A poor man asks a wise man, "Why am I so poor?" The wise man told him, "Because you have not learned to give to others." The poor man went on to ask, "I have become so poor that I can say that I have nothing, what else can I give to others?" The wise man looked at him and smiled and said, "Even if a person has nothing, he can still give others seven good things." ”
First: Give your pleasant face. In other words, it is to keep yourself in a happy mood at all times, smiling, very peaceful, and joyful to face others. Don't underestimate a small smile, what he brings to others is warmth and confidence, is a positive energy. You give someone a smile and they give you a smile back. You convey a happy mood, and others will feel your happy mood and become happy.
Second: Give your kind and peaceful language. Please learn to use your language to affirm and praise each other. When you see that the other party is in difficulty, learn to comfort him, help him, and find ways to solve problems and eliminate troubles together. See the good in others, learn to praise him, and continue to encourage him to do good. Your kind words can also have a positive impact on the other person.
Third: Give alms to your peaceful and broad mind. You have to learn to open your heart, to open the door of your heart. Learn to accept others and accept everything around you. Be kind to others, don't be impulsive and irritable in everything, and treat everything with a normal heart. You will be pleasantly surprised to find that you suddenly have a lot less difficulties in your life, but on the contrary, you have encountered many things that make you very happy, because this is inspired by your good attitude.
Fourth: Give kindness to you. An affirmative look can also give people strength. It's like you're firmly telling him, come on, you can, don't choose to give up. Because of your encouragement, he has increased his confidence and ability to better accomplish the things in the moment. With an affirmative look, you may be able to help the other person accomplish a great thing, and you will be indispensable.
Fifth: Use your actions to help others. We often say a word, there is money to pay, powerful to contribute. If you don't have money, then you can pay your own specific actions, how much you can do, how much you can do. Even if it is a show of hands, if everyone can think like this, then a small force will converge into a very powerful force, push things forward, and make the whole world a better place.
Just like the song that sang, if everyone gives a little love, the world will become a better world, so don't skimp on your hands, do as much as you can.
Sixth: Learn to give up your seat. Treat people with humility and courtesy, and give up your seat to others, especially those who are old, weak, sick, pregnant and other vulnerable groups, we should be even more so.
Seventh: Give away your house. Give yourself an empty room or room and offer it to others for others to rest and provide accommodation. To be convenient with others is to be convenient to yourself. Because no matter who the other person is, food, clothing, shelter and transportation are essential. No one wants to live on the streets themselves. Especially when going out, it is mostly inconvenient, so his merit is great to have a place to live and live in peace, even if it is only one night, only a short time.
If you also have the above seven kinds of generosity. Having developed the habit of giving away at any time, I think your future path will definitely become smoother and smoother. Life feels happy because of giving, and happiness becomes value-added because of sharing. A rich person is not only materially rich, but also spiritually rich.
And once you are spiritually rich, in fact, your material cannot be barren. Because as you continue to give alms, your popularity will get better and better, and when you are doing something, there will be a lot of people who are willing to help themselves and achieve themselves. So you think, just material, can you still get it?