will be a physiological reaction, which is a deep desire to be close to the other person.
Even if you hold hands with each other, you will be ecstatic, blushing and beating for a long time, which is the most direct way of expressing feelings.
Of course, we can also judge whether the other half of the relationship is really touched by ourselves based on this physiological reaction.
If they are hypocritical, then they will reject their own proximity, even if the emotions they show are deep, the subconscious actions still cannot deceive people, or they will tell us the truest answer.
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When we really like a person, we will think about things from the perspective of the other party.
For example, if you have something that you can't contact in a short period of time, then you will explain the reason, tell the other party what you are doing, and avoid making the other party sincerely afraid because you can't contact yourself.
The insecurity generated by feelings is a feeling that many people don't like, that uncertainty, that feeling that needs to rely on guessing to be able to give themselves comfort is too uncomfortable, and this feeling is that people who are deep in love are never willing to give to each other.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said a passage: "You can go to your business, I never felt that I could not." Before you do things, in fact, it is really necessary to say a word, come back and say it again, you do not say I will always spend time thinking about what you are busy with, if you tell me, I will be at ease to wait for you to come back. ”
Because you love someone, you will care, but this does not mean that love must be controlled.
The other party can have their own private space, but the premise is that the other half will know, and after understanding, they will know what the other party has done, and naturally they will no longer be jealous.
Feelings this thing always needs two people to operate together, you care about me, I also care about you, I understand your difficulties, you can also understand my difficulties, and then two people on the basis of a mutual understanding of the feelings to a new height.