Shijiazhuang Daily Rong Media (reporter Huang Ying Liu Di) reporter learned from the Yangtze River Literature and Art Publishing House that CCTV host Sister Moon's new book "Sister Moon as a Mother" has been published by the agency, this book is a parenting note compiled by Sister Moon according to her own personal experience, the whole book is about 260,000 words, Sister Moon shares her pregnancy preparation, pregnancy experience and parenting insights in the book.
Sister Moon joined CCTV in 1998 as the host of CCTV Youth Center for more than 20 years. Years of experience in dealing with children have made Sister Moon very aware of child psychology. Her hosting style is bright and versatile, and she is loved by children.
The book "Sister Moon as a Mother" brings together the wisdom that Sister Moon has accumulated over the years with her children, and integrates her deep feelings for her children after becoming a mother. Between the stories, there are also many small popular sciences of pregnancy and child-rearing, and Chen Ruixue, director of the Department of Gynecology of Guang'anmen Hospital of the Chinese Academy of Chinese Medical Sciences, and Fan Ling, director and professor of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology of Beijing Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital and chief obstetrics and gynecology expert of Beijing New Century Women's and Children's Hospital, are specially invited to proofread the knowledge points.
The book begins with a recount of Sister Moon's experience when she was 35 years old and preparing to become pregnant. Like many professional women today, Sister Moon put more energy into her work before the age of 35. She started preparing to have children at the age of 35, and the process was not smooth. Shortly after becoming pregnant, the doctor informed her that the child had stopped having children, which was a very big blow to her. In the book, Sister Moon combines her own experience to discuss "fetal cessation" from both psychological and scientific aspects, especially from the scientific point of view, Sister Moon shares the professional interpretation of this problem by medical experts. She thinks that if possible, it should be a little earlier to have children. If you want a child after the age of 35, be sure to cooperate with the doctor, have regular obstetric examinations, and do not refuse the examinations that should be done. Trust the doctor and communicate more with the doctor, so as to minimize the risk of pregnancy and childbirth in the elderly mother.
For many women, the 30s are the rising stage of their careers, and pregnancy and childbirth require women to reduce the pressure of work. The contradiction between having children and career development plagues many women. For Sister Moon, the contradiction between the two at first also entangled her. When she was pregnant, she was not only the host of several shows, but also the producer of the show "Music Express", and she was very busy. But she was 38 years old and had experienced a break in childbirth, and she cherished the opportunity to get pregnant.
After weighing it up, Sister Moon decided to take a break and go home to take a baby. But this does not mean that she completely gave up her work, and after serious communication with the leader, Sister Moon suspended the front stage to preside over the work, but the behind-the-scenes production work continued, and even during the confinement period, there were many colleagues who visited with work tasks. Sister Moon also realized that as a children's program host, she did not have her own children, which made her lack of fundamental confidence in facing children, parents, and explaining parenting knowledge. Having a child of her own will bring her valuable experience and, from a longer-term perspective, will help her career development.
Sister Moon likes children very much, and when she confessed that she was a child, she liked to bring children to other people's homes. After having her own children, Sister Moon has invested a lot of energy in parenting. In terms of early education and learning, she also has her own unique attitude. For Sister Moon, children's literacy, numeracy, English ability, etc. are not the most important, the most important thing is to cultivate children's interest in learning, cultivate children's imagination, association, and independent problem-solving ability. Therefore, Sister Moon prefers to guide from the side and give children encouragement, she is very good at finding children's interest points and shining points, and carrying forward the advantages of children, so that children can explore in a spontaneous state and learn naturally.
Sister Moon is very good at communicating with children through storytelling, explaining reasoning to children, and thinks that they will learn faster and remember more firmly than repeatedly speaking verbally and memorizing them by rote, so that children can experience practice. For example, Sister Moon teaches her children an ancient poem, and will find the imagery mentioned in the ancient poem in reality, so that the child will actually observe and refer to it, so that the child will be very impressed by a poem, and the memorization of the poem will no longer be boring.
In the book "Sister Moon as a Mother", Sister Moon also shared a lot of her own experience in telling stories to children, teaching children to draw and other methods, and mentioned many communication skills with children, I believe that the majority of parents can gain something from it. However, Sister Moon believes that the most important thing is to truly understand and respect the child. Communication is not an end in itself, but a way to convey love.