Your subconscious mind guides your life, and you call it destiny.
When I first came to work at the company, one of the things I used to say to my family and friends was, "It seems that this job has been changed by mistake." ”
To make my claims seem reasonable, I cite a lot of small things, such as yelling at a colleague in front of everyone in a meeting, or meeting a client who doesn't know how to respect people. Slowly, I collected all the slight unhappiness in my work, just to prove my own often said: "This job is wrong."
Obviously, in such a state, this job is very hard, and finally can only choose to resign.
Now, I have been out of the job for 2 months, take a step back and look at the previous job more objectively, only to find that no job is perfect, the occasional leader who can't control his temper, the arrogant customer dad, are all normal things, and indeed because of the words I often say, the end of the job is determined.
"The world is not going to be good." Is the current frequency of online appearance of a very high frequency of a sentence, casually click on Weibo hot search, any not so positive energy event below, the hottest comments are almost all: the world will not be good.
The new crown is raging, the world will not be good;
There are people in the social news who are drunk and driving, and the world will not be better;
There is a young man in the next village who has a hard time graduating from college, but he can't find a suitable job, and the world will not be good;
There is a middle-aged man 2,000 kilometers away who does not support his father, and the world will not be good.
It is conceivable that people who often say this sentence must be surrounded by negative energy, focusing on how to prove that what they often say is correct every day, and their lives will certainly not be better.
In the end, the often said sentence became his destiny: his world really wasn't going to be good.
So, be wary of the words you often say, it will become your subconscious and guide your life.