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The child's reaction is the most real, when Wei Jia asked Guo Keyu, "That child knows your current relationship", Guo Keyu said: "In fact, I think he has known for a long time, I specially called him to my room, told him, I also organized a language, he seems to be okay, and then he told my mother that we played a round of racing." I said that he seemed to tell me a game and a dream enough, so he hurried to start a game with me. Including the shouting mountain piece he also watched, including horseback riding, and then this semester enrolled in an equestrian interest class. ”
For Guo Keyu, the eighteen-day trip was not a game and a dream?
The journey is coming to an end, and the eighteen days are soon over, no matter what the eighteen days have, how much sweetness there is in the journey, but the dream is always going to wake up. Just think of a dream yourself, but just play a game, always have to return to reality.
You see, the child knows, his reaction is to let Guo Keyu not take it seriously, those so-called sweetness in the journey is actually quite illusory. If you are immersed, it will not be you who will be hurt in the end.
Zhang He also talked about letting his children watch the show, he said: "I specifically let him watch the part where I shouted on the heart-shaped bridge, I wanted to tell him that I said this at the time, and then I looked at him as if he didn't have any expression, and then I teased him, giggled at him, and he suddenly put his arms around me and came to rub my face." Then I felt like he could feel what Dad was saying to him, and he knew it. ”
Zhang He deliberately let the child look at the section on the heart-shaped bridge, presumably to tell the child how cattle you see daddy is, how much daddy loves you, and how much daddy shouted at you on the heart-shaped bridge how much he loved you. The child was also very kind, although there was no expression, but still gave Zhang He a warm deposit.
Zhang He deliberately explained that his kindness to Guo Keyu in the show was completely subconscious, which made me feel a bit pretentious. At first, I thought that he really loved Guo Keyu, and there was Guo Keyu in his heart, but now that I look back, I think his good is just a kind of affectionate disguise.
If you really love Guo Keyu, one second the two people finally choose to hug so warmly, the next second when they are ready to pick, how can they behave so strangely. I can only say that it was a good play, Zhang He for his so-called end of the trip to a consummation, and Guo Keyu was finally wrongly paid. It was hard to open the heart wall, but suddenly the heart was cold again, so it was a game and a dream.
There is also the son who said to Guo Keyu, "Mom, Dad will change", and Zhang He's reaction is "what I change".
Yes, in that marriage, Zhang He never felt that he was wrong, he did not understand Guo Keyu, but he felt that he was very wronged in the marriage, so when the program team first met him, he had so many "whys" for his marriage, as if Guo Keyu was sorry for him. Have you ever thought about it, have you ever asked yourself who is sorry for whom?
I especially want to say a word to Guo Keyu: eighteen days of travel, a game and a dream, and fight for a career.
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Zhang He was quite affectionate when he was on the show, but he forgot everything about the show. In fact, we can see through some details that Zhang He loves Guo Keyu? For example, in "The Ultimate Thirty-Six Questions", Guo Keyu cried into a tearful person, Zhang He was expressionless, Guo Keyu recalled his experience when he gave birth, and Zhang He was also expressionless. And in Fan wai, the two reunited to watch the last episode of the show, Guo Keyu cried very badly, Zhang He was next to her, and he didn't even hand over a tissue.
Clear-eyed people could see that Zhang He was deliberately alienated from Guo Keyu and left clean.
Guo Keyu is also relatively strong in his heart, since Zhang He does not have the meaning of compounding, she has nothing to say, only to continue to fight for a career, so in fan wai, Guo Keyu said this passage:
"I'm very honest, in fact, I have had many struggles in my heart, I think, we must be separated for a reason, this is so, when Zhanghe was in his twenties, his mother died, and then I once talked to my third aunt, and the third aunt said that his mother wrote a lot of letters to the third aunt before she died, and the letter paper was all held together, and there were many tear marks on it. I think I am also a mother now, I am also the mother of a son, in the future my son will also have his feelings, I hope they are kind to each other, heart to heart, she must not want to hurt each other like that. Then my choice today, my mother-in-law, she must also understand, people have too many faces, no one is perfect, because we are separated, I want to format a lot of things, I want to remember his good, and then I want to start again in my career, then I go by myself, take it slowly, anyway, I do what I like to do. Female numbers are OK, I like. Then I hope that Zhang He's career can develop better, I am willing to believe in my eighteen days, in ten years I have not seen Zhang He cry, I see, I am willing to believe your tears. ”
She explained why she wanted to treat Zhanghe well, she didn't want to be too embarrassed, she didn't want her son to be hurt. Because of this, she has always maintained Zhang He's decency in the show, she is willing to believe in Zhang He's tears, and she is willing to believe in Zhang He's kindness to her in a kind gesture.
