Wuhan Evening News, January 22 (trainee reporter Zeng Han) On the 22nd, the "Chen Lan Studio" located on Wenming Road, Huanghelou Street, Wuchang District, ushered in a wave of visits. Every Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday is the studio's blind date reception day, at 3 a.m. someone outside began to queue, and by 6 a.m. the people who came to the blind date lined up in a long line, from the entrance of the community to the street, stretching for tens of meters.
Mr. and Mrs. Lan Yuyun
"Chen Lan Studio" is a free marriage matchmaking studio opened by Lan Yuyun and Chen Yilun using their own houses. Free "red bride" for 65 years, holding hands successfully in 1940 pairs of marriages, there are more than 300 pairs are in love.
"You have acne all over your face, and you ask for seven or eight from another woman, so I suggest you buy a flashlight and take care of yourself." "There are no flowers, no trees tall, no short, and you still ask others to be beautiful." "How can such a bad temper turn his face when he doesn't talk to others?" ......
A few days ago, the "poisonous tongue" quotation of Grandma Lan Yuyun, the "super red bride" in Wuhan, exploded on the Internet. Many netizens were fanned by Grandma Lan, who said that they had bought train tickets to Wuhan and hoped that Grandma Lan would "save" herself. Near the Spring Festival, many elderly single young people will face being urged to marry by their families, and they will come to the door for help.
More than 90,000 handwritten blind date registration materials
<h1>Don't give up on any of your blind dates</h1>
The Yangtze River Daily reporter walked into the studio that day, only to see 82-year-old Lan Yuyun wearing reading glasses and his 87-year-old wife Chen Yilun, flipping through thick archives to help a 46-year-old male teacher of a university in Jiangxia match.
"No matter how bad the conditions are for the people who come to the blind date, we will do our best to help and not give up on any of the blind dates," Lan Yuyun said. Among the blind dates who came to ask for help, a Father Yu originally lived a happy life and could sing and dance, and was very affectionate with his wife, but after the unfortunate death of his wife, he was in pain, and he also suffered a stroke, and his face was crooked to his nose. A person who was originally good has become a little demented, and he does not want to go back home. Later, Yu Daddy learned of Chen Lan's studio, specially came to find him, and tearfully told his sad things. Lan Yuyun was touched, while enlightening Daddy Yu, while doing his best to help find, and finally helped Daddy Yu find the like-minded Grandma Zheng, the two were together, and the days slowly returned to their former vitality.
From becoming a "red bride" by chance 65 years ago to volunteering to serve young people after that, so far has successfully held hands with more than 1940 pairs of men and women, Lan Yuyun has always adhered to his principle: "one marriage to get rid of poverty, one marriage to get rich" The purpose is too strong, the physical condition is not good, there are infectious diseases, and people with bad character are not introduced.
Lan Yuyun showed reporters the information of the blind date in the demarcated area
<h1>Mutual appreciation is the secret of keeping love fresh</h1>
During the conversation, the phone in the studio rang, and it turned out that some media wanted to take a group photo of the two elderly people. Lan Yuyun, who had not washed his face after a busy day, quickly went to wash his face and change his clothes, and then smeared some cream on his hands and gently applied it to Chen Yilun's face. Chen Yilun half-bent down to let Grandma Lan wipe her face, while telling the Yangtze River Daily reporter: "Like the two of us have lived a lifetime, what does love rely on to keep fresh?" It is to appreciate each other, share weal and woe, learn to see the highlights of each other, and praise him or her."
Everyone who comes to the blind date must accept Grandpa Chen's "three questions of love": What is love? What do you love about each other? What is the basis of marriage? Very few people can answer it completely. Chen Yilun said that love is dedication, in marriage, men must have responsibility, responsibility, women should also talk about dedication, two people only contribute to each other, in order to live a good life. Women will have a sense of security, with the patron saint, men return to home, can also feel the warmth of home.
"We are here in the love field, not the mall, love is to find the person you like, to find the home you want to go back to." Lan Yuyun said.
<h1>Marriage is still up to the children</h1>
Among the people who come to the blind date, many big men and women have a sense of "fear" about returning home during the Spring Festival. Lan Yuyun said: "There is an elderly young man who has five or six houses in his family, but he still does not want to live with his parents and rents a house outside. ”
Lan Yuyun understands their parents' feelings very well: in fact, when parents see their children 30 or 40 years old and have not yet formed a family, they feel very uneasy in their hearts. Parents feel that getting married and starting a family is a major event in life, but many children, who do not take marriage seriously, feel that they must first study and have a successful career, so there is a contradiction.
"We often do both the work of parents and the work of our children." Chen Yilun said that marriage is for children, so they still have to find it themselves, no matter what they find, they will not complain about their parents. "So parents should take a step back, don't urge marriage, force marriage, the children's side should go further, realize the importance of marriage, do not take the parents' love as a trouble, to turn resistance into motivation, and actively find their other half."
【Editor: Li Xing】