Cao Dewang once said on the show that he transferred all his wealth to his wife, and even the chairman of the holding company was also his wife. However, at the most loving time, Cao Dewang told his wife to "not give his property to his son if he did not climb to the coffin."
What made Cao Dewang say this to his wife? Is the son not filial enough, or is there something else hidden?
Cao Dewang's wife, Chen Fengying, is an ordinary rural woman, although illiterate, she is very kind and honest. At that time, Cao Dewang's career was a small achievement, and the family's economic conditions also improved, and they immediately built a new villa. Chen Fengying originally thought that this villa was going to be given to his family, but Cao Dewang turned his head and gave it to his brother.
After Chen Fengying learned about it, her heart was very unhappy, but it was not noisy or noisy, just sullen and unhappy. My family has been suffering for many years, and it is difficult to live in a good place, so I gave it directly to my brother, which is really wronged.
Cao Dewang and Chen Fengying have been married for many years, and they can see what she thinks at a glance, but she does not quarrel or make trouble, which Cao Dewang never expected, Chen Fengying is so honest, even if he is not happy, he does not directly raise objections, but just holds it in his heart.
Therefore, he directly poked his wife's heart and told Chen Fengying: "Forget it, they are all family." From today onwards, I will transfer all the company to your name, and the property under my name is all yours. ”
Cao Dewang did what he said, except for the two properties in the countryside, Cao Dewang transferred all the companies and properties under his name to Chen Fengying. This move of his instantly made Chen Fengying smile happily. In fact, Chen Fengying is not stingy at all, but feels that Cao Dewang should be kind to himself, since Cao Dewang himself attaches importance to himself and has a good idea, she is not convenient to say more. After this incident, Cao Dewang deeply realized that the rural woman in front of him was honest and understanding.
Therefore, he said to his wife: I am more capable than you, I register the property in your name, you are okay. I don't want you to remember a word, don't give property rights to your son without climbing to the coffin. After handing it over to your son, he took his wife to play and left you at home, leaving you alone.
The property remains in your hands and he will send you up the hill. When you're ready to go, give him the property.
And Cao Dewang said this because he knew his wife too well. She was too honest and too kind.
In fact, Chen Fengying was able to marry Cao Dewang, which was purely an accident. At that time, Cao Dewang's father was a Shanghai department store owner, and in order to escape the war, he took a family and property from Shanghai to Fujian by steamship. Although the people returned, the property was completely destroyed on the road because of the shipwreck. Back in Fujian, they are penniless, and everything can only start from scratch.
However, they did not farm at all, and as Cao Dewang grew up, his family became poorer and poorer, and even his mother suffered from "puffiness disease". In this case, the father and Cao Dewang discussed: marry a room wife to facilitate the care of the mother. This was Cao Dewang's original purpose in marrying his wife. Therefore, his wife was personally selected by his mother, and it is not important to be literate, the key is to see whether the other party can bear hardships and understand whether they can take care of people. On this day, with the help of her uncle, her mother took a fancy to Chen Fengying.
Back at home, the mother told Cao Dewang about her chosen daughter-in-law, and Cao Dewang agreed with all his mouth, without the slightest intention of going to see him: "As long as you like." Cao Dewang knew in his heart that holding this purpose to find a wife, his own family is this situation, it is good to have someone willing to marry, so he does not pick, the other party can be anyone, as long as the mother is willing.
In this way, Cao Dewang's family made up three or four hundred yuan, borrowed some from neighbors, and cobbled together 500 as a dowry. On the wedding day, Cao Dewang gave the villagers eight pounds of candy, carried Chen Fengying into the house with a palanquin, and he said to his wife: "I will not bully you, you should not bully me, we live in peace." Wife Chen Fengying bowed her head and promised Cao Dewang. Living in peace is Cao Dewang's greatest expectation for his wife.
Chen Fengying is indeed illiterate, but he is very willing to endure hardships and endure hardships and grievances. In order to make money, the newly married Cao Dewang went out and threw his parents and children to Chen Fengying. What rural women can do, Chen Fengying can do. The in-laws are older, basically can not help too much, at most help to watch the children, rural housework Chen Fengying can do, farming and picking burden Chen Fengying can also do. When Cao Dewang was away, Chen Fengying took on two roles alone.
For children, she is both father and mother, and for the elders, she is both a son and a daughter-in-law. Such a tired day, Chen Fengying has never complained, single-mindedly take care of the family, she hopes that Cao Dewang can have no worries when he is working outside. However, it is so easy to start a business, the opportunities of that era are great, the risks are also large, and Cao Dewang needs financial support.
Therefore, Cao Dewang thought about it, hesitated a few times, or opened his mouth to Chen Fengying: "Can you sell your dowry for money to support me to start a business?" "In the countryside, it is a very humiliating thing for a man to move a woman's dowry, which is basically equivalent to the man's inability. Therefore, most women will not agree to sell the dowry in order to protect themselves, and Cao Dewang's entrepreneurship itself is precarious. But if Chen Fengying is a little selfish, she should not take out the dowry.
However, after the traditional Chen Fengying heard this sentence, he did not hesitate to agree. Cao Dewang took Chen Fengying's dowry money and went out again, but as a result, his goods had just been transported to other places and he was arrested by the local militia. Not only did the goods go and never return, Cao Dewang himself was almost caught, but fortunately he ran fast, which escaped the disaster.
