If you can't control your destiny, you can control your heart

In life, we try to control our destiny, but in the end we are always tricked by fate; we try to explore life, but in the end we find that life is like a dream; we try to show individuality, but in the end we are often assimilated by the group. "Life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten", since we can't control the fate, we let nature take its course, find our inner self, do not lose ourselves, and achieve inner peace! Life is simpler, and happiness will be longer.

　　 Know how to forget. The greatest pain in life comes from the pursuit of perfection, you know, the real light is not without dark moments, but never drowned in darkness. Our lives are the same, running with pain, smiling with tears, this is the real life.

　　 Know how to give up. Life is like a drama, everyone is the only director in their own life, only those who know how to give up can understand life thoroughly, laugh at life, and always have a good mood. "Willing to give up", there is a sacrifice to get.

　　 Be appreciative. Look at people and things with an appreciative eye, and we will be happier. In fact, everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Why should we look at people with a magnifying glass instead of a telescope?

　　 The passage of time, the cumbersomeness of life, the many difficulties of reality give people more and more pressure, there is no leisure to stop and taste, less meditation and contemplation. A person's emotions are affected by the environment, which is very normal, only people who have sunshine in their hearts can feel the sunshine of reality, happiness is an attitude to life, happiness is a mood. Don't imprison yourself in the thick cocoon of sorrow, beautify life, appreciate life, life will have beautiful scenery everywhere.

　　 We can't avoid every ordinary day, nor can we avoid the busyness of the flowing account on ordinary days. Everyone has their own way of life, as long as they can discover themselves, and maintain themselves in body and mind, and eventually surpass themselves, even if no one applauds, they will gain something. Live out your ordinary and authentic self. In life, laughter is a kind of dashing, crying is also a kind of dashing, as long as it comes from the heart, it will be full of joy.

　　 In this complex society, we must learn not to be alarmed, not to let ourselves get lost, and when we are sad and wronged, we will cry. After crying, wash your face and squeeze out a smile to show yourself. Give yourself a big future and goals. Remember to always look up at the sky, but don't forget to look up at your feet when you look up at the sky.

　　 Ordinary days to interpret the ordinary self, although ordinary people as long as the effort can affect the world, but do not deliberately pursue anything, with their own good qualities and happy mood, to do the real and ordinary self. Such a day has thoughts to accompany, there are happy companions, it can be described as a fantasy, you will be proud of it, feel comfortable, and live a real, relaxed and peaceful life.

　　 We are all ordinary people, busy every day in the rush of people in the noisy environment. We long for a relaxed release in the tired rush, in the quiet of the night, to find a peaceful reason for our inexplicable loneliness, we even expect our ordinary life to have a long-awaited glory, fantasizing about creating extraordinary achievements with our mediocre ability. We are constantly praying for our hearts, because only the perseverance and satisfaction of the soul can make us feel the meaning of human life and happiness.

So we can't control the fate, we must preserve a strong heart, the fate is fair to everyone, control the heart we can control the fate, to be a strong inner struggler.