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Blind date, is a very interesting thing, not only can recognize new friends, but also the possibility of getting yourself off the list, directly from the original one, into two intimate people, but blind date also has a lot of troubles, not the other party is too strange, or the other party's conditions have not reached their own satisfaction, but in any case, in this era of more men and women, blind date is also a way to quickly enter marriage, after all, in addition to not dating, is to rely on their own free love.
Which is more reliable, free love or blind date?
Blind dates and free love can make people get off the list, but which of these two people is more reliable? Frankly speaking, there is no standard answer to this question, because it is related to the person you meet, the person you meet is a reliable, whether it is a blind date or a free love, the result is certainly reliable, but if the person you meet is very scummy, then, whether it is a blind date or a free love, you will feel unreliable.
So, blind dates and free love are unreliable, in addition to depending on the people you meet, there is also whether you are a "reliable" person? If you are unreliable yourself, never invest in feelings, sincerity, money, and in turn accuse others of not paying for you, this typical is called taking personality. You know, paying is mutual, sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, they are not reliable, people who require others to be reliable, it is usually difficult to meet happiness, even if they are together, the other party will also avoid the interests, so as to choose to break up with someone as unreliable as you.
To sum up, a sentence is: reliable people are reliable regardless of blind dates and free love, and unreliable people are unreliable.
Advice from people who came over: Blind dates should have the attitude of trying it out, don't take it too seriously!
Let's go back to the topic of blind date, when it comes to blind dates, there is a very key point that everyone needs to know, that is, don't be too serious, this is the advice of a person who has come over, he has met more than a dozen times in the blind date market, and he has seen through a lot of blind dates.
Just before the first blind date, he made a big mistake, that is, too serious, thinking of getting married with each other, but people did not want to get married at all, and finally after the breakup, he also drank a lot of wine, made a fuss about resurrection, pestered each other every day, saying how much he paid, how can you be so to me, the woman was annoyed by his actions, directly even friends did not have to do, WeChat also blacked out.
Therefore, blind dates must not hold the attitude of stalking with each other without marriage, from the beginning to hold the attitude of trying it out, starting from meeting new friends, slowly to understand, the relationship should not progress too fast, the faster the progress of the relationship, then the end is also fast.
All in all, blind dates should correct their attitude, remember, there are very few couples in this world who can meet true love, and everyone's growth environment and personal experience have also created a different personality and three views from you.
You must have enough time to understand and accept these things, and see if you can get along with yourself. Sometimes, even if you find that the other party is very compatible with you, and you like each other, but the other party is not cold to you, that is, we call it, you like ta, but ta does not necessarily have to like you, there is nothing fair and unfair, feelings are like this.
Blind dates are very realistic, and it is necessary to talk about feelings in the heart
Excellent people, can go on a blind date, most of them have stories, such as the love they did not love when they were young, the people they liked did not like themselves, etc., and the older the blind date, the more they will be labeled as "leftover men and leftover women".
People in this group, they usually have low emotional needs, have certain requirements for materials, so when you go on a blind date, don't talk to anyone about true feelings, you have to divide people, some people are just arranged by the family, go through a formality, some want to be ambiguous with you, if you talk to each other about feelings, in the end it will make yourself very annoyed and very painful.
Finally, in the end, I want to tell you that blind date is to play the routine of human nature, this game, the better the comprehensive conditions of the person, the more can play to the level, on the contrary, the conditions are not good, both men and women, it is difficult to play to the end.
It is not that it is inappropriate, or that the parents of both sides do not look at it, or that the gap between the three views of the two people is too large, etc., so there are gains and losses in blind dates, no one is a winner, no one is a loser, don't be too serious, just go with the flow.
Hello, stranger, I'm Canliu, I'm here to be self-sufficient, to put into words some trivial emotions, there are you have happened, and what has not happened, we are all alone, the beginning and the end are so lonely, it is a pleasure to meet you. Attention!