If there is no "Goodbye Lover", many people probably don't remember who Tong Chenjie is.
After chasing a few issues, the deepest feeling is: Obviously a supermodel heroine, how to always cook for her husband, help him tie his shoelaces, and take the initiative to ask for peace after quarrels... Trivial?
In the latest episode, because of Wei Wei's drinking problem, the two fell into a cold war.
Tong Chenjie took the initiative to show goodwill, and Wei Wei responded coldly: "You stay away from me."
Under the mediation of everyone, Tong Chenjie still broke out: Today this matter has not been resolved, and I am not finished with you.
This is the first time that Tong Chenjie has been mad in the show, and the guest room and the bullet screen have been directly addicted.
In the previous show, Tong Chenjie was mostly the one who took the initiative to bow his head, and this time was no exception.
The two talked about collapse, and Wei Weiyang went away, leaving Tong Chenjie alone in the same place, and the bullet curtain was urging "Leave, sister."
After a short period of fierce wind and rain, she also took the initiative to go back, sat down on wei Wei's bedside, took out the Children's Day gift she bought for him, and asked Wei Wei in a choked voice: You just didn't care about me?
Wei Wei broke through his defenses and wrapped his arms around Tong Chenjie. The next day, as if nothing had happened, everyone showed off: "Look, this is my wife sent me."
In his interview, he examined himself for the first time.
As the only couple who did not divorce in this divorce variety show, Tong Chenjie and Wei Wei were responsible for sprinkling dog food on the show at the beginning of the time.
On the first day of the trip, the other two pairs were reunited after a long absence, a bit awkward and a sense of distance.
Only this couple wore couple hats, pushed suitcases, and sang along the way, very happy.
When setting up the tent, Wei Wei was eating snacks on the side, and Tong Chenjie shouted: Children, come and help, okay?
Driving in the prairie and getting lost, Wei Wei scolded Tong Chenjie, the atmosphere was tense for a while, after calming down, she still took the initiative to ease the atmosphere:
"Will you say something happy to coax me?" I'll make you lamb chops in a moment. ”
The other two female guests in the show, Guo Keyu is Wenqing-style alienated, Zhu Yaqiong is like a child who has not grown up and has been asking his partner for candy, and Tong Chenjie...
In Ni Ping's words, like a mother, with a child.
Wei Wei's groove point was obvious--he loved to drink and was drunk as much as he wanted.
I often drink late with friends and get drunk every time.
During the interview, I was drinking, drinking while chatting with other members of the program team, and I was so outrageous that I pulled the hotel staff to drink together to the point of gaffe.
People who can't control the amount of alcohol often can't control their emotions.
A question of "who cooks at home" poked at his pain point, and then saw that none of the people at the table stood on his side, and left the table in anger on the spot, and Yang Di, who was sitting next to him, was stupid.
Halfway through the show, Wei Wei was publicly "judged": alcoholism, emotion, machismo, ego...
At the same time, he was angry at Tong Chenjie for his misfortune: Why is her sister so humble?
Shanghai girl Tong Chenjie is China's first generation of supermodels, and Cuckoo is the national model façade of the same period, and liu Wen's predecessor.
When Wei Wei was still a nameless person, Tong Chenjie had already gained a firm foothold in the supermodel circle.
In 2005, he was selected as the 94th in the Forbes China Celebrity List, and on the cover of the inaugural issue of the Chinese edition of Vogue, Tong Chenjie, Cuckoo and the title of "New Era of Chinese Fashion" were intertwined.
Wei Wei came to Shanghai for Tong Chenjie, who was a host in Hunan Jingshi, but after 7 years in Shanghai, he could not buy a house in Shanghai.
In other words, he lived in Tong Chenjie's house.
Whether it is fame, wealth or social status, Tong Chenjie is far above Wei Wei.
Tong Chenjie's last marriage was with international footballer Xie Hui, and the two held a live TV wedding, which was a sensation.
A national football team, a supermodel, the two are known as the "Chinese version of the Beckham couple".
The woman's coffee position, fame, and even famous ex-husband are all demons that need to be crossed for Wei Wei.
Tong Chenjie took Wei Wei to a friend's banquet together, and just happened to meet Xie Hui in the elevator, she subconsciously released the hand holding Wei Wei, and this action was sensitively captured by Wei Wei.
During the banquet, Wei Wei took the initiative to go forward to toast Xie Hui, swear sovereignty, and let go of the words that he wanted to let the people of Shanghai know that Tong Chenjie was very happy with him.
Or is Teacher Ni Ping sober in the world, and a sentence punctures the reality: Do the people of Shanghai care about you?
Hu Yanbin in the observation group broke through the words: "Wei Wei is inferior in his heart, so he walks on tiptoe." ”
Tong Chenjie's tolerance and compromise with her husband are not so much a character decision as a choice to take the initiative to "bow down" for the sustainability of the marriage.
As she herself said: "The party who apologized is not necessarily wrong, but she actively chooses to apologize." ”
In the past, the criterion for women's success was: marry the right man. Having two children after marriage, preferably a man and a woman, and having a well-maintained self-care, looking younger than they actually are; women are different now:
Success is my own business, what kind of husband to find, whether to have children or not, only I can decide.
Therefore, choosing Wei Wei is equivalent to packaging and accepting his advantages and disadvantages. Moreover, Wei Wei was not without merit.
Tong Chenjie was divorced, Wei Wei did not mind at all, and gave up her career for her, went to the city where Tong Chenjie was located, and everything started from scratch.
In order to safeguard Tong Chenjie's choice of not wanting to have children, Wei Wei and his mother made their attitude clear and firmly sided with Tong Chenjie.
In terms of personality, Wei Wei is also an interesting and active person, and can also play the advantages of the host: saving the scene and creating an atmosphere.
Moreover, Wei Wei often traveled with the two mothers of both sides and coaxed the second elder to be happy, and Tong Chenjie's mother praised the son-in-law.
If you don't love your wife, how can you love Wu and Wu travel with your mother-in-law, send red envelopes to your mother-in-law, and make her happy?
This kind of attitude is similar in nature to Lee Seung-hyun accompanying Qi Wei to visit the grave and returning to tears of sentimentality.
The difference is that the former is as empathetic to women as the latter is.
Wei Wei wanted children, but Tong Chenjie did not want to have children because she felt that Wei Wei did not have the ability to be a good father.
The 40-year-old woman, who has long passed the golden period of childbearing, in addition to facing the risk of childbirth, also has a panic about the unknown - she must be sure that her partner can share the parenting responsibilities before choosing to become a mother.
While Wei Wei was shouting that he wanted a child, he couldn't even quit drinking, and he really couldn't give his lover a reassurance pill.
With the update of the program, the call for divorce from enthusiastic netizens has also become increasingly loud. Tong Chenjie also chose divorce 4 times out of the previous 5 choices.
Women who enter Vanity Fair early and have experienced a short and sensational marriage have expectations and appeals for marriage far more than "marrying a man, dressing and eating". When they choose a lifelong partner, they often do not go up out of passion for a while, but will pay more attention to men's endurance.
If they have been given many opportunities, the other party repeatedly misses, and can not become a partner in life to make decisions and carry things, they will eventually kill and make their own choices.