The most common problem in a marriage is cheating. No matter what age people are, they always have a heart to pursue love, there is a saying that describes the highest state of people's pursuit of feelings: even if I am disabled, I will unswervingly pursue my love and lover until death.
Saying this may make many people think how is it possible? It is said that love can last for three years at the longest, and once these three years have passed, it may be the affection of two people after that, and it is more that the two people are humble to each other and dislike each other and are more troublesome after separating from each other. Casually to the end, many people say that the longest sentence of their feelings should be to make a living.
In this way, if someone is willing to work like this, there must be some people who are unwilling to work. They always feel that their lives must be their own decisions, no matter what, if they feel that it is not appropriate, then divorce, if there is no way to divorce then choose to cheat. Anyway, I have to pursue my other half all the time, as long as I like it enough.
Today's story is shared by Wang Min.
Husband and wife are not in harmony
Speaking of Wang Min and Duan Peng, the two people or Wang Min's mother-in-law introduced to each other, Duan Peng has not been looking for a girlfriend until he is thirty years old, and every time he asks why he is unwilling, he does not say it. Duan Peng's mother couldn't take her son's information to the park to go on a blind date, and she didn't expect to be looked at by Wang Min.
Wang Min saw Duan Peng's information and felt that it was particularly suitable for him, and then the two people were together under the introduction of Duan Peng's mother, and it was not long after they were together that the two people got married. At that time, the wedding was not particularly large, but it also invited a lot of people.
The life of the two people after marriage is not bad, Duan Peng can not say that he particularly likes Wang Min, but because his mother feels that it is appropriate to get married, so there is nothing about the two people who respect each other. However, such a life looks good and plain in the eyes of others, but for Duan Peng, this kind of life is not what he wants.
Slowly two people begin to disagree, and once there is a disagreement, the two people are prone to quarrels. For Wang Min, who has not been married for a long time, he definitely does not want his marriage to be noisy every day from the beginning, so Wang Min basically endures such a thing, for fear of arguing with himself because of his other party.
On this day, Wang Min came home from work and began to cook, but when Wang Min just packed up and went out to cook, Duan Peng came back, Duan Peng saw Wang Min wearing cute pajamas, and he was instantly disgusted, Duan Peng said: "Can you not dress like this in the future, they are all adults, what are you still pretending to be tender?" ”
Although Wang Min said that his temper was good, but he couldn't stand what others said he was wearing, Wang Min said with some anger: "It's not that you are sick, what is wrong with me wearing a pajama, I asked you to see it, don't you think you yourself are ridiculous?" Besides, what's wrong with adults? As an adult, I also have to maintain what I need in my heart. ”
Wang Min's words made Duan Peng not know what to say, and Wang Min Duan Peng, who spoke like this, had never seen it before. Duan Peng said, "As for you, I just said this pajama, but I didn't say anything." Wang Min said: "Just when you didn't say anything, anyway, for three days, both ends are so noisy and noisy, I am used to it." ”
After that, Duan Peng did not dare to talk about Wang Min's problems anymore, although he said that he did not like this girl, but if he could stick with her for a lifetime.
See your mother-in-law's girlfriend
After that, Wang Min's attitude towards Duan Peng also changed, not all of them are mainly husbands, she began to have more contact with her mother-in-law, no matter how her son will still listen to her mother-in-law's words, saying that she has won over her mother-in-law, maybe Duan Peng will also put his mind into the family.
On this day, Wang Min received a call from her mother-in-law, who said: "Daughter-in-law, today my mother went to her girlfriend to eat at your house, you have to wait for us, you can't eat too early." Wang Min was naturally happy to hear this, no matter how the good mother-in-law and the mother-in-law's friends came, her husband would also pretend to have a particularly good feeling in the family.
When Wang Min bought good food and went home early, he began to cook when he got home, Duan Peng looked at it so abnormally and asked, "What are you doing, why did you come back so early today?" Wang Min said: "My mother told me to bring her girlfriend to the house for dinner, I haven't seen it yet, I think it's ready first." ”
Duan Peng immediately asked, "My mother's girlfriend?" Are you sure she wasn't wrong? Wang Min nodded and said, "Oh, I'm sure it's my mother's girlfriend, so you should hurry up and help me, otherwise you won't be prepared well in a while." Duan Peng didn't say anything more and ran over to make dinner with Wang Min.
