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After the widow and son, my mother-in-law and I survived by doing self-media

author:It's Xiao Erfeng

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When he received the notice of Liu Kai's death, Wang Jia had just returned from hoeing grass in the field, carrying a nine-month-old second treasure on his back, and had just fallen asleep on the way to come, and his small face was puffed by the sun's sun.

The village chief and the branch secretary and a few villagers stood in the courtyard, not knowing how to comfort the woman in front of them, Wang Jia stood in the same place as if she had lost her soul, not crying or speaking, as if she had not heard what the village chief had just said.

"When 120 arrived, there was no breath, the body was in the morgue of the hospital, we will accompany you to see." The village chief's words were heard by the mother-in-law lying in the house.

Just listen to the bang, and then there was the sound of Wang Jia's mother-in-law wailing, last month her wife just left, she has not yet come out of the pain, all day sick, did not expect that the only son is now also in an accident, this is how people can bear it.

Wang Jia quickly put down her hoe and walked toward the house, and the village chief secretary and the villagers also rushed in.

"Liu Kai, my son, my son."

Wang Jia's mother-in-law sat on the ground and kept sobbing, and her words were no longer spoken.

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Wang Jia came to the morgue of the hospital, and Liu Kai was lying on the cold bed and was pushed out of the refrigerator covered with a white cloth. Lifting the white cloth, although the face was hit a little blurred, the clothes he was wearing could still be recognized at a glance as Liu Kai.

Wang Jia stood aside and did not dare to come forward, she could not cry out, she did not believe that Liu Kai, who had walked from home last week, was now lying here so cold, she wanted to listen to him, wanted him to realize what he said before, and took her and her mother-in-law and children to the city after earning money in the city.

The village chief looked at Wang Jia and had no idea, so he called several villagers to pull him to the crematorium.

"Liu Kai, we're here to pick you up." Let's go home and settle down. ”

Liu Kai's funeral was handled by the village chief, and it was also because of the pity of this orphan and widow, and all the villagers could help. Wang Jia's mother-in-law cried and couldn't get up on the bed, and Wang Jia held Liu Kai's spiritual seat in a daze.

Wang Jia's parents took care of her two children, Dani was four years old, erbao was nine months old, the eldest was not small, but they were all ignorant of age, and they did not know what it meant to die.

Next to the tomb of Wang Jiagong, a new grave was dug.

The people in the village sighed that the lives of these two women were too bitter.

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"Children, we help you raise, maybe in the future you can find someone who does not hate you to marry, people are gone, can not not do the future plans ah." 」 Wang Jia's mother was really distressed to see her daughter.

"If I go back with you, what will my mother-in-law do?"

"You've crossed the river in the mud, why are you still thinking about her?"

"The mother-in-law has no mother since childhood, that father only has a son in his eyes, he has not waited to see her, she and those two brothers have not been close since childhood, the father-in-law is gone, the relatives are also hiding far away, and now Liu Kai has a car accident again, I want to go again, she designated that she can't live, if Liu Kai knows in heaven, she will definitely blame me."

"Although Liu Kai said that it was a car accident, but he hit the telephone pole himself, he didn't leave you a point, you still have to do it for him to provide for his mother, you don't forget, you still have two children, you can't live like this for a lifetime, it's not easy to remarry with two children, you bring an old woman, who can want you?"

"Dad, Liu Kai just left, don't say whether this is good or not."

"Jia, your father is right, it is too wronged for you to continue to stay in this family, you don't have to care about me, you just have to pull the two children to grow up is the greatest favor to our Liu family, you go home!" The mother-in-law came out of the house, and the two of them cried and hugged each other.

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Wang Jia has been living at her mother's house for half a month, and she thought that the pain would slowly fade with time, but she did not expect that she thought about Liu Kai day by day, thinking about what they said together, the places they had been, and thinking about him every night.

It was probably the lost stamina that came up, and her heart and body reacted, and she confirmed over and over again that the person who had been with her day and night had really left her.

The mother-in-law's side is not optimistic, it is originally too sad, plus there is no one around to take care of it, eating and drinking is not good, and it is not good to see people thin.

There is a village between Wang Jia and her mother-in-law's village, not far away, and people from the mother-in-law's village said to let Wang Jia go back to see, and the mother-in-law did not eat or drink as if she was waiting for death. Wang Jia heard that he was in a hurry, and he ran out without changing his shoes

After a few days of not seeing, the mother-in-law's thin body can see the bones, but I can imagine how difficult it is for Wang Jia and the child to spend each day these days.

