What should you do as a parent in your child's growth education?
After reading such a picture, on the subway, the mother is looking at a skill, the child is also picking up a book to read, the other mother is looking at the mobile phone, and the child is also staring at the mobile phone
The essence of children's education is an education of parents' self-examination, and it is a good example to teach by example.
1. Wise parents are so educating their children, believing in their children, and daring to let their children experience what they can.
The German philosopher Jaspers said: "The essence of education is that one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul." Accompany children with love, communicate with your heart, let children brave the wind and rain on the road of growth, walk all the way, give children a sunny and upward mentality, and experience the joy of natural life.
Huo Qigang once posted a group of photos of a family going to the countryside to plant seedlings on Weibo, and captioned: "On the day of hoeing, when the day of hoeing is noon, the sweat drops are under the soil, who knows the plate of Chinese food, the grains are hard." "Read it to your children every day, but do you really know the meaning behind it?" Go with your wife and children to experience seedling planting, understand the hardships of the peasant uncle, although born in the rich, but never relax the education of children.
Washington was the first president of the United States, and when he was a child, he cut down his father's two cherry trees, and his father came back very angry, thinking to himself, "If I find out who cut down my tree, I will beat him up." His father asked everywhere, and when asked about his son, Washington began to cry, "I cut down your tree", Washington and the tray came out, and the father hugged him and said, "I am such a smart child, I would rather lose - a hundred trees than listen to you panic." ″
Learn to tolerate and accompany, on the road to growth is the best education, peaceful communication, do not be too responsible for dealing with problems, so that children learn to take responsibility.
2. The mother's education is the greatest help to the child and has a far-reaching impact.
Let the child experience the ordeal appropriately, flexible and flexible, positive discipline, can benefit the child, the British educator Baru said: education begins under the mother's knee, the child listens to every word, all affect the formation of their character. The mother's attitude and conduct make the child feel empathetic.
The mother is moody, the child is terrified and worried, the mother complains about the world, the child is depressed, the mother is gentle and kind, the child is optimistic and warm, the mother is tolerant and generous, and the child is open-minded. The realm of the mother determines the fate of the child.
Tao Kan's family was poor, and once Poyang Xiaolian Fan Kui stayed with the Tao family. Tao Kan's mother, Zhan Shi, secretly crushed the new grass mat used for sleeping and fed the guests horses. Then he cut off his own hair and sold it to others to make wigs, in exchange for money to sincerely entertain Fan Kui, and even Fan Kui's servants were very satisfied. Fan Kui learned about this incident later, and said movingly: "If you are not such a mother, you cannot give birth to such a son!" So he recommended Tao Kan to Lujiang Taishou.
Mencius was very imitative when he was a child, his family used to live near the cemetery, often playing between the graves, Meng Mu looked in the eyes, anxious in the heart, the only way is to change the living environment. After some twists and turns, the mother and son of the Meng family moved their home to the vicinity of the market, and Mencius imitated the merchant to play a business game. Meng Mu thought that this environment was also inappropriate, so she decided to move again. For the third time, she moved her family to the vicinity of the academy, where there were often readers, with elegant charm, calm demeanor, elegant demeanor, Mencius followed them to learn etiquette and knowledge, Meng Mu thought that this was what Mencius should learn, so she settled down. This is the story of the famous "Mengmu Three Migrations" in history.
3. Educate the godson, first grasp the habits, and then talk about the achievements.
Parents are the best teachers of children, and only by being a role model for children can children look like them, the educator Sukhomlinsky said: Every father is a messenger, and only when the messenger continues to study and correct his own concepts and conduct, the children cultivated can stand on their own feet in the crowd.
The famous fairy tale king Zheng Yuanjie once mentioned that the reason why he has a strong interest in reading and writing, and can persist for many years, is entirely due to the influence of his father on himself in his childhood, often seeing his father lying on the desk to read and write, and he has also developed the habit of reading and writing under the influence of his ears.
Parenting is the restraint of oneself, the respect for others, and how parents practice love in the education of their children, which is not only a kind of ability, but also a kind of wisdom and art.
Life is a journey, what you care about is not the destination, but the scenery along the way and the mood of seeing the scenery, learn to appreciate the efforts made by the child in the learning process, give the child a free space, face the setbacks, and go to success, the parents are the original, the child is the copy, the parents' cultivation, imperceptibly infecting the child, how self-disciplined and wonderful on the road to growth. Educating their children well is the most important thing for parents in this life.