After the "double subtraction", how do parents arrange their children's home time? | ask every Monday

After the "double subtraction", how do parents arrange their children's home time?

@ Ganxian District No. 2 Middle School in Ganzhou City, Jiangxi Province Han Liming: Stay at home, more interaction

1． Do housework diligently and experience labor. Let the child and the parents do some housework within their ability, such as: washing dishes, washing dishes, washing things, wiping the table, mopping the floor, cleaning up items, etc. Experience the hardships of labor, the beauty of labor, and cultivate children's self-care ability and hands-on ability.

2． Create an atmosphere and moisturize the fragrance of books. Agree with children on family reading time, make reading plans, parents and children read famous books together, create a family reading atmosphere, build a book-fragrant family, and cultivate children's reading literacy and humanistic feelings.

3. Talk about family words together and warm up relationships. From Monday to Friday, every day, a small chat, talk about school fun, growing troubles, small things in life, social current affairs, weekend themes of home talk, such as: reading sharing, story meetings, hot times, movie sharing, tongue delicious, life tips, etc. In the family chat, cultivate children's expression and communication skills, and heat up the parent-child relationship.

@ Jiangsu Kunshan International School Primary School Qi Wenxia: Home is also wonderful

1. Integrate interest classes. After the "double subtraction", I arranged the child's original weekend interest class as much as possible on weekdays, such as two dance lessons a week, which is not only a relaxation, but also satisfies the usual amount of exercise. In this way, the usual time is more compact, and there is a large chunk of complete time on the weekend.

2. Set up a family day. Sunday is a family day off, and we don't schedule any interest classes on this day. The whole family or outdoors to walk, or clean up, or play board games together, enjoy the family time.

3. Exercise at home as well. In order to ensure the amount of exercise of the child, I purchased some sports equipment and toys that can also be played at home, such as trampolines, catchers, sling combinations, etc., so that the children can exercise at home.

@ Jiang Jindi, The First Middle School of Changshu City, Jiangsu Province: Rational planning to improve the quality of family education

Under the background of "double subtraction", most of the children's learning tasks can be completed in school, and their time at home is mainly used to learn life skills, develop hobbies, etc., which requires parents to stay sober and strive to improve the quality of family education.

1. Reasonable planning. According to the specific situation of the family, reasonably plan the child's time at home, arrange certain housework, handicrafts, extracurricular reading activities, and use rich family life to prevent children from indulging in electronic products.

2. Stay awake. One of the contents of the "double reduction" is to reduce the homework burden of students, parents should remain sober, and refuse to blindly follow the trend to increase their children's academic burden.

@ Qianxi Tieshi Middle School Zhang Shengjie: Standardized reading and active practice

1. Standardize reading. After the "double subtraction", the child has plenty of time for paper reading and online reading. Parents should recommend traditional Chinese classics, famous books, and inspirational books for their children to read, so that the wisdom of life contained in the books can infiltrate the hearts of children. Special attention is paid to online reading, and the reading content of children should be screened and guided.

2. Active practice. With the change of time, home time can arrange for children to participate in some practical activities within their ability to help children form positive life values. For example, in autumn, children are arranged to participate in harvest practice activities, autumn seed practice activities, etc., to feel the joy of harvest and experience the hardships of labor. Cultivate children's good qualities of loving labor, respecting labor, and cherishing the fruits of labor.

@ Dalian Ganjingzi District Limin Primary School Xie Xingmei: high-quality accompaniment

1. Outdoor activities. There is very little time to spend outdoors with our children on weekdays, so on weekends we will meet up with friends, take our children to ride a bicycle, watch a show... Happy play between children, and more importantly, can enhance physical fitness.

2. Parent-child games. At home, I will accompany my children to play some parent-child games, such as classic Monopoly games, Sudoku games, Go, etc., in these games, let children correctly view wins and losses, and actively use their brains to think about problems.

3. Parent-child reading. Children are relatively young, and the ability to read independently has not yet been developed. In order to develop good reading habits, he will have 30 to 45 minutes of parent-child reading time every night, and every month he will take him to various children's libraries in the city to select books together. Let him feel the smell of books in the sea of books from an early age.

@ Kunshan Xiufeng Middle School Huang Shanshan: Share a good weekend time

1. Parent-child reading. Weekends are a great time to read, listen to your child tell a book, discuss it with your child, and feel the joy of reading together.

2. Parent-child sports. On the weekends of autumn, participate in outdoor sports with your children, climb mountains, play ball, and enjoy the relaxation of your body.

3. Parent-child labor. On weekends, I do housework with my children, clean up, wash and dry, so that children know their responsibilities and pay in labor.

@ Kunshan Loujiang Experimental School Fang: Adhere to the "three movements" and accompany children to grow

1. Labor enhances children's self-confidence. We can do housework with children from the beginning, and then gradually let go, let the children take on the housework within their own capabilities, in this process, the child's labor ability and self-care ability are enhanced, and self-confidence is also established.

2. Exercise promotes physical and mental health. Moderate exercise can allow children to release more dopamine, making children feel happy and healthy. In addition, the child's good sense of control over his body is also conducive to the enhancement of self-discipline.

3. Interpersonal interaction helps socialization. Bringing children to socialize with their friends and develop interpersonal skills is the first step to help children socialize. Let the child learn to make friends, learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships, will have a beneficial impact on the child's life.

@ Huaqiao Middle School in Kunshan City, Jiangsu Province Zhou Chunhong: New life at home

1. Take a walk and walk. After the "double reduction", children can go out for a walk with their parents after meals, talk about what happens every day at school, parents should be good at listening and accepting, and channel their children's bad emotions.

