There is such a category of men,
They fought hard until they were thirty or forty years old, and they had a small surplus in financial resources.
Although it is not a matter of spending money like dirt, it is still not a problem to occasionally spend money like dirt.
When they were young, they were also a penniless poor egg,
Later, when I reached the age when I should get married, I became a family and gave birth to a baby.
After having money, the days suddenly idle.
Only to find out that the wife, who was also in a beautiful posture at the beginning, circled around the stove children all day without trimming.
Zhang Koudong's parents, Li jia is short, without interest and vitality.
Their eyes shifted from "wives" to "other women".
Especially, other women younger than their own age.
Men pride themselves on being animals that have always been very specific about feelings.
No matter how old you are, you always like women in your 20s.
They're full of collagen, full of energy, and the key is stupid enough.
Suddenly flashed a pair of confused eyes, I had never seen the world prosperous.
A slightly friendly and deliberate show off of wealth is enough to tease the heartstrings of a young girl.
The old men who watched the fire looked at them like hungry wolves waiting for an opportunity to see the lost little white rabbit,
A ruined soul that has undergone cruel fighting in life can't help but want to get closer.
When the 16-year-old high-value female school bully, met the funny and charming, generous thirty-year-old uncle,
Can a girl withstand the temptation to be stupid and cling to the red willow green?
The movie recommended for you today is "Growth Education",
A 16-year-old girl growing into a woman, starring Carey Mulligan.
16-year-old Jenny, who has come out of the woods, she is smart and cheerful, enrolled in the preparatory class of a girls' school in rural London, England, each test score is A+, is the teacher's eyes can be admitted to Oxford University "seed player".
Like every Chinese parent who hopes to become a phoenix, Jenny's parents are also very strict with her, music training classes, extracurricular tutoring classes, and the newspaper's decline, and strive to cultivate her daughter into a high-quality human woman.
In this kind of two-point life between school and home, Jenny has been playing the role of a well-behaved and obedient girl in the eyes of others.
However, Jenny's real inner world is actually rebellious.
For example, she likes to secretly watch movies in France, listen to French music, and has a French dream since she was a child.
Jenny's father is an old-school conservatism, and for historical reasons, her father rejects everything related to France, and Jenny has been quietly and privately confronting her father.
Jenny has her own ideas, has her own yearning life,
This sign of rebellion is both precious and dangerous for a girl who has not yet entered society.
Because she did not know that this society had established rules of operation, and those who did not want to obey the rules were like the daughters of the sea cursed by witches, and every step was like stepping on the tip of a knife, and it was difficult to take a step.
In the process, there may be a small amount of happiness, but soon the painful lesson will follow.
The pouring rain washed over the city, and the girl stood stubbornly on the side of the road waiting for the bus, as if quietly carrying out a baptism and transformation.
The girl carried her bag, carried the cello, the corners of her mouth had a faint smile, and her eyes were too clear and clean, so she stood quietly, like a daffodil with buds waiting to be released.
Middle-aged uncle David happened to see this scene in the red limited edition sports car.
He drove the car without thinking, and from the time he saw the girl to the time he drove past, in less than 20 seconds, he had already brewed a whole set of excuses to talk to him.
David made full use of the modified method of inviting the king into the urn, and under the original bronze appearance, there was a king's soul hidden.
David: Hi, I know, girls can't just get into strangers' cars. But if your cello gets wet, it's not good, you can put it in my car.
Jenny: What if you pull the piano away?
David: I can give you a deposit.
It sounds like it can't be rejected, let alone a limited edition sports car, and the value of the car at this time seems to represent the moral level of the owner.
Jenny walked slowly, and David patiently followed with his cello.
There is no deliberate greeting to please, there is no active invitation, everything is just right.
Jenny: Can I go in with my piano for shelter?
David smiled, and that was what he was waiting for.
In the pursuit of girls, China and the West seem to have no technical barriers, and they have the same destination.
In the early morning, David quietly gave Jenny beautiful flowers, and then in the afternoon he quietly appeared near the school, just in time to be touched by Jenny.
