Children's growth education

No matter how good a teacher is, it is not as good as a pair of far-sighted parents, and parents are also teaching their children ran Gaoming, who was a primary and secondary school teacher, but said: "As a teacher, I hope that parents will have a sense of participation in the issue of educating children." Don't be a good parent in the group, but be a good teacher on the road of children's education." For the vast majority of teachers, what they really need is not the praise of parents, but the fact that every parent can deeply understand one thing:

On the road of education, children are rough houses, teachers are only decoration masters, and parents are the real owners.

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The same class, the same teacher, why is the gap between children so big?

In the same class, every day is the same teacher, curriculum and homework, why are some children far ahead, and some children are reduced to the bottom? At the end of the day, it's outside of school, it's where teachers can't see —

Family.

As Minister of Education Chen Baosheng said: "Family education is not in place, which will not only offset the effect of school education, but also have a certain negative impact on children's development." "I once saw such a picture on the Internet: there was a child in the class who did not turn in math homework five times, and the teacher sent messages many times to remind parents, but I did not expect that when the teacher went to urge again, he was actually blocked by the parents, which was really angry and helpless.

Many parents feel that since the child was sent to school, then the child's grade should be fully responsible for the teacher, in fact, the teacher can teach the child knowledge, but there is no way to cultivate the child's good learning habits; the teacher can teach the child to solve the problem, but there is no way to give the child an interest in learning, not so much that the difference between the children is the grade, is the score, but rather that the parent's attitude determines the child's gap.

You know, educating children is the most important cause of parents' lives, as a parent, there is no need to have the conditions for prosperity, but there must be foresight; not necessarily to learn to be rich, but must firmly believe in the power of knowledge, after all, parents are the masters of their children's fate, remember what the mother of "genius girl" Wu Yishu said? "Genius does not exist, and any good child is not a miracle of birth, but a trace of cause and effect, its cause, in the family. It's rooted in the parents. "The attitude of parents is to give their children the most weighty love, which is related to the fate of their lives."

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It is the teacher who teaches, but it must be the parents who educate people, Han Yu wrote in the "Teacher's Saying": "Teacher, so preaching is also solved by karma" Means that the teacher is the person who teaches the truth to the students, teaches the school, and solves difficult questions, but in the word "education", if there is only the "teaching" of the teacher, but there is no "education" of the parents, in the final analysis, or incomplete education, in the process of growing up, almost all children have more or less lied No matter when, the parents are your strongest backing.

What is the ultimate goal of education?

I believe that most parents will answer that their children will become a better person, but in fact, the foundation of education is always to educate people first. "Growing up is far more important than success, nurturing a child is like planting a tree, only by nourishing him first at the root, and then irrigating it with the nourishment of virtue, the child can grow up and be closer to the sun."

How far a child can go in the future is not to look at his achievements, but to look at his character and cultivation, if the teacher's duty is to preach, teach, and solve puzzles, then the burden of educating people, parents must pick it up without hesitation.

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The most taboo thing in education is that parents regard educating children as a task assigned by teachers, and education is a career that can change children's lives.

But in life, there is such a type of parent, the teacher said that the child does not write homework? When the child has a problem, the teacher tells the parents, but the parents feel that this is the teacher "assigning tasks" and "finding trouble" for themselves.

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Teachers can only accompany children for a ride, parents are never retired class teachers, but in fact, although teachers can teach children knowledge and tell children the truth, but even the best teachers are not as good as parents' words and deeds.

What's more, the teacher is only one person, but he has to face so many students, many things, they are really powerless.

But parents are different, parents are the child's lifelong teachers, is never retired class teacher, watering the child's flower of life, relying on parents never give up.

A while ago, a father found that his son was bored with school, but he did not scold the child, but chose to communicate with the child. In the interview, the son said: "I still want to read, I want to study well in the future."

Raising children, it is never enough for children to eat and wear warm, children have a long way to go in the future, what they need is friends who can fight side by side, and they are examples who can learn to imitate, and all of this, only parents can afford.

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Children are rough houses, teachers are just decoration masters, parents are the real owners, and there is a formula circulating in the education industry: "5-2 =0"

To put it simply, the child's education in the school for 5 days has achieved initial results, but if the family education cannot keep up with the weekend for 2 days, the result is still in place, and the teacher can only feel helpless.

But your child is only one of the many students of the teacher, and the teacher can only sigh even if he is helpless.

But you are different, as the child's parents, you are the only person the child can rely on, but also the child's lifelong follow and imitation of the object, education itself, in fact, is a thing that can not be lazy, if the child needs the parents most, dump him to the teacher, just like the thunder planted in advance, one day will end in the form of tragedy.

Visionary parents always regard themselves as the first responsible person on the road to education.

They know that no matter how good a teacher is, no match is better than what their parents teach by word and deed; no matter how good a school is, they are not as good as their parents. If you want to ruin the future of the child, you dare to be a hand-throwing treasurer, the responsibility of education to the teacher, if it is really good for the child, parents must have some responsibility, accompany the child to grow up, after all, on the road of education, the child is a rough room, the teacher is just the decoration master, the parents are the real owners.