Is marriage a free love good? Or is it a good blind date?

Is your married life happy?

Is it free love? Or a blind date?

My husband and I met through my good friend, and then we slowly got together, fell in love for a year, we got a license, we worked in Beijing at that time, just simply got a license, did not have a wedding, of course did not discuss the marriage room, is to get married with nothing.

Less than a year later, I became pregnant, so I began to prepare to go back to my husband's hometown, and when I came back, I learned that their family had prepared a marriage room for his brother, and we still had nothing, but we were arranged to live in his brother's house temporarily.

At that time, his brother was also talking about marriage and marriage, the difference is that his brother and girlfriend are blind dates, the most important thing is that they are a county town, they were not married at that time, they did not live in the house bought for them, when the child was still 1 month old, the mother-in-law proposed to let us go out to rent a house to live, I broke out instantly, the situation in the middle can be imagined, plus I am married far away, grievances and all the feelings can only be experienced by those who have experienced it.

In the end, I could only stand up with my husband and go to the agent to see the house, after various things we had a house that paid a down payment, opened the husband to work alone, I took the child alone, and had to pay off the mortgage day, his brother and girlfriend enjoyed the full payment to buy a house, decorate the house, and now give the child, the two of them go to work.

It's just my personal experience, maybe lucky, free love and marriage are still happy to this day, what about you? Is it married to love, or is it defeated by reality?