The most important thing in life is not what is not gained and lost, but to cherish everything you have and cherish the present.
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If everything could be repeated, I would not be so impulsive, and I hope that my lesson will serve as a warning to everyone.
Hello everyone, my name is Mei Lian, I am 35 years old and the minister of a large hotel.
Chen Hua and I met through blind dates, and I was suddenly called back to my hometown by my father to go on a blind date, and he said that he had found me a man with a very rich family.
My father is a city servant and a special love of money, he feels that as long as there is money there is happiness, my father in the hometown is equivalent to a matchmaker, often to single people to introduce the object, this time actually introduced the object to his daughter.
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When I first met Chen Hua, he was wearing a shirt and leather shoes, slightly fat, and some dark skin, to be honest, he was not the type I liked, or even the type I disliked. But his family opened a trading shop, there was a house in the city, my father saw that his family had money, and insisted that I marry him.
After marriage, we have a son, at home, Chen Hua cooks and does housework with children, even if he comes back from work, he will tell me: Wife, leave the housework for me to do.
He would bring me my favorite marzipan every time he came back. But no matter how good he was to me, I never felt a sense of love for him.
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It wasn't until I met Ah Liang, who was driving a taxi, that I found that feeling of love.
Ah Liang is a northerner, 36 years old, he has been here for ten years, driving a taxi here.
Since I work some distance from my house, I take the bus home every time.
One day, when I left work late, I couldn't catch the last bus, so I had to take a taxi back, and that time, it was Ah Liang's taxi.
From the first time I saw Ah Liang, I fell in love with him at first sight, and since then I have often taken taxis to commute to work in order to meet him.
It is said that Ah Liang and I are also related, and whenever I leave work, I can see his car parked in front of the hotel.
In the car he talked to me a lot, some talking and laughing.
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Suddenly, one day, Ah Liang was dressed in a formal costume, combed his back, and sprayed perfume, and it could be seen that he had carefully dressed up. He waited for me at the hotel door with a bouquet of flowers, and as soon as he saw me come out, he knelt down on the ground and confessed to me, saying that he had liked me from the first moment.
I didn't tell my colleagues at the hotel about my marriage, and colleagues and passers-by saw me booing on the side. Colleagues coaxed and said, "Sister Lian finally has someone to ask for." I stood there blushing and my heart racing, and I thought to myself, "Oh my God, what a romantic thing, isn't this exactly the kind of love I was looking forward to, so I agreed to be his girlfriend."
Later, I secretly interacted with Ah Liang without Chen Hua.
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Every day I go home late on the grounds that the hotel is busy, push open the door and see the clean and tidy home and the father and son who are sleeping, my heart will be very guilty, I feel sorry for Chen Hua, this home, he paid too much. As my guilt towards Chen Hua grew stronger, I decided to break up with Ah Liang and plan to return to my family.
One day I asked Ah Liang to come out and tell him the truth that I was married, and Ah Liang said that he actually knew that he saw our family of three when he took the guests to the playground that day. Instead of being angry, Ah Liang said that he didn't mind that I had a husband and son, and that he was willing to abandon the worldly vision for me, as long as the two of us were together.
I was touched by him, but I still chose to break up.
For a while after the breakup, Ah Liang suddenly disappeared around me, I didn't see his taxi anymore, I had no motivation, no belief in life, I couldn't do anything, all I thought about was Ah Liang, and then I found out how much I liked him.
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One day after work, I was getting ready to get on the bus, Ah Liang suddenly shouted at me from behind me, I turned my head and rushed over to hug him, at that moment, I was determined to be with this man.
Then we found a place to sit, and Ah Liang shook his hand and said to me, "Lian, I'm going back to my hometown tomorrow, I'm old and old, my parents told me to go back to the blind date, but I want to be with you, are you willing to go with me?"
I bowed my head and pondered for a long time: "I am willing, for you, for our love, I am willing to do anything."
Ah Liang jumped up excitedly and asked, "Really?" Great, then tomorrow at five o'clock in the morning, we will see you at the train station. ”
At four o'clock in the morning of the next day, while Chen Hua and his son were sleeping soundly, I took the clothes I had picked up in advance and left a note for Chen Hua to sneak out.
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In order to follow love, I followed Ah Liang from the south to the north, and I thought I could live a happy and happy life.
But I didn't expect to punch the face too quickly, the eating habits and living habits of the north side are completely different from the south, he basically eats noodles every day, some noodle steamed buns and the like, it will be just winter, the north is called a cold ah, ice and snow, although very beautiful, but for me a southerner is really cold, I don't even dare to come out of the door. At this time, I felt a little regret in my heart.
Since living with Ah Liang, I found that the love I followed was not as happy as I imagined, but not at all happy, Ah Liang drank liquor every day at home, and his personality was a little grumpy, and he took me out of anger when he was unhappy. The housework is all my work, cooking vegetables is also my cooking, in-laws hate me as a foreigner, never help me to do it, they will cross the legs of Erlang and wait to eat, but also think I cooked unpalatable.
Eventually, after we were together for a month, I chose to break up.
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Later, I went back to my husband's house to try to save our feelings, and he couldn't forgive me for my cruel heart, turned me away several times, and he simply moved out of the house because he didn't want to see me.
During the time I lived with Ah Liang, I found out how stupid my choice was, for the so-called love, I impulsively abandoned the husband and son who loved me the most, followed him to the north, did not expect that we were not suitable at all, he and Ben did not love me so much, maybe the previous vow was just because I did not get it.
I really regret it now, let such a good husband not cherish, ran away with the lover, and finally ended up in this fate.
I want to tell you that you must cherish the people in front of you, and don't do the wrong thing like me anymore, and you can't go back.
summary:
The heroine of the text, Mei Lian, once had a husband who loved her very much and hurt her, but she did not cherish it, and after meeting Ah Liang, she abandoned her husband and abandoned her son and followed her lover, and finally regretted it, wanted to turn back, but it was irretrievable. Some things that are wrong are wrong and cannot be forgiven. When it is lost, it is too late to understand the preciousness of the person in front of you. Therefore, cherish the people who are good to you in front of you, cherish the present, and don't wait for the loss to regret it!