At this time, it was David's first step to test the girl, if the girl had no intention of him, she would pretend not to see, then he did not need to stalk; if the girl was interested in him, she would definitely come up to say hello, then he could pursue it further.
Apparently, Jenny admired the man in the elaborate suit, with a slightly bulging belly, gentle and elegant, well-behaved, and also met with the man to go to a noble and elegant concert on the weekend.
Here, Jenny meets David's rich second-generation friend and his girlfriend.
After the concert, they had dinner in an exquisite, atmospheric restaurant, where high-class people who looked like they were in high society and talked about new terms that Jenny had never heard before.
The things that were out of reach in Jenny's eyes seemed to be commonplace in their mouths. Everything becomes new and beautiful.
David, on the other hand, is rich but not stubborn, but also caters to Jenny's interests, always instilling in her deeper spiritual food. Such a man is something that other boys of the same age cannot give.
Jenny is convinced that she has met her true destiny and waited for another window that fate has opened for her.
At the auction, David encouraged Jenny to raise a sign and spent a lot of money to take one of her favorite paintings, which she studied and worked hard and might not be able to afford for a lifetime.
Having bought it so easily with David, she couldn't help but wonder if there were shortcuts in life, would it be necessary to read?
Soon, Jenny had beautiful clothes, expensive bags, luxury jewelry, and access to major luxury places.
After seeing the red willow green in the adult world, Jenny had no intention of studying, and her grades plummeted.
The teacher advised Jenny that for women, if they want to get the life they want, reading is the only way.
But Jenny said: I don't need to read to get what I want, attend elegant concerts, enjoy famous paintings, luxury goods, as long as I want, I can get it right away, why do I have to live that boring life?
The teacher was so intimidated that he could not speak.
David, with his eloquent and high emotional intelligence communication skills, coaxed Jenny's parents to a stunned, and he effortlessly persuaded Jenny's parents to take her on a romantic trip to Paris, France, on Jenny's 17th birthday.
During the trip, Jenny gave her precious first.
And Jenny is undoubtedly excellent and beautiful, David watched Jenny from a girl to a woman, day by day bright and moving.
David proposed to Jenny.
And the parents are also very satisfied with this marriage, after all, there are not many bachelors who drive limited edition sports cars.
Jenny also offered to drop out of school and planned to marry David.
She forgot that the past of a man in his thirties would not be a blank slate, and there must be an intricate history behind it, which was not something that a 17-year-old girl could explore.
It wasn't until Jenny discovered that David was already married and had a family that she realized that she had been fooled by this man from beginning to end.
David swore: I love you and I will divorce you.
When it came time to make a final decision, even with the courage to steal it after drinking, David drove away.
No matter how clever a woman is, she cannot face a man's dying retreat.
She finally understood that beauty is not a means of making a living, and there are no shortcuts in life.
Fortunately, she was still young, and after a mental desertion, she still had the opportunity to return to the right path.
At the end of the film, Jenny asks to go back to school and is admitted to the ideal Oxford University.
In college, she befriended a boy of the same age, and when they invited her to Paris, she acted as if she had never been there before.
No experience is meaningless, and when a girl becomes a woman, she knows how to protect herself.
Once the movie was broadcast, many people thought that Jenny was self-inflicted, who made her covet material? Deserve!
Admittedly, Jenny also paid the price for her wrong choices.
But she can't be blamed for all this.
After all, everyone is ignorant, naïve and simple, at that good age, full of phenomena in the world, like to dream.
Ask yourself, no one can stand it, the uncle in his thirties, sugar-coated shells, dimensionally reduced pursuit of a 17-year-old girl.
Nor can we say that it is immoral for old men to pursue young girls.
Because everyone has the heart to love beauty, love has nothing to do with age and identity, and everyone has the right to pursue what they love.
Of course, marital infidelity is certainly not advocated.
The film is more like a well-intentioned reminder to girls who are easily attracted to external materials not to give up their futures for the so-called shortcuts.
Love is risky, it can be the icing on the cake, but it is difficult to do it in the snow.
Sadly, similar stories are still playing out in different people.