It's almost September, and it's school season again, and there are a lot of kids who are about to go to school, and even some of them are about to go to kindergarten to get their first touch on school life.
For children, going to kindergarten is an unknown road, some children can quickly adapt to the life of kindergarten, but some have "difficulties in entering kindergarten" in a short period of time.
If you want your child to play and learn with your friends in the kindergarten without crying, obediently enjoy the kindergarten life, and do not resist going to school, parents must learn to seize two key time periods to cultivate and improve their children's ability to adapt to kindergarten.
This year my cousin was looking for a new kindergarten for my nephew, in fact, he had already entered kindergarten in September last year, but he was too resistant, too scared inside, and cried for seven days in kindergarten, and as a result, the tonsils were inflamed and went to the hospital.
So the head of the kindergarten told my cousin to let the children wait to go to school, and the parents should first cultivate the child's adaptability to enter the kindergarten in advance, so that the child has a psychological preparation.
So this year, my cousin went directly to the kindergarten in front of her home, and from time to time she took her children to take a turn around and familiarize herself with the environment.
Generally speaking, for children who go to kindergarten for the first time, if they want to adapt to kindergarten life in advance and get rid of the life they have been staying at home all day and relatives before, they should pay attention to guiding the education of children's kindergarten entry in two key time periods.
The first three months of kindergarten and the second half of the child's kindergarten are the key periods for children to adapt to kindergarten life.
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The famous educator Rousseau said: What is the best education, the best education is the education of doing nothing, students can not see education happening, but really affect their hearts, help them to play their potential, this is the best education under the sky.
Adults have "internship periods" when they arrive at new jobs, and they need to be brought by old employees before they are exposed to new things, not to mention the first time children go to kindergarten.
A strange environment, a group of strange people, the child is so small and not very sensible, it is inevitable not to let parents worry, so parents must help the child slowly adapt in the first three months and the second half of the child's admission to the kindergarten, and accompany the child through the first different change transition period in this life.
In this transition period, parents must pay attention to emotions, be gentle and careful, and lead their children to meet the new life of kindergarten smoothly, happily and unconsciously in a silent way.
1) Grasp the psychological characteristics of children before entering the kindergarten and improve their interest
Most of the children who have "difficulty entering kindergarten" are actually because their emotions are not right, they resist and are afraid of entering kindergarten, which is from the psychological safety defense mechanism at work, so from a certain aspect, the child's "difficulty in entering kindergarten" is also a psychological difficulty.
They imagine playing, studying, eating, and napping with their peers, which is exciting and happy, but going to kindergarten means leaving their parents for so long for the first time in their lives.
A relatively independent person is outside, and they are also afraid and worried. Therefore, parents should learn to relieve their children's bad emotions and amplify their yearning and interest in kindergartens.
And the first three months of the child's kindergarten is the culmination of the child's interest and yearning for the kindergarten, they are so innocent and very curious about the life in the kindergarten.
So at this time, mom and dad told them some precautions in kindergarten and what to do in kindergarten, and they were willing to understand.
In the first three months, parents can prepare their children for the psychological construction of kindergarten in advance, and when they have countless questions about kindergarten life, they can give their children answers and gradually deepen their children's interest in kindergartens.
Generally speaking, in June every year, basically all kindergartens will open a visit period for outsiders, and almost an hour will be open to give parents of new students who want to understand and register a window of observation.
Moms and Dads can bring their children and let them see how their older siblings who have gone to kindergarten are happy to learn and play. Especially if the child has a good play and has already gone to kindergarten, you can invite them to the home to talk about the kindergarten life experience with their children.
The kindergarten life depicted in the mouths of other children may be exactly what the child yearns for, and at the same time further deepens his fantasy interest in kindergarten.
They are afraid because of the unknown, but once the child understands what it looks like in kindergarten, they will not have so much resistance to what they are already familiar with.
2) Pay attention to your child's kindergarten experience after entering the kindergarten
The sense of experience of children in the first half month of entering the kindergarten will have a significant impact on whether the child falls in love with the kindergarten life and adapts to the kindergarten life.
Children enter the kindergarten and begin their own journey to the kindergarten, in the first half of the month, the child's feelings about the kindergarten are quite real, although it is subjective but highly valuable.
The first step they take when they come to this strange place is to explore and make friends, they are carefully familiar with this environment that is completely different from their own family, groping for ways to communicate with teachers and classmates, wanting to mingle with classmates, and wanting to interact with teachers in class.
Therefore, their feelings determine whether they are willing to go to kindergarten, get along well with their partners, keep up with the rhythm in class, and play happily every day, naturally they no longer resist kindergarten life, but like it tightly.
On the first day of school, parents can prepare a ritual-filled breakfast for their children, so that the children can eat enough and go to school with a good mood. On the way to send your child, tell your child some interesting things about going to school when you were a child to relieve your child's stress.
If the child is nervous to the kindergarten, do not force him to say hello, the current child is the time when the sense of security is the weakest, so you can wait until the child goes in and stabilizes.
In the half month of life after the child enters the kindergarten, it is best for parents to personally pick up the child every day, encourage the child to tell his gains and interesting things in the kindergarten, or simply ask the child what he has done and learned in the kindergarten.
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In addition to the targeted relief of children's anxiety in these two time periods, there is also a parent to keep in touch with the kindergarten teacher, trust and understand each other, and communicate more. Parents can tell the teacher about the child's preferences, habits, allergies and other details, so that the teacher can better grasp the child's situation.
At the same time, call regularly or ask the teacher about the child's performance in school when picking up the child from school, clearly understand the child's kindergarten life situation, and also prescribe the right medicine for the child's small problems to help the child better adapt to the kindergarten.
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Education expert Yin Jianli said: Children do not live for "growing up" or "success" and "becoming talents", children first live for "childhood".
Kindergarten life is an important part of children's childhood life, wise parents should seize two time periods when their children first go to kindergarten, improve their children's ability to enter kindergarten, let children spend a pleasant kindergarten life, and leave good childhood memories.
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