Wait until the mother-in-law and mother-in-law's girlfriends come to look at a table of meals, and praise your daughter-in-law here is good, the work is really fast. Just like this family eating together, Wang Min saw that her aunt's age seemed to be not much different from her own, and Wang Min asked: "How do you feel that we are all about the same age?" ”
The mother-in-law said: "Sure, she and I can become good girlfriends all depend on Duan Peng's introduction." Wang Min instantly froze, she felt as if she knew something, the mother-in-law looked at Wang Min and hurriedly said: "Oh, don't think about it, there is nothing between them, the two of us also look at each other well to become girlfriends." ”
This sentence was like a reassuring pill, and Wang Min's heart instantly settled. Everyone happily ate and chatted together. After eating, Wang Min asked Duan Peng to send his mother-in-law and his mother-in-law's girlfriend to his home, and Wang Min waited for Duan Peng in his home. After waiting for a long time, Wang Min did not wait for Duan Peng to return, Wang Min stood by the window and looked outside, and suddenly Wang Min saw Duan Peng and his mother-in-law's girlfriend walking downstairs, and the woman's sixth sense told her that things were not so simple.
Found cheating, the mother-in-law pleaded
After that, Wang Min began to pay attention to the relationship between her husband and her mother-in-law's girlfriend, although Wang Min's mind told her not to think like that, but there was no way. On this day, When Wang Min came home, he saw his husband and his evil mother-in-law's girlfriend at home, and Wang Min originally wanted to ask, "How did you come?" As a result, before Wang Min could speak, the other party said, "Your mother-in-law asked me to bring you some food, and I saw that you were not there and waited for you for a while." In an instant, Wang Min didn't know what to say.
Later, Wang Min was at work, and suddenly the mobile phone received the news of the hotel reservation, and the message just arrived at Duan Peng, who called and said: "Today overtime, I will live in the company, do not go back, you yourself go back to rest early." Wang Min felt that things were not simple, the two people had been married for so long, and he did not work overtime when he did not go home.
Wang Min contacted her mother-in-law to the location of the hotel on the mobile phone, and when she arrived, Wang Min rushed inside, and sure enough, she saw her husband, and Wang Min asked: "Why are you cheating?" Duan Peng didn't say anything, and the mother-in-law said first: "Daughter-in-law, forgive my son, but it was just a cheating, you say that the man didn't cheat?" ”
Wang Min couldn't stand it and said, "Do you mean to say that?" You first find out who he is cheating on, and you see that it is the girlfriend you brought to our house, you are simply luring the wolf into the house. After saying that Wang Min pushed his mother-in-law away, Duan Peng said: "I told you that I didn't like you in the first place, and it is appropriate to marry you, and now that you know it, let's get a divorce." ”
Wang Min slapped Duan Peng and said, "Do you think your marriage to me is a child's play?" Can you play if you want to? I don't divorce, I drag you to death. ”
No matter who marriage is originally a child's play, you can't feel that as long as you don't like it, you can throw it away at will. No matter who is with whom, there is a certain foundation, it is impossible to be together casually, whether it is because the two parties are in love, or because both parties are suitable, since they are together, they must treat this relationship well.
In the face of life, we can often see this kind of marriage, but the two parties do not seem to have so much emotional basis, most people like this will choose to treat their other half well, no matter what, they will not hurt the other half with cheating.
Emotional life is mixed and fierce, less bland. No matter what kind of life you yearn for in your heart, in the end we need to bow to reality, and it is impossible for you to feel that you are not adapting to a dull life and go to someone who can bring you a sense of excitement. Since you have chosen to marry, both parties must be responsible for each other. There is no casual feeling, casual marriage, and since such a sacred thing as marriage is fixed, it is necessary to treat the other half well.
Today's topic: If you are Wang Min. What would you do?
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