"I want to remember his goodness, and then I want to start again in my career, and then I will go on my own, take my time, anyway, I am doing what I like." 」 Guo Keyu had already explained his relationship with Zhang He and his next plan.
There is no hope of remarriage, and I will still be alone in the future, but I will not doubt his sincerity or falsehood, and I only want to go on my own way in the future. No longer thinking about irrelevant things, I just want to fight my career for now.
I think Guo Keyu is very aggrieved, you think about it, they have been married for ten years, the two have not traveled alone, nor have they come out to play with their children together. Zhang He is not a particularly well-known actor, no matter how busy you are, you don't have time to spend with your wife and children? In the past ten years, Zhang He has not bought anything for Guo Keyu, not even a ring, let alone bags and cosmetics. Zhang He said that this was guo Keyu's advantage, she was a woman with extremely low materialistic desires. If people don't take the initiative to ask for it, won't you take the initiative to send it? Guo Keyu said such a love word as "what time is the plane", Zhang He felt very strange, and came to a sentence of "you don't cook, what do you arrange". Guo Keyu went to the crew to visit the class, and the arrangement for him was very good and warm, he couldn't see it, and came to say", "When you come, you mess up everything." Isn't it ironic that Zhang He said that Guo Keyu is an artist?
All in all, there are too many grievances.
A woman's love for a man is lost little by little in marriage, and when she doesn't get a response from you, she doesn't want to be a good wife. It's not that I haven't loved you, but I'm so disappointed in you that my heart is cold. Guo Keyu gave Zhang He all the decency, she did not talk about his badness on the show, nor did she complain about anything, but when she mentioned the past ten years, she always couldn't help but collapse and cry. Every time, it was enough to see how depressed she had been in the past ten years.
It was too much to put up with, but the man didn't understand and wasn't worth it.
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Anyway, the person who loves you will still be around you, and if you don't love, you won't love.
Guo Keyu was already very clear, she knew Zhang He and recognized it.
Eighteen days of travel, the two of them did have a lot of sweetness: two people riding electric motorcycles hugging that part, and two people riding camels together, and Zhang He dancing and peacock opening the screen like kneeling to Guo Keyu, including the final choice of the idol drama hug. Too much warmth, just as a game and a dream, it has appeared, and it is a pity not to continue, anyway, a person will do a good job in the future.
Guo Keyu once told people about going to the doctor alone, but she did not mention Zhang He, and I don't know where Zhang He went when Guo Keyu was most seriously ill in those three years. In the program, Guo Keyu did not say it, nor did Zhang He mention it.
Why Guo Keyu decided to end the marriage was also because of that serious illness, she said:
It is precisely because of this illness that she is more determined to end this marriage, to end a state of unease that everyone is bound to each other, and I want to use myself better.
She wants to use herself better and doesn't want to be consumed by internal friction anymore.
I have always felt that middle-aged women should not believe in love too much, in fact, there is really no need for this, love this thing has been experienced, you will be sad if you believe it. Only the cause is your own. You don't have to look at people anymore, you don't have to listen to his sneers anymore, you're your own backer.
Many people who have experienced marriage, especially stay-at-home mothers, will have the same feelings as Guo Keyu, you have paid so much for this family, that man may not be able to understand your difficulties, he will only feel that he has raised you and given you a life of pampering. He feels that you should meet him, always a high posture for you, and will sneer at you. In fact, it is not necessary to do this, you can also bring your children well by yourself, you can also support yourself, and you are more practical on your own.
What did that ten-year marriage give Guo Keyu?
Divorced and moved away with his children, he had to transfer his children alone, and he was seriously ill in that marriage. Single-mindedly taking children without a job and then being abandoned for ten years, delayed for ten years, abandoned for many years. On the contrary, divorce is really easy.
The program team told Guo Keyu that he hoped she "had love and health and freedom", also because of his heartache for her.
I hope that Guo Keyu can act more and sing more in the future, you are so talented, there must be a chance to fire. So good you deserve to be seen by everyone, so beautiful you deserve to be seen by everyone.
The beautiful producer of "Goodbye Lover" tweeted that Guo Keyu will definitely get better and better, and let us look forward to her career becoming popular.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.