On May 29, former Chinese national football star Li Jinyu wrote in his public account:
"It's hard not to be sad is your own life, it's not sad to be sad is a heart, we all love football!" I like to laugh with tears in my eyes and smile that it's okay ( copying ) – I implore everyone to have more respect for Chinese football coaches! Thank you guys! ”。
Under its text, there is also a photo of Coach Shen Xiangfu, who has just been dismissed by the Tianjin Tianhai Team, taking the car to leave with the salute box, and in the eyes of Shen Guide, there is obviously a trace of confusion and melancholy...
As a generation of people studying in Brazil that year, Li Jinyu was the best of the Chinese football forwards of that year. After retiring, he followed Li Xiaopeng as the assistant coach of the national women's football team; he also served as the head coach of Shenyang Shenbei team, the coach of Shijiazhuang Yongchang team, etc. Obviously, these teaching experiences have made Li Jinyu more able to consider the ideas of players and realize the difficulty of coaching.
Obviously, Li Jinyu's words are mainly shouting to Gao Leilei, who was also a player, in the air.
Because, just after the news of Shen Xiangfu's dismissal came out, but Tianhai had not yet officially announced, Shen Xiangfu's former disciple Gao Leilei seemed to be impatient to make up for it - on May 27, he once again fired at the former "mentor":
"Tianhai is finally back in the list of favorites to win the championship! Come on".
As early as February this year, Gao Leilei began to shell his former coach, he believes that it was because Shen Xiangfu did not let people go, so he could not stay in Yang to play at Real Madrid, Gao Leilei also said that Shen Xiangfu only taught players to make money with football, but it ruined the dreams of many young people!
Just a few days ago, when Tianjin Tianhai lost 1-2 to Wuhan Zhuoer, Gao Leilei also sent a Weibo message mocking Shen Xiangfu:
Gorelei wrote: "... First, I don't look at the Chinese Super League, and the second doesn't look at me, I also know... He can't get out of class if he loses! Can we expect him to break the record? The worst coach, but the longest... Check the data, maybe you can rank at the forefront of the world! ”
Obviously, for Gao Leilei's several times angrily criticized former coach Shen Xiangfu's "dog blood series", and after Shen Xiangfu had been fired and fell into the water, but Gao Leilei still did not spare, but also had to make up a foot, and stabbed it into the deep water, Li Jinyu, who was a contemporary of Gao Leilei, was also a bit unable to see it, so he said this remark, right?
Of course, some people think that Gao Leilei should not be so unforgiving as the former "teacher", and he must be so unforgiving; but some people feel that they think: if you don't know the reason, don't ask others to forgive; without other people's experience, don't easily let people tolerate it!
These two views may have a certain truth, but should hatred always be rooted in the heart and brought to another world? There should be a time to let go of grievances.
Perhaps, for Gao Leilei and others, such two paragraphs are worth pondering:
First, "Forgive your enemies, there's nothing maddening them more." ”；
Second, "You have to be tolerant three times." You must forgive yourself because you cannot be perfect; you must forgive your enemies because the fire of your anger will only affect yourself and your family; and perhaps the hardest thing to do in the search for happiness is that you must forgive your friends, because the closer you are, the more you can inadvertently and deeply hurt you. ”