Text/Ho Tie Hand
In the chaebol South Korean society, the status of women is quite different from that of men, and when all the resources, power trade, and power suppression are concentrated in a small Korean entertainment circle, this situation is even more shocking.
Actress Xu Zhenji, who was once popular in the South Korean entertainment industry in the last century, is a female individual struggling under the social reality of unequal rights.
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Many young star-chasers, even those who are familiar with the Korean Wave, may be unfamiliar with the three words "Xu Zhenji".
Xu Zhenji, who was born in 1959, is now 60 years old, and she only occasionally runs away from the announcement and goes on the show, which is not a big deal.
But in the 1980s, she was a top female model in the Korean entertainment industry, and her shadow could be seen in advertisements large and small on TV.
Even Lee Jong-suk, the male god of South Korea, joked in the interview that Seo Jung-hee is his ideal marriage partner.
She was supposed to achieve a career in a beautiful year, but Xu Zhenji unexpectedly chose to marry Xu Shiyuan, a Korean comedian who did not match her appearance and status, and entered the palace of a human wife early.
It was not until May 2014, when the media exposed the amazing video of Xu Zhenji being beaten and dragged by her husband in the elevator, and everyone knew that she was not doing well at all.
According to Xu Zhenji's own confession in court, the union with her husband Xu Shiyuan was a terrible nightmare from the beginning.
Even when the two first met, he violently sexually assaulted her, causing Xu Zhenji to become pregnant and had to choose to marry.
The days after marriage are even more unbearable to look back, her husband often abuses her, pulling her hair, locking her throat These situations are not uncommon, but also have other women outside, rampant words do not allow Xu Zhenji to go near Xiaosan, let alone allow her to call the police, otherwise you will kill her.
Whenever I recall this past, this female star who is over 60 years old but still does not change her girlishness will still burst into tears and her heart will be painful.
These two words, dare not, constitute the whole state of mind of her tragic marriage.
At first, she was sexually assaulted, she did not dare to say it; later she found out that she was pregnant, she did not dare to beat the child; and then found that her husband was violent and cheating, she still endured it again and again, which led to the ferocious beating and dragging scene in the elevator room.
This time, it was a real threat to her life that she couldn't bear to file for divorce.
People can't help but reflect, if there is no elevator domestic violence incident, how long will Xu Zhenji endure?
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Like Seo Jeong-hee, female stars who have suffered domestic violence, threats, and suppression are many in the Korean entertainment industry.
Lee Min-young, a well-known TV star in South Korea, married the obscure actor Lee Chan at the time, and quit the entertainment industry to choose to marry and teach his son at home.
Who knew that after marriage, her husband's violent nature was exposed, and the two quarreled continuously, and Li Can even cut off Li Minying's little thumb and kicked her stomach in an argument.
At that time, she was 15 weeks pregnant, and the child was unfortunately miscarried because of the accident.
Choi Jin, a recognized diva figure in the Korean entertainment industry and a big figure who won the Best Actress Award at the 16th Korea Blue Dragon Film Festival, did not have a smooth life after marrying Cho Sung-min in 2000, and even after the separation, he was beaten by her husband, and the injuries were so serious that he had to be admitted to the hospital for treatment.
The unhappy marriage cast a shadow over her later life, and in 2008, the 39-year-old Cui Zhen hanged herself in the bathroom of her home, ending a painful life.
There is also the actress who left us at the end of 2019, Gu Hola, who is also one of the victims of domestic violence.
Just because Gu Hola hid her date with a male friend, her boyfriend Choi Jong-fan beat her to the uterus and bleed, and there were multiple soft tissue bruises throughout her body. Not only that, Cui Zhongfan also threatened with the intimate video of the two, claiming that he wanted to make her discredited, and after experiencing a series of physical and mental tortures, Gu Hola, who was not happy with his feelings and life, chose to commit suicide in frustration.
These Korean female celebrities listed above are victims of long-term drag and coercion by deformed gender relations, and they have always been instilled with the idea that women are subordinate to men, so few women dare to make their voices heard in public.
To know that they are not stupid white sweet and small petite flowers who have just entered the entertainment industry, and still encounter such a situation, then what kind of sad situation should those Korean women who are much more ordinary than them be?
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Now, at the age of 60, Xu Zhenji has finally begun to slowly come out of the last failed marriage. She insisted on daily exercise, jogging, yoga, dancing, and returned to the past years of youthful self-discipline and beauty.
Comic legs, ant waist, girlishness, these words that seem to have nothing to do with her, she actually has them all.
After Nirvana was reborn, she went out with her daughter and would even be considered sisters, and her state was too good.
Recalling the completely different state of the present and the past, Xu Zhenji confessed that it was the change in mentality that allowed her to be reborn.
After the previous muddled, fearful, and promised her husband, and bravely divorced, she found that her inner self had been suppressed for such a long time.
If she had been able to resist bravely at the first time after encountering domestic violence at that time, she might not have had to suffer so much unnecessary pain later.
As bystanders, we are heartbroken by Xu Zhenji's encounter, and we are also glad that she can finally bravely break free of the shackles to be herself, but we still need more brave "Xu Zhenji" to break free of the shackles of the unfortunate family to women step by step, and liberate more lost individuals.