Wen 丨 Quiet moon and bright sun
"Sweet" is an urban women's inspirational drama starring Haiqing and Ren Zhong, the heroine Tian Mi (played by Haiqing) is an upper-class noblewoman, her husband is responsible for earning money to support her family, she is responsible for being beautiful as a flower, her husband is desperately trying her best for the company's cause, all things are carried by herself, the wife is responsible for driving a luxury car to do the public welfare she likes to do, telling stories for the students of Hope Primary School, funding poor college students, and saving "Wang Xingren" in the water.
Who knows, the husband suddenly died of a sudden cerebral infarction, leaving the wife with a butt of foreign debt, the house, the car, jewelry, all the valuables of the bag were bought, and there were tens of millions of debts waiting to be repaid, the husband's debt wife paid back, the heroine Tian Mi opened the drama from a noblewoman to a widow, from the high class to the bottom, however, according to the routine of the domestic drama, there is also the protagonist's aura blessing, Tian Mi will definitely turn against the wind, but the length of time.
Today, don't talk about the main line, talk about the side line, the old men and women in the sunshine community, first talk about the parents of the male protagonist Changsheng.
His retired father Chang Zilong (played by Liu Jiaoxin) and his mother Cai Dongmei (played by He Saifei) have opened a chess and card room in the community, one in order to earn some coffin money, and the other to be able to play the residual heat to facilitate the neighbors.
Usually, Chang Zilong is responsible for the daily management of the chess and card room, and the money earned has also set up a separate account, just to save some pension money. Cai Dongmei is the leader and head of the square dance in the sunshine, and is occasionally responsible for going to the chess and card room to help her husband play a hand, and the three vacancies can be filled for.
The family's financial power is Cai Dongmei's mastery, the usual financial products are also her responsible for buying, in order to take advantage of a little cheap, earn more interest, Cai Dongmei lent 1 million to the boss of Sweet Technology, that is, the husband of the heroine Tian Mi, Liu Deen, not only borrowed it himself, but also shook the left and right neighbors to "invest", the result liu De'en died unexpectedly, making everyone panic, fortunately, Liu Deen's widow Tian Mi confessed, everyone was relieved.
However, the plot is the plot, but through this matter also metaphor for us: "Private lending is unreliable, can not blindly invest, no matter how familiar people are, even if there is a contract." ”
In short, in a word, the elderly must be cautious in investment, and can not pick up sesame seeds and lose watermelon, once deceived, light will affect the feelings of husband and wife, heavy may make the family break up.
This is not, Cai Dongmei because of the slow speed of the mobile phone, in the group can not grab the red envelope was ridiculed by the sister Zhang Qiuju, the competitive she will not allow others to look down on herself, anyway, she has the financial power, she secretly took 6860 yuan from the chess and card room account operated by Chang Zilong, and bought a good mobile phone for herself.
After getting the new mobile phone, Cai Dongmei loved it, and there was no time to eat, Chang Zilong said: "You really can, a broken mobile phone for 2 hours, I see that you are really idle", Cai Dongmei replied: "Cough, broken mobile phone, new model, new model."
"I know, you don't have anything else by yourself, you're very good at spending money, I don't know you yet," Chang Zilong said dismissively.
"New model, new model, how much do you buy that thing?"said Chang Zilong, continuing to ask.
"Say it scared you to death, 6860 yuan," Cai Dongmei said as he drew a line.
"How much, 6860, where do you get so much money, you have to ruin this family."
"You hurry up and give me back, this day can't pass, I want to divorce your mother." Chang Zilong angrily called his son Chang Sheng.
In the end, Chang Sheng returned home to give his parents and thin mud, and finally thought of a compromise solution, he paid for his mother, transferred the money to his father, and his father gave up.
Many netizens feel that Chang Zilong is too picky and will argue to divorce his wife for a mobile phone. In fact, I think Chang Zilong is not excessive, he is letting his wife remember sex for a long time.
Before, Chang Zilong was only responsible for making money, not responsible for managing money, one is because he loves his wife, he doesn't want his wife to work too hard, and the other is to put the money in his wife more at ease, who knows that the wife is a bit greedy and cheap, and lent 1 million to Liu Deen, so that the whole family has no good days, not to say, but also tired of the neighbors.
At present, relying on Tian Mi for a while and a half can not repay the loan, the family to determine a little difficult, fortunately in the operation of a chess and card room, there is a flow of money, good gangsters can also save some money. Did not think, Cai Dongmei for the sake of face, actually went to buy such an expensive mobile phone, in Chang Zilong's cognition, our family is now a difficult period, can not spend money indiscriminately, always have to be responsible for their own pension.
In fact, from Chang Zilong's point of view, his "cutting" is also reasonable, and there is nothing wrong with preventing problems before they occur. However, as a competitive woman Cai Dongmei, do not want other women to look down on themselves, is not just a mobile phone, you Chang Zilong as for me so big temper?
Also, every time I quarrel, I say that I am a loser, and that 1 million, is it my willingness? I didn't know that Liu De'en would suddenly hang up, wasn't I just trying to make more money, didn't you cut the door like this?
Cai Dongmei, feel that he is wronged, before my husband never gave me a loud talk, now he does not love me, I buy a mobile phone he is so slammed the door, my investment failure is not my supervisor's mistake, etc., anyway, are looking for their own steps.
This is the idea of being spoiled by men, because a woman who has been coddled for decades is suddenly not pampered, and she is a little unaccustomed.
In marriage, when one party is accustomed to the other party's kindness to himself, once the other party does not obey him, he feels that the other party does not love himself, this kind of thinking is really terrible.
Parents want to divorce, how to balance the children?
This problem, in the play Chang Sheng also did a good job, received a call from the parents, first of all to let the parents calm, and then listen to the two sides to state the problem, after figuring out the problem, help the parents to solve the problem, is the best solution.
First of all, we must not take sides in our position, we must not add fuel to the fire, and we must find the focus of contradictions according to the specific situation and resolve them.
Secondly, according to the focus to resolve the contradiction, often win the focus of the parents' contradiction: money, 1 million investment is adrift. Before, the relationship between the parents was very good, because of the investment failure, the father Chang Zilong had opinions and dissatisfaction with his mother Cai Dongmei.
As Chang Zilong said: "If the 1 million is still in our account, you want to buy a good mobile phone, bite your teeth and buy a mobile phone, but unfortunately now our account is not without money, you are called impulsive consumption." ”
Changsheng, as a former wealth consultant, is well versed in the focus of the contradiction between his parents, so he took the pulse very accurately, immediately shifted the topic and said that his mother was about to celebrate his birthday, originally wanted to buy a good mobile phone for his mother, this is not, my mother bought, I will reimburse it, I will return the money to my father, the problem will be solved.
Then again, in fact, Chang Zilong is not reluctant to buy a good mobile phone for his wife, but feels that the family is a special period (the investment of 1 million failed, the son has just divorced, resigned, and there are more places to spend money in the future), you are a retired family, buying such an expensive mobile phone is not necessary, why compare with others.
A family, especially when it comes to money and investment, especially the elderly, should be more cautious, and must not lose big because of small things, and let family conflicts escalate for money. If there is an investment, it is best to discuss and communicate with your wife or children before making a decision.
Chang Sheng in the "Sweet" drama is an excellent wealth consultant, if he knew, he would never let his mother invest in Liu Deen, right.
So the question is, as a parent Chang Zilong, do you think he does not let his wife buy such an expensive mobile phone, is he slamming the door, or his wife Cai Dongmei is willful?
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