Me and my first love

I'm 40 years old. Yesterday I went to Dongguan on a business trip, I didn't expect to meet my first love, and then she invited me to her house. When I walked in the door, I was intimidated by her environment. She is the boss of the company. Why are you so sloppy? When I found out, I gave her $50,000, but she did something I regretted.

My name is Hou Yong. I come from a rural area and grew up in a poor family, both of whom were farmers. I spent half my life trying to learn to save money, but now it has little effect. My wife, Wang Ping, is from my neighbor's village. We can be married for 15 years. After I graduated, I went to the city to look for a job, met Wang Ping, and said that we all came from the same village, so naturally we were very familiar. Slowly develop into lovers, and finally bear fruit.

After getting married, we worked hard and saved a lot of money in the past few years. My wife and I discussed whether to buy a house or start a company. In the end, we decided to set up a trading company in Guangzhou. After that, we worked together for 10 years and now live a relatively wealthy life.

Once, when I was having dinner by myself, my wife said to me, "Husband, my brother is working in his hometown and living on a shoestring. And take care of the elderly, see the elderly to develop more and more bad physically, the younger brother learning living environment pressure is very affected, my mother said that he wants to open a convenience store can more or less add some living expenses to the school family, want to borrow 100,000 yuan from us. I just didn't have one for my brother. My father died early, and I, the sister, had to help him. ”

"I want to give him some of my money," she continued. "Do you think it's okay?" I think, after all, it's not easy for us to make money. It's okay if you don't have much money, but I have a request for him to open an IOU, run it, and return it when he gets it. It also puts pressure on him to make money.

The wife is very sensible, and the brother-in-law is also good, but he has no culture and does some maintenance work in his hometown. When we opened the company, he gave us 20,000 yuan without saying a word. I said to my wife, "He wants to do something good down-to-earth, and his life will get better and better." I agreed to lend it to him. It doesn't matter if the money isn't there, I still have to put pressure on him. People who are a little stressed are not necessarily bad. As the saying goes, there is pressure to be motivated! \\\“

My wife praised me for thinking things were going through and said that she had found the right person. What I want to say is that she is actually a good wife for us, she and I have suffered a lot in China over the years, and she can always encourage me and support me in my most difficult times.

Yesterday, my brother-in-law came to my house on purpose, and also brought us a lot of mountain goods, and exchanged with me the methods and skills of doing business in many of his own enterprises. In fact, the most important thing in doing business is integrity.

I took him on a tour of my company and went to the market to buy something for my mother-in-law to bring back. Before leaving, the wife told her brother that he must do a good job, and his future life will be better and better!

After sending my brother-in-law away, a customer in Dongguan invited me to talk about a business, and I went to Dongguan on a business trip. We finished business together at the dinner table. I told clients I could go back alone and they didn't have to send me. The client went back. As I left the hotel, I noticed a little girl crying. She said she couldn't find her mom. I was worried that the child would be taken away by the bad guys, so I accompanied the child to find the mother. I didn't expect that the child's mother was my first love, Zhang Monroe.

She was my college classmate. It was also my first love, and we were very affectionate at school at the time. Decide that students will work together after graduation and then through marriage. However, her parents didn't like me because my family was poor and my management ability was at the bottom of society, and I was adamantly opposed to the need for two children together. We were forced to break up.

For a while after the breakup I was particularly decadent, feeling meaningless and confused for a long time.

Later, she learned that her parents forced her to marry the big boss in Dongguan and then let her open her own company. I've always felt like she's doing a great job, which is one of the reasons I started my business. But I didn't expect us to meet in this unexpected way. She was plainly dressed and looked haggard. I saw that there was something wrong with her life.

Monroe said that she is now working in the company's hotel management, the little girl is her daughter, usually take her to work and do not let her out, today we do not pay attention to our children's study will disappear. She hurried to find the hotel, not expecting her own children that they could connect with me.

Just because she didn't leave work, I asked her where she lived, I could take them home by myself, and she said that she lived in the suburbs, the distance was far, afraid of delaying my time. The little girl was able to say that they had to do a few bus developments to learn about home, and wanted to be my car, and Monroe couldn't help it, so she got into my car.

She lives in a very old neighborhood in the suburbs. The child was asleep when we got home. I helped her carry the baby upstairs. I was startled as soon as I walked in the door. It wasn't a home, not a decent piece of furniture, the floors, doors and windows were all in disrepair. She said it was her husband's former house.

I was saddened to see her situation. She said sadly: "At the beginning, my relatives and friends said that I was very blessed and married a boss. In the future, you will become rich and expensive, and you will not worry about eating and drinking. Then my husband's company went bankrupt, and the houses in the city were sold to pay off the debt. Later, my husband was diagnosed with liver cancer and died within a few years. Now it's just me living with my daughter. She began to cry.

I said I still had something to do and left first, and I took out my bank card and said to her, "Here's 50,000 yuan, although we can't help you deal with the company again, but in order to make your life better." I said "This is for you, the old classmate, as long as you don't give up, I'm sure your life will get better with age."

She hugged me from behind and said that she had always loved me deeply, and was forced to leave me by her parents at that time, so she sat down with her for a while, and then she made my favorite braised meat, ate a good meal, the child slept, she took a bath and came out of the bathroom, her body was still so perfect, I said I was going home, she hugged me from behind, said I like you, I didn't control myself, and I was entangled with her.

When I came home at night, I could receive such a text message through my mobile phone when I was taking a shower, it turned out that my classmates sent a text message thanking me for giving her 50,000 yuan, so that I often went to her house as a guest, and as a result, my wife herself saw, I said that I had no social relations with me, just a classmate to help, but in the end she did not believe it. At night she slept separately from me. #Emotional Education Stories#

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