My family has two living treasures, the husband is cheerful, and the neighbor's grandmother said that he saw him all day with a smile, singing loudly and laughing, as if it was not beautiful enough. The little one inherited his father's cheerful and optimistic personality, and he also shouted all day, and the two had a lot of fun. But recently, these two live treasures touched a piece, but every day noisy, the husband is sometimes like a naughty child, crazy with his son, sometimes he has to think of himself as Lao Tzu, the small discipline. As the son grows up day by day, the husband's hot and cold way of heaven makes the son not eat the father's set more and more.
I remember when my son was 4 years old, my biggest realization was that I must be careful when I spoke in front of him in the future, and I didn't know which sentence was learned. The richness of his language at that time was so rich that I was amazed. At home, the most vulnerable to being bullied by him is not his father, who used to be small and could only solve problems by force to express his dissatisfaction, and now he has learned to attack with language. This little gaba bean, recently, has been taking advantage of adult talk, and it is really difficult to deal with. The following conversation took place at a dinner table two days ago:
(Scenario 1)
Forget why father and son quarreled again:
Son: "If you say me again, I will sniff you" (the word comes from when my son was not brushing his teeth well, and I frightened him into saying that the worm would break his teeth)
Dad: "If you sniff me, then I will leave, and I will be a father to others" (Is Lao Tzu still afraid that you will not succeed?) ）
Son: "Then I'll chase you" (stalking and playing accurately)
Dad: "Where are you chasing?" (Triumphant)
Son: I'll chase you wherever you go, and I'll bite the back of your ass (this kid, tough enough)
Father:.....
Hearing this, I almost didn't squirt out the rice and asked my son: "Daddy is a father to others, what if you don't have a father?" "Then I'll find a dad from someone else" "Aren't you going to chase after daddy?" "Who makes him old-fashioned". After laughing, I thought about it for a long time: it can be said that once a child is 4 years old, he is almost like an adult, and don't want to fool him as an adult. At that moment, I decided that in the future, I would treat my son as an adult, and he already understood everything, no longer a little bit.
(Scene 2, after dinner :)
The son accidentally knocked a bag, which hurt his husband and was always worried about the bag on the door of his head. In the evening we played small paste. The little guy suggested pasting it on the bag: "Mom, let's put the sticker on the bag", Dad was watching TV, suddenly came a sentence: "That's not okay, how painful it is when the posting is finished", I and my son looked at each other and laughed, and then laughed, the little man came to the sentence: "This stupid dad, is the bag of the school bag, not the bag on my head", the father suddenly realized. This little guy, obedient enough to hear the sound, learned to laugh at people, stupid dad came out.
The above dialogue made me more confirm that the child's thinking is already very broad, and we can no longer underestimate the little person in front of us. I want to start a new round of charging, constantly stock up on parenting knowledge, and play tricks with the boys!
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