Back at home, he truthfully told his wife that the news of the failure of the business and the loss of the dowry was gone, and he thought that he would get a scolding with a split head and a covered face. As a result, his wife, who has always been loud, deliberately lowered her tone and comforted Cao Dewang, winning or losing is a common thing for soldiers, and if anyone starts a business and hits it, let's take it slowly.
This time, Cao Dewang went out again with his wife's encouragement. Before leaving, he found his mother-in-law: "Fengying and Xiaohui will please your old man's home, I will go, if I don't make money, I won't come back, you let Fengying remarry someone else." "The uncontrollability of entrepreneurship is too great, the family has a bunch of foreign debts and the old, weak, sick and disabled, Cao Dewang really can't bear to delay Chen Fengying all the time." But the mother-in-law is also a reasonable person, and she speaks words of encouragement so that he must not worry too much.
Although Chen Fengying's family did not have much education level, they gave Cao Dewang all the support. With such a wife, Cao Dewang was very moved. Every night when he was struggling outside, Cao Dewang never needed to worry about his children and parents, but only needed to worry about his wife's fatigue.
However, even if there is a smooth and direct marriage, the marriage of Cao Dewang and Chen Fengying has also had a crisis. After the creation of Fuyao Glass, Cao Dewang also met his own confidant.
The other party is a twenty-four or five-year-old young girl, who knows how to run a company and knows the knowledge of running a company, and can be a good help for Cao Dewang. Cao Dewang, who was immersed in love, once felt that he had found someone to spend his life with, and his heart inevitably gave birth to the idea of divorce.
One is a bad wife, and the other is a young and beautiful confidant, which is very selective for any man. But in Cao Dewang's heart, in addition to love, there is also conscience and responsibility, his wife Chen Fengying has followed him for so many years and suffered a hard life, how can he abandon her when he has achieved fame?
In the difficult moment of making decisions, Cao Dewang went to do an investigation. He selected 100 couples from a wide range of industries and asked them to describe their satisfaction with their marital situation, only to find that none of them were satisfied, not even those who were talented and equal. Cao Dewang understood that life is plain and bumpy, there is no perfect person, and there is no perfect marriage.
Although his wife Chen Fengying looks average, she has the spirit of hard-working and hard-working; although Chen Fengying is illiterate and does not know how to operate, she wholeheartedly supports all of Cao Dewang's decisions. The world often says that to marry a wife is to marry a virtuous, this kind of "virtuous" should not only refer to talent, but also to quality. In terms of quality, Chen Fengying is not inferior to any woman.
Married for many years, they do not understand romance, and they have never deliberately cultivated love, and they have long become the closest and most trusted relatives. For such relatives, Cao Dewang naturally cherished it.
After trying to understand this matter, Cao Dewang has since broken off contact with his confidant Hongyan and returned to the family wholeheartedly. After this incident, Cao Dewang's understanding of marriage was more profound, and his gratitude to Chen Fengying was also deeper, and he began to praise his wife in public: "Without the support of his wife in the back, without a little thing in my housekeeper, there may be no Fuyao today, naturally you don't know who I Cao Dewang is." ”
Even, Cao Dewang directly told the public that all his property had long been in his wife's name. This is equivalent to a heavy trust, indicating that Cao Dewang is not afraid of his wife getting divorced, and he is not worried that his wife will roll up money and run away. However, although Chen Fengying has huge assets and company shares, she will never participate in the decision-making and management of Fuyao Glass, she is still the original Chen Fengying, only want to be behind the scenes, cao Dewang's backing.
Cao Dewang also knew that Chen Fengying was gentle in nature and was not suitable for business or decision-making at all. Moreover, until now, she would answer the phone as little as possible because her Mandarin was not standard, for fear that others would laugh at Cao Dewang's wife and not even speak accurately. But for Cao Dewang, these were not problems at all, even when he had a confidant, he never abandoned his wife.
What he has is only endless worry about his wife, in case he dies first, will Chen Fengying, who is gentle and honest and has no business acumen, be bullied by his children, and can he keep his property and live his old age?
Therefore, Cao Dewang began to give Chen Fengying a thousand instructions: "I am gone, you did not climb to the coffin, don't give your property to your son." If I leave, and their little marital property is in hand, they will leave you alone, and they will live their own. On the one hand, Cao Dewang began to seriously examine his children and try to choose a good and filial successor; on the other hand, he also had to tell Chen Fengying to plan more for himself. He did not want Chen Fengying to suffer a little grievance and hurt in his later years.
The marriage between Cao Dewang and Chen Fengying, one is the founder of a listed company, and the other is an illiterate woman who cannot read big characters, which is extremely incompatible in the eyes of outsiders.
But they themselves proved with an enviable ending that the match of marriage depends not on culture and knowledge, but on responsibility and character.
Cao Dewang also summed up his life's experience in the book "Heart Like Bodhi", which has his experience in dealing with the world and the moment when he suddenly woke up. After reading a book, it seems to understand Cao Zong's mentality: the heart is like a bodhi! Interested partners can click "Take a Look" below to buy!
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