Everyone's destiny is not something that individuals can grasp, so it is difficult for us to ask for the gift of fate.
We can only come and not refuse, and we will accept what fate has given us. And it is enough to grasp what you can grasp, try to forge ahead, and continue to fight without giving up. At this time, we may find that everyone's life is not all tribulations, and we can always find a little light of our own in the dark.
Therefore, don't face a little setback and can't bear it, give up on yourself, there are always people in this world who are more difficult than us, still struggling. For example, the famous talented woman Xiao Hong, her literary works have been praised by Lu Xun and many other literary people, but her fate is extremely bumpy, which is unimaginable to us ordinary people, and finally she died early at the age of 31 due to misdiagnosis.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > tragic childhood experiences</h1>
Xiao Hong, whose original name was Zhang Yiying, was born in Harbin, Heilongjiang during the Dragon Boat Festival in 1911.
In fact, the traditional Dragon Boat Festival is not a happy and peaceful festival, and in the past people were very superstitious.
Therefore, Xiao Hong's family has always tacitly acknowledged that she is an ominous sign and will not reveal her true birthday to the outside world.
Not only that, but the attitude of Xiao Hong's family towards her made her deeply distressed.
She often suffers from the exclusion of her close relatives, and at the most innocent age, other children will be indulged by their relatives when they do some cute and childish acts, and only Xiao Hong will attract scolding.
As a result, she became more and more cautious, and did not dare to look at the adults in the house.
In 1919, Xiao Hong's mother died early due to cholera infection, which made Xiao Hong, who was already unpopular, even more helpless.
It didn't take long for his father to marry a second wife, named Liang Yalan, which made Xiao Hong's life even more difficult.
Fortunately, there was still someone in the family who loved her, and that person was her grandfather.
Her grandfather would teach her poetry and defend her in front of her family.
Later, Xiao Hong's article "My Grandfather's Garden and Me" selected for inclusion in students' textbooks was written out of remembrance of my grandfather.
After graduating from Xiao Hong Middle School, she wanted to go to Harbin to continue her studies, and Xiao Hong was naturally sensitive to words.
His academic performance is also quite good, and he has always been very hungry for knowledge.
But her wish was directly denied by her family, and a girl who was not welcomed by her family was simply delusional to continue to study. In order to make Xiao Hong die, and in order to quickly solve her lifelong affairs, her family began to arrange family affairs for her.
This was not uncommon at the time, and in that backward feudal era, the situation of women was so sad.
Soon, Xiao Hong, who was only 19 years old, had already been set up by the family, and Xiao Hong's fiancé was named Wang Enjia, and he was right to go to the door.
But soon Xiao Hong discovered that Wang Enjia was smoking opium, and Xiao Hong was determined not to marry this person.
Subsequently, Xiao Hong, who had been depressed all day, and her cousin Lu Zheshun got closer and closer, and the two began to plan for the escape.
Finally, one day, Xiao Hong asked her father for money and Lu Zheshun escaped under the pretext of preparing a dowry.
The two came to Beijing, where the culture was blowing up at that time, when many talented young people gathered in Beijing, and everyone gathered together to be happy. But Xiao Hong's comfortable life did not pass for a few days, and what awaited her was eternal grief.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="25" > two painful pregnancy experiences</h1>
Young people can talk on paper, but it is always difficult to earn money to support their families.
What's more, the society at that time was very chaotic, and it was impossible to easily gain a foothold in a city like Beijing.
Coupled with the family's desperate pursuit of the two of them, his cousin Lu Zheshun was overwhelmed and returned home.
Subsequently, Xiao Hong was also arrested and returned home.
This time, Xiao Hong was arrested and returned to experience unbearable pain for ordinary people, and her family imprisoned her and beat her more intensely.
After the imprisonment was over, Xiao Hong was still not dead hearted, and went to find Lu Zheshun again, but he did not even knock on the door of the other party's house.
Desperate and determined not to go home, Xiao Hong found Wang Enjia again.
The two left home and went to the hotel to make ends meet, and soon after, Xiao Hong found out that she was pregnant.
When Wang Enjia learned about it, he said that he would go home and ask for money, but who knew that he never came back.
At this time, Xiao Hong, who had a large belly, already had a lot of debts in the hotel, and the hotel threatened to sell her into a brothel to pay off the debt.
Extremely frightened, Xiao Hong thought about where she could borrow money, and finally wrote a letter to Pei Xinyuan, deputy editor of the International Association Daily.
This request for help did solve her temporary dilemma, and Xiao Jun, a literary youth at that time, also heard the news and rushed to it.
As soon as the two met, they fell in love and quickly established a relationship.
Xiao Jun also did not mind Xiao Hong, who was already pregnant with someone else's child at this time, and Xiao Hong did not leave the child's heart.
When the child was born, she gave it to a person who guarded the park and never contacted the child again.
Unfortunately, feelings are the most unstable, and the love affair with Xiao Jun ended quickly.
And Xiao Jun was originally a gentleman, Xiao Hong could not tolerate such a relationship, and the rupture of the two was foreseeable.
It was only when she was separated from Xiao Jun that Xiao Hong was pregnant with his child again.
And this time, Xiao Hong met her next lover, Duanmu Hongliang, while waiting to give birth.
Fortunately, Duanmu Haoliang did not care much, and the two were still very much in love.
However, this time, the child died without being born smoothly.
Xiao Hong's life did not improve in the slightest, but instead fell into deeper difficulties until the end of her life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="48" died > misdiagnosis, guilt-ridden</h1>
The situation at that time was very chaotic, and it was a disaster for literary and art workers.
In desperation, Xiao Hong and Duanmu Hongliang were invited by friends to go to Hong Kong to continue their lives.
Because Xiao Hong has always had the habit of smoking, coupled with her pregnancy and injury, her body has long been full of holes and has suffered from tuberculosis.
After going to Hong Kong, Xiao Hong's health deteriorated and she went to see a doctor with the help of a friend.
Who would have thought that this would be a complete quack doctor who diagnosed her tuberculosis with laryngeal cancer.
Immediately after the operation of Xiao Hong's throat, because the location of the operation was in the throat, plus her crux was not on the throat at all, Xiao Hong's life became painful after the operation.
Xiao Hong seemed to have realized that her limit was approaching, so she began to advise Duanmu Haoliang on the aftermath.
One of the most important was to entrust him with finding the child who had been given away.
At this time, Xiao Hong began to reflect on her life and found herself particularly sorry for her own flesh and bones.
In the end, Xiao Hong passed away forever at the age of 31.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="59" > conclusion</h1>
Many writers with bumpy life experiences can write amazing works.
Xiao Hong is no exception, although she has repeatedly dealt with the confusion in her feelings, she has never given up her love for literature and created many masterpieces for us. Xiao Hong herself had found the light that belonged to her own darkness. She also inspires us not to give up hope of pursuing our ideals even in the face of adversity.