We say that love is like a marathon, everyone can choose to start, but not necessarily to the end. When running a marathon, everyone is very passionate at the beginning, thinking that they will be able to run the whole distance easily, but often many people can't stick to the middle of the marathon, simply give up, only some people can insist on reaching the end.
Love is the same, lovers who have just fallen in love are very passionate, feel that each other is their own lifelong partners, and firmly believe that they can grow old. However, after a period of passionate love, both parties will return to rationality and face a problem - reality. Some people say that most lovers will face this choice - only one choice between bread and love, which is an eternal problem, some people can break through, but a few, and some people to the half, can not adapt, simply give up, such as "become . Austin".
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Today I want to analyze this classic for you, the score on Douban reached 8.3, and it also won the British romance list, which is worth watching.
The most popular female writer of all time, Jane. Austin's First Love Secret debuts on the screen, which is based on her autobiography based on her true story, and is directed by the famous actress Anne Lee. Hathaway plays the heroine, and many people still feel sorry for the life of this 42-year-old "older leftover girl" legend.
Jane Austen, unmarried, wrote 6 novels, all of which are handed down to the world, and the views of marriage and love that he talks about still have modern significance.
Her mother tried her best to broker marriages for the wealthy people of the upper class. But Jane does not accept marriage without love, believing that women have to support themselves on their own ability. So she rejected the marriage proposal of the nobleman Monsieur Vasley and fell in love with the psychic Tom Lefroy.
Good things are a lot of grinding, and some people obstruct it, resulting in Tom's family not approving of the marriage between the two, and Tom decides to elope with Jane. But then Tom's financial resources will be cut off, and Jane will face worldly pressures and a life of poverty. How far will the two of them go on the elopement? Will there be a happy ending? In Jane's short life of 42 years, nothing constituted a happy reality because of her kindness and piety. She was lonely and poor all her life, unable to enter into marriage with the people she loved, and could only inject her yearning for love and her perception of beauty into the life that was written on three inches of ivory.
The ending of the film is deeply moving: the famous Jane meets Tom with her daughter, and suddenly hears Tom call her eldest daughter "Jane". Suddenly, Jane's face skimmed a trace of comfort that was not easily perceived, so she cordially took Jane's hand and recited "Pride and Prejudice" to all those present. The story is not complicated, and those who have a heart must understand it, and Tom, who has become a father, must also understand it. For Jane, who has never been married in her life, the film arrangement is also a comfort.
Love can withstand the wind and rain, but it cannot withstand the ordinary - Zhang Ailing is right.
Jane she can't go with Tom, your happiness involves too many people's lives, such love, it is inevitable a little selfish. She's not as strong as you think she is. Not really.
I remember the two of them on the stairs, Tom holding up the candlestick, his eyes jumping brightly. You are all serious about your hopes. So when Jane came back, she wanted to look back more, and she wanted to be desperate. But she didn't. Love really should make people better spread their wings to pursue their dreams. Even without Tom, Jane can't get lost, lose herself, so that it is impossible to adapt, and in the end it is empty. When "love is fascinating, but money is indispensable", do you choose love or bread? In fact, there are very few feelings of love and bread, and even if the two are taken into account, they will be inclined to one party and will not achieve balance. Feelings are a matter of two people, saying that the simple point is a matter of two people, saying that the complexity is a lifelong thing of two people, love and bread are very important, indispensable. Partial to love, it is difficult to live a lifetime without bread, partial to bread, it is difficult to get along without love for a lifetime! This is the contradiction! So the ultimate answer to this question actually depends on gender and what you have now, if you have bread, you must not feel the pain of not having bread, and go desperately to pursue love, if you do not have money, naturally expect change, and need to find a partner who can raise offspring, then the economy is the first.
Young girls, growing up under the care of their parents, have no worries about food and clothing, they do not understand the importance of bread in marriage, they just simply pursue love, after all, for them at this stage, love is supreme and sacred.
For women who have been in marriage for decades, bread is a must for marriage, and love has become a luxury in marriage. Without bread, the road to marriage is difficult. In their eyes, love is worthless in front of bread.
I remember watching a fresh Japanese drama "Kai's New Life" these two days, and the authorities confessed to Ah Kai that he wanted to invite her to live with him in the new house and said that he would slowly grow old with her. But Ah Wei rejected him with one mouthful, saying: "It must be very happy to be with you, but if you blindly ask for it, you can't adapt, I also want to have my own ideals like you, warm and comfortable people around me, thank you for accompanying me all summer" When she re-examines her life, finds goals, and prepares to achieve, she has already gained a new life, grown in healing, and found self-worth, who said that she did not find love and bread? The ending gives an open-ended vision, guess what?
brief summary:
1. Bread and love complement each other and are indispensable.
2, no matter what you choose, it is just the beginning, the road ahead, I hope you can always go on without looking back.
3. May you meet good people and may you love yourself.
In short, I like this romance film very much, I am not in the spoiler here, friends who like this European romance may wish to go and see it! Accompany you to enjoy the good drama, I am full of vitality maple leaf flying, share more dry goods, please pay attention to me for my praise, thank you, see you in the next issue!