Wang Jia held her mother-in-law's hand.

"Mom, it's the daughter-in-law who is wrong, I shouldn't have left you."

The mother-in-law smiled and nodded, but she could not speak, and the tears kept flowing down.

Maybe others can't fully understand, but Wang Jia knows that the pain in her heart is a hundred times that of Wang Jia.

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Wang Jia despite her parents' objections or chose to take the child back to her mother-in-law's side, since she married Liu Kai, her mother-in-law has never had a red face with her, and even always stood on her side to say that Liu Kai's is not, she really can't bear to watch her mother-in-law lose weight like this.

Even if it is for Liu Kai, it can be regarded as for his own peace of mind.

But the reality is still cruel, but also to take care of two children, but also to take care of the mother-in-law in the hospital bed, Wang Jia sent Dani to school in the morning, to make a meal for her mother-in-law and carry the second treasure to the ground, she can not go out to work, can only rely on the little crops in the field for some money.

Put the second treasure in the ground, it is a morning, wipe the sweat on your forehead, and then go home to cook.

The mother-in-law originally wanted to die, but she did not expect Wang Jiazhen to come back with the children, on the one hand, she was reluctant to give them up, on the other hand, she thought that she would die like this, and lying in bed every day was also a burden, so from the beginning when the rice water did not enter, to later take the initiative to get up to find food.

Wang Jia is also relieved to see that her mother-in-law's health is getting better and better every day, so that she can watch her children cook at home, and Wang Jia also reduces a lot of burdens.

"The days will always go on, I can't lie down and wait for you to take care of me, I have to stand up and look at you and the children, I know that my days are still ahead." 」

Wang Jia looked at the cheering mother-in-law full of relief, Liu Kai would definitely boast about himself in heaven.

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A woman a few pieces of dry land, to raise a family is too difficult, Wang Jia has a younger brother who is still in school, not only need to spend money on school, it will cost money to build a house and marry a daughter-in-law in the future, her parents are also weak in heart, and every time they come, they can only give Wang Jia a few hundred pieces, buy some rice and buy some vegetables.

She went to the city to work and did not trust the family's children, heard that now shooting videos can earn money, under the guidance of the village chief and poverty alleviation cadres, Wang Jia began to record her and her mother-in-law's life, in this regard, Wang Jia did not know anything at the beginning of the difficulty.

The mother-in-law is shy and dare not appear in the camera, every time she shoots, she twists and squeezes, there is really no way, Wang Jia will take advantage of the mother-in-law to secretly photograph her when she looks at the child, and sometimes go to the field to work and photograph the surrounding mountains and water.

Because it will not be edited, the video is very chaotic, Wang Jia will watch the videos taken by others after the mother-in-law and the child fall asleep at night, how to add text, how to add sound, how to look like there is content.

After a month of shooting, Wang Jia was a bit on the road, but her mother-in-law still did not dare to leave the country, and she hid as soon as the mobile phone was tapped, let alone be able to say a few words.

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Suddenly one day, Wang Jia's video went viral, and there were a lot of insults in her comment area, saying that Wang Jia coerced the old lady to shoot video exposure all day, one said so, it seemed that everyone followed suit, and some people seemed to be very familiar with Wang Jia, saying that her daughter-in-law's heart was too dark and too vicious. And these people Wang Jia did not know, originally the life was hard enough, these people said this, Wang Jia instantly let go of his breath.

She put down her phone, took a hoe again, and buried it in the ground all day, all day long. The mother-in-law saw that Wang Jia was unhappy, but she didn't understand what Wang Jia had been doing all day, and she didn't know what she had encountered.

Is it because I am angry every time I hide from her and shoot myself?

The mother-in-law was like a child who had made a mistake, and did not dare to squeak in front of Wang Jia.

After eating, her mother-in-law pulled Dani to teach her to play with her mobile phone, take photos and videos, and learn wang Jia's usual appearance. Wang Jia just silently washed the children's clothes and did not speak.

"I'm afraid of other people's jokes, such an old woman still shoots around." The mother-in-law carefully told Wang Jia the reason why she did not want to appear on camera.

Wang Jia told her mother-in-law about what she had recently encountered online and the insults that netizens had abused her.

