Recently, CCTV host Sister Moon published her new book "Sister Moon as a Mother". The reporter learned from the publisher Beijing Yangtze River New Century that this book is a parenting handbook compiled by Sister Moon based on her own personal experience, with a total of about 260,000 words, and Sister Moon shares her experience of pregnancy, pregnancy and parenting in the book.
"Sister Moon as a Mother" begins with an account of Sister Moon's experience when she was 35 years old and preparing to become pregnant. Like many professional women today, Sister Moon put more energy into her work before the age of 35. However, after the age of 35, women are medically considered "advanced maternal age", and the risk of pregnancy and childbirth will increase. Sister Moon began to prepare for the child from the age of 35, the process was not smooth, and soon after the pregnancy, the doctor told her that the child had stopped having children, which was a very big blow to her. At present, people's work pressure is generally very large, environmental pollution is becoming more serious, "fetal cessation" seems to appear more frequently, and many women are worried as soon as they become pregnant. Suspension of childbearing will have an impact on women's psychology and is a very worthy issue for discussion. In the new book, Sister Moon combines her own experience to discuss "fetal cessation" from both psychological and scientific aspects, especially from the scientific point of view, Sister Moon shares the professional interpretation of this problem by medical experts, and Sister Moon hopes to pass these contents to readers and answer some of the readers' confusion.
For many women, the 30s is the career upswing period, and pregnancy and childbirth require women to reduce work pressure, and obstetric examination, childbirth, and lactation will occupy a lot of women's time and energy. The contradiction between having children and career development plagues many women, and for Sister Moon, the contradiction between the two at first once entangled her - she was not only the host of multiple programs when she was pregnant, but also the producer of the show "Music Express", and her work was very busy. But because she was 38 years old at the time, she cherished the opportunity to get pregnant, coupled with the fact that the state introduced many policies to protect women's rights and interests, so that Sister Moon was more confident in welcoming the baby. Sister Moon wants to tell all women in the workplace whether to become mothers, women should carefully consider according to their own actual situation, and if they decide to have children, they should be responsible for their children. This decision must be made by yourself and should not be swayed by others. Sister Moon is a person who likes children very much, she admits that when she was a child, she liked to bring children to other people's homes, and after having her own children, Sister Moon invested a lot of energy in parenting. However, Sister Moon is more concerned about creating an environment for children to grow up happily, giving children a full sense of security, and allowing children to grow up physically and mentally. In terms of early education and learning, Sister Moon has its own unique attitude.
For Sister Moon, children's literacy, numeracy, English ability, etc. are not the most important, the most important thing is to cultivate children's interest in learning, cultivate children's imagination, association, and independent problem-solving ability. "When a child is interested in something, he doesn't need to be urged by an adult, he will learn it himself." Sister Moon said.
In the book "Sister Moon as a Mother", Sister Moon also shared a lot of her own experience in telling stories to children, teaching children to draw and other methods, and mentioned many communication skills with children, I believe that the majority of parents can gain something from it. However, Sister Moon believes that the most important thing is to truly understand and respect the child. Communication is not an end in itself, but a way to convey love.
Sun Huan, an all-media reporter of Xi'an Newspaper, provided a picture of the interviewee
【Source: Xi'an Newspaper】
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