Text/An Dongyue
01.
In a relationship, the happiest thing is that the person you like also likes yourself. And the most painful thing is that people who love each other can't be together.
If, for all encounters in the world, there is a way to predict the ending, will you try to see the ending first, and then decide whether to give affection?
Junichi Watanabe said, "Love is a kind of fate. ”
The so-called fate is that the antecedent determines the consequences, and the past life determines the present life, which is a fate that cannot be reversed.
In other words, falling in love with a person is predestined and involuntary, as the saying goes: "Love does not know what to do, and it goes deep." ”
Therefore, even if the ending is known in advance, when the person who is destined to appear appears, I am afraid it will be difficult to control your heart.
If you really fall in love with a person, you will know what it means to be a mind and a mind, just for one person.
If you really fall in love with a person, you will understand that the love you give and the water you spill out will never be recovered. Even if the ending is fateless, strange to the end of the world, it will be remembered for a lifetime, and it will not be forgotten.
Just like she and he, in the best years, met fatally, knew each other, fell in love, and finally separated fatally.
From then on, he became the cinnabar mole on her heart, and she became the white moonlight in his eyes.
02.
What is it like to miss someone without an identity connection?
It is probably to remind yourself again and again that you want to look down and put it down, but you open his avatar again and again, look at his dynamics, and always vaguely expect something in your heart.
Hear a song whose lyrics are written for you. So, listen over and over again, and as you listen, you remember your past.
The thrill at first sight is like a calm heart lake being thrown into a stone, stirring up a circle of ripples that can't be dispersed.
When I said goodbye, my eyes met, my eyes fluttered, I obviously didn't say anything, but I felt inexplicably happy, and my eyes were full of smiles.
"I like you."
"Me too."
The love that runs in both directions is so romantic, so sweet, if you can, I really hope that time will always stay at that time.
Unfortunately, time never stops for anyone, and once the love is over, they have to break up.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "The origin of the cause is extinguished, and the edge of the thick edge is weak, which is not something we can control." What I can do is to cherish that short time in the time of karma. ”
Knowing that everything is fate, it is still difficult to let go. Some people, some things, are destined to be unsolvable complexes, past that cannot be passed.
03.
Thinking of you is like fireworks taking off into the air, and in every place in the heart, small fireworks bloom and explode in the heart.
However, no matter how the thoughts flow, we must learn to be patient, we must be quiet, silent, say nothing, do nothing.
The more you care about a person, the more you have to think about him. Since their fate with each other has been exhausted, they will return his peace. In this way, it is both a fulfillment of him and a dignity reserved for himself.
Just like her, she obviously has his contact information, obviously wants to contact, but has not been in contact.
Occasionally, he took the initiative to send a message, and she was obviously ecstatic, but she pretended to be calm, and the wording of her words was particularly attentive.
She strives to play the role of a common friend in order not to put him under the slightest pressure. Only then could she always stand at a distance and watch him.
She wouldn't bother him, but she wouldn't quit his world entirely. Because, she was afraid that one day, he would not find her when he thought of her.
There is a kind of love called far attention; there is a kind of love, called silent missing.
It doesn't matter if anyone understands, someone understands, this love is always there, this love will never be lost.
She was like that to him.
04.
Is there a person in this world who you want to love but can't love; you want to forget, but you can't forget?
If you want to love, you can't love, you can't forget, you can only drink all your lovesickness alone, and the taste is indescribable.
If there is really such a person occupying your heart, it means that you are a person with heavy feelings. People who value feelings are destined to bear a lot. Such as the pain of thoughts, the wounds of memories, and the deep regrets.
There is a saying that goes like this:
It is not that love refuses to let you go, it is not that memory refuses to let you go, it is not fate that refuses to let you go, but that you refuse to live with yourself.
Indeed, all the heartache and pain in the feelings stem from their refusal to let go of themselves. Those who have no heart and no lungs will never be trapped by love.
I understand the reason, but how to let go of myself, I don't have a clue. I can only console myself by saying that everything is left to time.
There is a kind of heartache, called want to love can not love, want to forget can not forget.
Have you ever experienced such heartache? What's that like? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section.
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