"I also just wanted to briefly record our lives, I didn't expect others to say that about me,"

"Who are they, how can they hurt people so casually, blame me, I went to tell them, you are not like this." 」

"Tens of millions of netizens say where to go, I don't take videos now, they are still talking about me."

"Then we shoot ours, he said theirs, and the body is not afraid of the shadow oblique."

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Since then, Wang Jia picked up the mobile phone again, but this time the mother-in-law special cooperation, the content of the video is also enriched, Wang Jia's video has received more and more people's attention, some say good and some say bad, but they no longer affect her to continue to shoot videos.

After the fans passed 10,000, the platform began to reward Wang Jia, and the first time she got two hundred yuan for filming a video, Wang Jia and her mother-in-law laughed like a child that day.

Wang Jia's daily life is to do farm work and shoot videos, and her mother-in-law's body is also hardened, perhaps she has seen the hope of life, her mood is comfortable, and people are also energetic.

Every evening, Wang Jia will live broadcast live on the mobile phone on time, chat with fans to answer their questions, someone will also send her gifts, the mother-in-law mainly helps to watch the two children when she broadcasts live, sometimes at the request of fans, sometimes she can show off her small talents, sing a mountain song or something.

Looking at the full of positive energy in front of the camera, it is often forgotten that these two women are the bitter women who lost their husbands at the same time in a month.

Wang Jia has been skilled in the use of photographic skills, editing and sound, adding subtitles are familiar with ease, will also record videos to fans to teach, more and more people learn to shoot videos like Wang Jia.

Slowly, some brands began to cooperate with Wang Jia, so that they could help promote their products in their own live broadcasts, and they would give Wang Jia a part of the commission according to sales. Every day Wang Jia was busy.

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Wang Jia thought that she was too busy to be alone, so she called her brother to choose products, live broadcast plus video, more and more fans, mother-in-law has also become a net red mother-in-law, every time live fans have to see the mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law appeared in the live broadcast room, Wang Jia had to put the two children in her parents, and Wang Jia and her mother-in-law concentrated on live broadcasting and shooting videos.

In the summer, the fruits in the village have matured one after another, but in previous years, they were picked and sent to the hands of the vendors, but the villagers could not sell the price, and Wang Jia had thousands of people watching in the live broadcast room every day, thinking that he would help the villagers sell fruits in the live broadcast room.

In the spirit of trying the mentality, did not expect that fans are willing to come to Wang Jia live broadcast room to buy fruit, throughout the summer, Wang Jia in the live broadcast room to help half of the villagers sell fruit, and she did not charge a penny, or only took the gifts sent by fans to cash out the money.

Wang Jia and her mother-in-law's life has undergone a great change, the villagers have kindness to their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and they will do their best to help them if they have the ability to help them, which is called gratitude.

The mother-in-law is very much in favor of Wang Jia's approach, she has no culture, but she knows that if you can stand in the position of others and think, others will also stand in your position and think, so that this society is warm and tasteful.

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At that time, after the widows and children were lost, the villagers did not snub the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but sent some corn today and potatoes tomorrow, and the rural people who were not rich would never look at you hungry.

The Poverty Alleviation Office was very touched after learning about Wang Jia's mother-in-law's deeds of helping the villagers sell fruits, and the Women's Federation even sent a pennant to Wang Jia's mother-in-law's home, and reduced the kindergarten fee for her two children for one year.

Looking at the days of prosperity, the mother-in-law thought that it was time to find a home for Wang Jia, Wang Jia was now so capable, and the reputation of the virtuous was also played out, and the mother-in-law secretly found a matchmaker to find a candidate for Wang Jia.

"I heard that you also found a partner for your daughter-in-law!" Found it? Wang Jia and her mother-in-law were invited to participate in the interview of the TV station, and the host did not know where to get the news. Wang Jia looked at her mother-in-law with tears in her eyes.

"No, today I also want to marry my daughter-in-law."

"Aren't you afraid that she'll get married and have a family?"

"I'm not afraid, I haven't raised her, she has no responsibility to me, but if my body allows it, she needs me to sweep the floor, make a meal, take the child, I will go." 」

"Mom, you will always be my mother, I will not leave you."

With the enthusiastic applause of the audience, the interview came to an end, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law walked on the streets of the city, and the vehicle sped past them.

Wang Jia looked up at the traffic lights in front of her, if you hadn't run the red lights in order to rush home, wouldn't our lives be better now?

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