2. Hobbies to pick up. Children like to draw and let her wander in the painting; children like to play the piano and let her fingertips beat freely on the piano; children like to listen to songs, so they relax in the music with their children.

3. Get moving on the weekend. On the weekend, take your children to the nearby park to walk around and feel the breath of nature; take your children to the playground to play and enjoy the unique happiness; take your children to the nearby attractions to enjoy the beauty of autumn.

@ Hanpu Middle School, Kunshan High-tech Zone, Jiangsu Province Yu Yanjun: Independent learning combines work and leisure

1. Help summarize and reflect together. Weekends are a great time to develop your child's habit of independent learning. Teach children how to summarize the week's learning situation and reflect together. Let the child do the week's easy to make mistakes again, and in the long run, develop the habit of "Zhou Zhouqing".

2. Strengthen the body, combine work and leisure. In addition to learning, proper exercise and recreation are also indispensable. Cycling with children in a park near the neighborhood, reading a book in the 24-hour self-service library, watching a meaningful movie, joining a dance club, and more are all good options.

@ Zhenhua Experimental Primary School, Yushan Town, Kunshan, Jiangsu Province: Use your free time to practice advancedly

Since the implementation of the "double reduction" policy, many parents feel much more relaxed, and their spare time has become more. At this time, reasonable arrangement of free time can make children live a more fulfilling life. For the content that the child is interested in, you can further practice to improve his ability. For example, when learning to paint, in addition to painting by yourself, you can also create with your family to increase the interaction between parents and children. After the "double subtraction", it provides more time for the family to communicate and interact, so that the family relationship becomes more harmonious.

@ Xuzhou Hubin Central Primary School Chen Junzhu: Home life is more interesting

1. Create a parent-child kitchen and experience the joy of labor. Make food plans with your children, go to the market to buy ingredients, and experience the fireworks of life. Make fresh dishes and noodles with your children in the kitchen, let your children learn to choose dishes, wash dishes, lay out dishes, etc., feel the joy of labor, and enjoy the sense of achievement of cooking by yourself.

2. Take a city walk and discover the beauty of your hometown. On weekends, children take public transportation and take a city map to explore the culture of old alleys and the stories of old place names. Once a week, punch in the card record, let the child really know their hometown, with mobile phones and paintings to record their own eyes of the city impression.

3. Play board games and improve your thinking skills. After dinner, the family sits around and plays board games of interest with the children, relaxes the nervousness of the child's day of learning, enhances the parent-child relationship, cultivates the child's concentration and thinking ability, and makes the family atmosphere more harmonious.

@ Shaxi No. 1 Middle School in Taicang City, Suzhou City, Jiangsu Province: The mind and body move, and the spirit comes alive

1. Table tennis match, come to a few rounds! Every day after school, in the free time, my son will invite us to a few table tennis matches, and sometimes my daughter will join, and in your comings and goings, laughter, and laughter, the parent-child relationship is unconsciously close.

2. Roundtable, come and have a few! In our free time, we also arrange round tables. At the conference, we will review the past week, express gratitude to the family, and freely discuss and debate some social events, and cultivate children's planning, gratitude and divergent thinking.

3. Get in touch with nature and come back a few times! On weekends, we take a short trip with our children. Run freely on the big lawn; climb the hills; enjoy the colorful autumn. Worries and stress are instantly forgotten.

@ Baodai Experimental Primary School, Wuzhong District, Suzhou City, Jiangsu Province: Improve efficiency, warm companionship

After the "double subtraction", the child's school time is significantly extended, which is a challenge for family education and parent-child relationship. As a parent, despite the busy work, you should also pick up and drop off your children as much as possible, and if it is really inconvenient, you can agree on a monthly "family day" to personally pick up and drop off your children and learn from the teacher about your children's learning and performance in school. On the way home, you can have intimate communication with your children and summarize the campus life during this period. When you get home, use the break before eating to complete the rest of your homework and summarize the day's learning content. Finally, parents can use the way of accompanying reading, turn off the mobile phone, and create a reading atmosphere. In this way, although the rhythm is tight, it is full and full, and the warmth is overflowing.

@ Dalian Ganjingzi District Limin Primary School Ji Yang: Listen to the heart and exercise and fitness

1. Listen and be a partner of your child. In the past, children studied during the day, parents worked during the day, children wrote homework back home, and parents played with mobile phones. After the "double reduction", the children's schoolwork burden is reduced, parents can put down their mobile phones, communicate with their children more, listen to their children's voices, be their children's spiritual partners on the road to growth, and pay attention to their children's mental health and changes.

2. Parent-child exercise to enhance physical fitness. With the change of weather, many children are prone to physical discomfort. Parents can use their spare time to accompany their children to jump rope and run outdoors, which can not only make the parent-child relationship more harmonious, but also enhance the physical fitness of parents and children.

@ Chongqing Science City Xiyong First Primary School Zhao Guihua: regulations + "menu", learning experience more colorful

1. Reach consensus and work and rest regularly. After the "double subtraction", elementary school students need to go to bed before 9 pm to ensure adequate sleep time. Therefore, according to the child's school time, it is necessary to reach a consensus with the child and formulate a regular schedule.

2. Electronic products, limited time supply. As a parent, in order to protect your child's vision and allow your child to focus on learning, you can make a rule like this: do not watch TV or play on the computer from Monday to Friday. On weekends, you can have 30 minutes to 1 hour of time to use electronic products every day under the premise of completing basic learning tasks.

3. "Menu" select, Points Rewards. In addition to the homework assigned by the teacher, parents can provide the child with a "learning menu" according to the child's learning situation. Children use 30 minutes to 1 hour or so to challenge, parents according to the child's completion, score, children can accumulate points, exchange rewards, in order to motivate children's initiative!

Source: People's Education